Serious topic...my girlfriend got attacked last night.

[natelav129]

cant believe yall jokin with this man about something this serious that just happend to his girl......

sorry to hear man, thats terrible
you gotta take what ya girl gives you though, if she feels handeling it a certain way is best for her, just let it be

either way this will take a serious amount of time, if ever, to get over

 

[John Wick]

damn yo what is up with these guys raping women smh

 

[nubiandisaster]

I don't know what you can do exactly. Just be there. Let her know that you care, and that you love her.
Def try to get her into therapy. Don't ask her what happened over and over again.
Let her cry, Just be there to embrace her.


Wow. I hope she gets through this.

 

[capricorn1229]

It's gonna get intense.

 

[mases apprentice]

Originally Posted by mondaynightraw

Originally Posted by EnZo007

I know half the time this board isn't serious by any means, but right now I gotta vent. And sometimes NT is a great place for it.
Last night my girlfriend who I've dated for about 4 years now came home from work. She's a bartender and works at a few

different night clubs. Anyway coming home late last night she was going to her car with a co-worker who she was gonna get a ride home

with when a couple of dudes came up on her and wouldn't leave her alone. After trying to blow them off  and get in the car

they basically grabbed her, beat her and her friend up and raped her.

Sad thing is she's about a 3 hour plane ride away from me since I'm in Houston for the final four. I get a call today saying all this stuff 

happened and how she's in the hospital getting checked out and doing the police reports and stuff. Now I'm flying out tomorrow early

to go home but I mean my real question here is...what do I do? What do I say? Im beside myself here and can't believe this actually happened

. I don't want to goto my friends about this cause its not something she wants getting out, and I dont want them to know either. 

She basically wants to play it cool like nothing happened, but is this the right thing to do? I mean I've had problems to deal with in my life

but nothing on this level. Should I force her to goto therapy? I mean myself I'm pretty devastated about it, but can never imagine 

what she's going through. I'm just having a tough time dealing with this and if any of you guys know a fat guy in St. Catharines, Ontario

with a star tattoo on his hand and wears a LA dodgers hat let me know.

But seriously guys help me out here, I wanna be there for her in the best way possible you know. If any of you guys have had a similar 

experience let me know.

so a women gets attacked and raped. and you wanted to post a gif? trying to be funny?
you're a straight up LAME. 

 

[mases apprentice]

Originally Posted by mondaynightraw

Originally Posted by EnZo007

I know half the time this board isn't serious by any means, but right now I gotta vent. And sometimes NT is a great place for it.
Last night my girlfriend who I've dated for about 4 years now came home from work. She's a bartender and works at a few

different night clubs. Anyway coming home late last night she was going to her car with a co-worker who she was gonna get a ride home

with when a couple of dudes came up on her and wouldn't leave her alone. After trying to blow them off  and get in the car

they basically grabbed her, beat her and her friend up and raped her.

Sad thing is she's about a 3 hour plane ride away from me since I'm in Houston for the final four. I get a call today saying all this stuff 

happened and how she's in the hospital getting checked out and doing the police reports and stuff. Now I'm flying out tomorrow early

to go home but I mean my real question here is...what do I do? What do I say? Im beside myself here and can't believe this actually happened

. I don't want to goto my friends about this cause its not something she wants getting out, and I dont want them to know either. 

She basically wants to play it cool like nothing happened, but is this the right thing to do? I mean I've had problems to deal with in my life

but nothing on this level. Should I force her to goto therapy? I mean myself I'm pretty devastated about it, but can never imagine 

what she's going through. I'm just having a tough time dealing with this and if any of you guys know a fat guy in St. Catharines, Ontario

with a star tattoo on his hand and wears a LA dodgers hat let me know.

But seriously guys help me out here, I wanna be there for her in the best way possible you know. If any of you guys have had a similar 

experience let me know.

so a women gets attacked and raped. and you wanted to post a gif? trying to be funny?
you're a straight up LAME. 

 

[mytmouse76]

just be there for her...

you can't force her to go to therapy but i don't think it would be best for her to pretend it didn't happen

just take your cues from her...if she wants to talk listen...if she kinda shuts you out just be there...your presence may just be enough when she doesn't feel like talking...

honestly be prepared for a rocky road...

 

[capricorn1229]

It's gonna get intense.

 

[mytmouse76]

just be there for her...

you can't force her to go to therapy but i don't think it would be best for her to pretend it didn't happen

just take your cues from her...if she wants to talk listen...if she kinda shuts you out just be there...your presence may just be enough when she doesn't feel like talking...

honestly be prepared for a rocky road...

 

[menacin methods]

Couple months back their was a show about rape victims....It's said  girls who get raped don't report it or they act like it never happened because they feel so helpless that they want to completely forget about it......you need to encourage her to go to therapy. 

 

[Johnny_Cakes]

Originally Posted by Furrell

Do you get life for murder in Ontario? I don't think any jury would convict you given the circumstances.

Absolutely disgusting. Rape is worse than murder.

That's how I feel in my heart.

 

[Johnny_Cakes]

Originally Posted by Furrell

Do you get life for murder in Ontario? I don't think any jury would convict you given the circumstances.

Absolutely disgusting. Rape is worse than murder.

That's how I feel in my heart.

 

[menacin methods]

Couple months back their was a show about rape victims....It's said  girls who get raped don't report it or they act like it never happened because they feel so helpless that they want to completely forget about it......you need to encourage her to go to therapy. 

 

[novaflight]

Sorry to hear that dude.

You just gotta be strong for the both of you.

 

[mondaynightraw]

Originally Posted by mases apprentice

Originally Posted by mondaynightraw

Originally Posted by EnZo007

I know half the time this board isn't serious by any means, but right now I gotta vent. And sometimes NT is a great place for it.
Last night my girlfriend who I've dated for about 4 years now came home from work. She's a bartender and works at a few

different night clubs. Anyway coming home late last night she was going to her car with a co-worker who she was gonna get a ride home

with when a couple of dudes came up on her and wouldn't leave her alone. After trying to blow them off  and get in the car

they basically grabbed her, beat her and her friend up and raped her.

Sad thing is she's about a 3 hour plane ride away from me since I'm in Houston for the final four. I get a call today saying all this stuff 

happened and how she's in the hospital getting checked out and doing the police reports and stuff. Now I'm flying out tomorrow early

to go home but I mean my real question here is...what do I do? What do I say? Im beside myself here and can't believe this actually happened

. I don't want to goto my friends about this cause its not something she wants getting out, and I dont want them to know either. 

She basically wants to play it cool like nothing happened, but is this the right thing to do? I mean I've had problems to deal with in my life

but nothing on this level. Should I force her to goto therapy? I mean myself I'm pretty devastated about it, but can never imagine 

what she's going through. I'm just having a tough time dealing with this and if any of you guys know a fat guy in St. Catharines, Ontario

with a star tattoo on his hand and wears a LA dodgers hat let me know.

But seriously guys help me out here, I wanna be there for her in the best way possible you know. If any of you guys have had a similar 

experience let me know.

so a women gets attacked and raped. and you wanted to post a gif? trying to be funny?
you're a straight up LAME. 

Didn't read it

Anyway, you shouldn't be posting that type of $%## on here anyway. Go to the police OP

 

[mondaynightraw]

Originally Posted by mases apprentice

Originally Posted by mondaynightraw

Originally Posted by EnZo007

I know half the time this board isn't serious by any means, but right now I gotta vent. And sometimes NT is a great place for it.
Last night my girlfriend who I've dated for about 4 years now came home from work. She's a bartender and works at a few

different night clubs. Anyway coming home late last night she was going to her car with a co-worker who she was gonna get a ride home

with when a couple of dudes came up on her and wouldn't leave her alone. After trying to blow them off  and get in the car

they basically grabbed her, beat her and her friend up and raped her.

Sad thing is she's about a 3 hour plane ride away from me since I'm in Houston for the final four. I get a call today saying all this stuff 

happened and how she's in the hospital getting checked out and doing the police reports and stuff. Now I'm flying out tomorrow early

to go home but I mean my real question here is...what do I do? What do I say? Im beside myself here and can't believe this actually happened

. I don't want to goto my friends about this cause its not something she wants getting out, and I dont want them to know either. 

She basically wants to play it cool like nothing happened, but is this the right thing to do? I mean I've had problems to deal with in my life

but nothing on this level. Should I force her to goto therapy? I mean myself I'm pretty devastated about it, but can never imagine 

what she's going through. I'm just having a tough time dealing with this and if any of you guys know a fat guy in St. Catharines, Ontario

with a star tattoo on his hand and wears a LA dodgers hat let me know.

But seriously guys help me out here, I wanna be there for her in the best way possible you know. If any of you guys have had a similar 

experience let me know.

so a women gets attacked and raped. and you wanted to post a gif? trying to be funny?
you're a straight up LAME. 

Didn't read it

Anyway, you shouldn't be posting that type of $%## on here anyway. Go to the police OP

 

[novaflight]

Sorry to hear that dude.

You just gotta be strong for the both of you.

 

[slimk4]

Originally Posted by mases apprentice

Originally Posted by mondaynightraw

Originally Posted by EnZo007

I know half the time this board isn't serious by any means, but right now I gotta vent. And sometimes NT is a great place for it.
Last night my girlfriend who I've dated for about 4 years now came home from work. She's a bartender and works at a few

different night clubs. Anyway coming home late last night she was going to her car with a co-worker who she was gonna get a ride home

with when a couple of dudes came up on her and wouldn't leave her alone. After trying to blow them off  and get in the car

they basically grabbed her, beat her and her friend up and raped her.

Sad thing is she's about a 3 hour plane ride away from me since I'm in Houston for the final four. I get a call today saying all this stuff 

happened and how she's in the hospital getting checked out and doing the police reports and stuff. Now I'm flying out tomorrow early

to go home but I mean my real question here is...what do I do? What do I say? Im beside myself here and can't believe this actually happened

. I don't want to goto my friends about this cause its not something she wants getting out, and I dont want them to know either. 

She basically wants to play it cool like nothing happened, but is this the right thing to do? I mean I've had problems to deal with in my life

but nothing on this level. Should I force her to goto therapy? I mean myself I'm pretty devastated about it, but can never imagine 

what she's going through. I'm just having a tough time dealing with this and if any of you guys know a fat guy in St. Catharines, Ontario

with a star tattoo on his hand and wears a LA dodgers hat let me know.

But seriously guys help me out here, I wanna be there for her in the best way possible you know. If any of you guys have had a similar 

experience let me know.

so a women gets attacked and raped. and you wanted to post a gif? trying to be funny?
you're a straight up LAME. 

QFT.....you should be disgusted with yourself....obviously you dont have a sister and def you dont have a sig other in your life to joke around like this 

 

[Deleted member 38307]

Damn man, I'm sorry to hear that. I've had a similar experience with my ex-girlfriend. But what happened to her happened before we met. It's really frustrating because all you can really do is be there for her, don't force her to do anything she doesn't want to. She's definitely gonna be messed up because of it, getting raped can really @%!% with a girl's mentality, she might blame herself, she might be mad at the world, there's a variety of ways she might take it. PM me if you wanna talk about it.

 

[slimk4]

Originally Posted by mases apprentice

Originally Posted by mondaynightraw

Originally Posted by EnZo007

I know half the time this board isn't serious by any means, but right now I gotta vent. And sometimes NT is a great place for it.
Last night my girlfriend who I've dated for about 4 years now came home from work. She's a bartender and works at a few

different night clubs. Anyway coming home late last night she was going to her car with a co-worker who she was gonna get a ride home

with when a couple of dudes came up on her and wouldn't leave her alone. After trying to blow them off  and get in the car

they basically grabbed her, beat her and her friend up and raped her.

Sad thing is she's about a 3 hour plane ride away from me since I'm in Houston for the final four. I get a call today saying all this stuff 

happened and how she's in the hospital getting checked out and doing the police reports and stuff. Now I'm flying out tomorrow early

to go home but I mean my real question here is...what do I do? What do I say? Im beside myself here and can't believe this actually happened

. I don't want to goto my friends about this cause its not something she wants getting out, and I dont want them to know either. 

She basically wants to play it cool like nothing happened, but is this the right thing to do? I mean I've had problems to deal with in my life

but nothing on this level. Should I force her to goto therapy? I mean myself I'm pretty devastated about it, but can never imagine 

what she's going through. I'm just having a tough time dealing with this and if any of you guys know a fat guy in St. Catharines, Ontario

with a star tattoo on his hand and wears a LA dodgers hat let me know.

But seriously guys help me out here, I wanna be there for her in the best way possible you know. If any of you guys have had a similar 

experience let me know.

so a women gets attacked and raped. and you wanted to post a gif? trying to be funny?
you're a straight up LAME. 

QFT.....you should be disgusted with yourself....obviously you dont have a sister and def you dont have a sig other in your life to joke around like this 

 

[Deleted member 38307]

Damn man, I'm sorry to hear that. I've had a similar experience with my ex-girlfriend. But what happened to her happened before we met. It's really frustrating because all you can really do is be there for her, don't force her to do anything she doesn't want to. She's definitely gonna be messed up because of it, getting raped can really @%!% with a girl's mentality, she might blame herself, she might be mad at the world, there's a variety of ways she might take it. PM me if you wanna talk about it.

 

[mplsdunk]

Damn bro I'm sorry. I don't have any advice but I wish you two the best.

 

[elpablo21]

Got Damn,

I probably would have snapped and try to find those dudes before the cops did

Stay strong and try to support your girl anyway you can

 

[elpablo21]

Got Damn,

I probably would have snapped and try to find those dudes before the cops did

Stay strong and try to support your girl anyway you can

 

[mplsdunk]

Damn bro I'm sorry. I don't have any advice but I wish you two the best.