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i think i can yell enough to make a clear message when i have kids, but if i need to spank, then i'm sure they will think twice before doing whatever they did to get them in trouble.
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Originally Posted by xX LeGod Xx
Nah man, Imma put them in timeout to learn their lesson.
Originally Posted by xX LeGod Xx
Nah man, Imma put them in timeout to learn their lesson.
Originally Posted by ncmalko1
People are going to deny this because it hurts too much emotionally to accept this FACT. Do research on any Psychologist that has done long term studies. It is 100% PROVEN fact that spanking your child does ABSOLUTELY NOTHING. There are gonna be 50 people on here come up with some BS rationale because they spank or got spanked but it has been proven (just like the earth isnt flat) that spanking does NOT change behavior even though at the moment it appears to. It teaches your child one thing and one thing only IF SOMEONE BIGGER THEN YOU DOESNT LIKE WHAT YOU DID THEN YOU CAN PHYSICALLY HURT THEM. THat is the only thing they learn. Now you people in denial can start posting BS rationale because it hurts too much to accept this FACT.
Originally Posted by ncmalko1
People are going to deny this because it hurts too much emotionally to accept this FACT. Do research on any Psychologist that has done long term studies. It is 100% PROVEN fact that spanking your child does ABSOLUTELY NOTHING. There are gonna be 50 people on here come up with some BS rationale because they spank or got spanked but it has been proven (just like the earth isnt flat) that spanking does NOT change behavior even though at the moment it appears to. It teaches your child one thing and one thing only IF SOMEONE BIGGER THEN YOU DOESNT LIKE WHAT YOU DID THEN YOU CAN PHYSICALLY HURT THEM. THat is the only thing they learn. Now you people in denial can start posting BS rationale because it hurts too much to accept this FACT.
This. Only for serious offenses though.Originally Posted by Beacon ave south
You see the way kids are acting nowadays? Damn straight when i have kids theyre gonna get it if they misbehave.
This. Only for serious offenses though.Originally Posted by Beacon ave south
You see the way kids are acting nowadays? Damn straight when i have kids theyre gonna get it if they misbehave.
Originally Posted by JoseBronx
Originally Posted by lyricist343
I believe only outside of america it is still deemed a form of discipline.
have you watched the maury show?
Im sure many of us got this
Originally Posted by JoseBronx
Originally Posted by lyricist343
I believe only outside of america it is still deemed a form of discipline.
have you watched the maury show?
Im sure many of us got this
Originally Posted by BK201
Interesting point.Originally Posted by Its That Dude
If it reaches the point where you have to physically discipline your children, you have failed at parenting.
There was study done...sorry I tried googling it but for the life of me I can't find the source but I'm not pulling these statistics out of the air.
The study said that 85% of parents that spank their children feel aggravated, mad, etc when they spank their children.
Does that stat alarm anyone? I mean being mad can only lead to more abusive behavior.
Edit found it. Here's the exert I was talking about.
Doty is certainly not the only parent who has spanked in anger and frustration. According to the SUNY study, 85 percent of parents report feeling angry and agitated when they spank. And those emotions can be difficult to rein in. "The intensity will continue to rise if the parent continues to be physical," says Dr. Coleman. And that increases the risk of abuse.
Originally Posted by politicsasusual
Originally Posted by BK201
Example: Kid blatantly takes candy from store and eats it. Kid gets spanked. Kid learns how to steal candy without getting caught.
Kid takes candy. Parent explains why that is not okay. Kid learns that stealing is wrong. Later applies that to things later on in life.
So the parent that spanks their child nonchalantly omits justifying the punishment received?
Ok.
Originally Posted by BK201
Interesting point.Originally Posted by Its That Dude
If it reaches the point where you have to physically discipline your children, you have failed at parenting.
There was study done...sorry I tried googling it but for the life of me I can't find the source but I'm not pulling these statistics out of the air.
The study said that 85% of parents that spank their children feel aggravated, mad, etc when they spank their children.
Does that stat alarm anyone? I mean being mad can only lead to more abusive behavior.
Edit found it. Here's the exert I was talking about.
Doty is certainly not the only parent who has spanked in anger and frustration. According to the SUNY study, 85 percent of parents report feeling angry and agitated when they spank. And those emotions can be difficult to rein in. "The intensity will continue to rise if the parent continues to be physical," says Dr. Coleman. And that increases the risk of abuse.
Originally Posted by politicsasusual
Originally Posted by BK201
Example: Kid blatantly takes candy from store and eats it. Kid gets spanked. Kid learns how to steal candy without getting caught.
Kid takes candy. Parent explains why that is not okay. Kid learns that stealing is wrong. Later applies that to things later on in life.
So the parent that spanks their child nonchalantly omits justifying the punishment received?
Ok.
Complete BS. You can't compare humans to inanimate objects such as the Earth being flat and you can't make conclusions with what people learn.Originally Posted by ncmalko1
People are going to deny this because it hurts too much emotionally to accept this FACT. Do research on any Psychologist that has done long term studies. It is 100% PROVEN fact that spanking your child does ABSOLUTELY NOTHING. There are gonna be 50 people on here come up with some BS rationale because they spank or got spanked but it has been proven (just like the earth isnt flat) that spanking does NOT change behavior even though at the moment it appears to. It teaches your child one thing and one thing only IF SOMEONE BIGGER THEN YOU DOESNT LIKE WHAT YOU DID THEN YOU CAN PHYSICALLY HURT THEM. THat is the only thing they learn. Now you people in denial can start posting BS rationale because it hurts too much to accept this FACT.