TAY: IT'S A MAN THING GINA

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Agreed. It's one thing if the chick doesnt tell you she had a man but when you know and you still go after it, karma will eat you alive. Trust me...

But like I said earlier, a dude thinking with the "other" head is the most ruthless person on the planet :lol

Agree, agree, agree.
 
Agreed. It's one thing if the chick doesnt tell you she had a man but when you know and you still go after it, karma will eat you alive. Trust me...

But like I said earlier, a dude thinking with the "other" head is the most ruthless person on the planet :lol

I don't believe in karma but I do believe bad things will eventually happen to bad people simply because they keep putting themselves in bad situations
 
Dammnn my main freak back home is pregnant it's not my child I know for a fact I haven't since December...but I'm not gonna front this one hurt
 
Man I already know it is what it is



I'm out here tonight in downtown bethesda with you 2 lil freaks Tryna see what's poppin they out here in stripper wear smhh lol
 
Suppose to hit downtown Fullerton 2morrow night bar hopping any tips spots to check out...my first time
 
That he loved*

Way easier to exert anger on someone you have no feelings for.
Women love fast men love hard...
That statement alone tells you.


If ur smashing at an efficient rate, ur not messing with another man's girl. It's just a fact :smokin

It seems like all the guys that are smashing in here agree with me 8o
I just read 3 full pages of ecook droppin knowledge and gems and dudes still just going against the grain.

Wouldnt it be more alpha to smash another mans girl?

Your basically sonning him or acting like a based god banging his girl and he knows it
No that makes you a low life piece of scum...
How can we claim to be more sophisticated than animals with that type of mind frame.

As ecook has been saying..how desperate are you to get P from someone already wifed up....yet half of you wont drive 45 mins for P????
 
 
Go ahead and smash that my friend. Srs. Dude's gotten after girls you were vibing with, and it's your turn. After you do it, tell him about it. He's just gonna have to respect it, especially if it's not on some FB official stuff. If I have a friend who has a regular booty call and she ends up throwing it at me, I'm smashing for sure (if it's one of the friends that would do the same to me). 
That's exactly what it is and that's how she sees it too, but it seem like he's trying to do more which is why I'm playing it cool. But I am glad at least one person sees where I'm coming from on this one.
Just leave her alone homie and let him learn. Chick is playing him with "best friend" and it's karma that's pulling the strings with this situation especially since you mentioned he has no boundaries on stepping to chicks you've been working on
I think that's the route I'll probably take just in case he gets overly sensitive.
If ur already telling dude and he's not listening... Let him take that L.

Same type of thing happened with one of my closest friends last summer, got heart broken and still does the same type of stuff. Every girl he meets he takes on dates. As in full blown dinner at a nice spot and pays.

Only thing you can do is hope they listen.
Is it possible to help someone overcome simp syndrome? Because I'm dealing with a full blown case on this one. I don't want my friends illness to develop into CBD (chronic ***** dependency) Anyone have personal experience going from Beta to Alpha? What did it take to get you there?
 
That's exactly what it is and that's how she sees it too, but it seem like he's trying to do more which is why I'm playing it cool. But I am glad at least one person sees where I'm coming from on this one.
I think that's the route I'll probably take just in case he gets overly sensitive.
Is it possible to help someone overcome simp syndrome? Because I'm dealing with a full blown case on this one. I don't want my friends illness to develop into CBD (chronic ***** dependency) Anyone have personal experience going from Beta to Alpha? What did it take to get you there?

I mean even if he tried to holla on your chicks in the past (were they your girls , like this one is to him or just chicks you were banging)...You still don't do dirt for dirt...That eye for an eye thing is barbaric. (I know your case is less than that statement but just saying)

as far as getting someone out of chronic B dependency there really isn't... I mean you're not suppose to wake up sleep walkers, same as you gotta let some people learn.

Let him learn, and if he's your homie forreal just make sure you're there for him when the time comes to pick up the pieces cuz thats what boys do.
 
Ran across this question and I want to get some of your views. Thing it was mentioned slightly pages ago but can't remember
Is it possible to be "friends with benefits" with someone that you're in love with?
since it's NT, replace the word love with: like, feeling, diggin, smashing..
 
Love defeats the purpose of fwb. IMO friends with benefits just means you're not exclusive to one another. Basically just **** buddies, maybe watch Netflix together and grab Chinese takeout once in awhile.

If you mean that you're already in love with a chick and you break up and try to initiate a fwb relationship, it will only last so long. Been there done that. Most broads just want to monkey bar from you to the next *****. They too afraid to just jump and be alone. Unless, it was a messy breakup and in that case she ain't gonna be your friend :lol
 
Is it possible to help someone overcome simp syndrome? Because I'm dealing with a full blown case on this one. I don't want my friends illness to develop into CBD (chronic ***** dependency) Anyone have personal experience going from Beta to Alpha? What did it take to get you there?

Nah man, nothing you can do at all. My friend is the closest thing (physical wise) to Alpha as you can get too.

6'7", in shape and decent looking... and dude is beta as hell.
 
In love with a FWB? So you're already hitting it and you want to take it to the next level and she doesn't? End well, it won't. Either you'll scare her away or she'll break your heart. Chances are you'll be broken hearted either way so you might as well keep smashing in hopes she falls in love with you back. 
 
I got two girls that wanna smash me one of them I smashed her best friend 4 years ago the best friend tried to cock block but my game was so jordan like the hatred couldn't stop it the other one just want me because of my physical features tall athletic jays all day
Can't wait this weekend
 
I sort of think its also about how the fwb was initiated. Im going/went through something like this now.
If it was like a "met her that night smashed that night. Only really hit her up to s mash dont talk about anything of substance. I dont see it working. Sex is lust..lust is mistaken for love.
But there is also the situation (which im currently in and have been before) where you meet. Have an actual date. Determine that yall can be cool have things in common. You may or may not smash first date but you guys consistently talk text everyday. It was said no exclusivity just hang out and have a good time. But you two have a great time together sparks and chemistry is undeniable. Feelings are going to develop because even though it started fwb. That chick is what you wanted (vice versa)
(Sorry for book) sorry to the point.... the best thi g to do is get your feelings out there and see where her head is. If its not where yours is at (and it doesnt have to be there now for her but she has to atleast be thinking of the possibility of it working) then you need to get out before there is heartbreak. Because there will be if she is truly just enjoying the sex.
(which in my mind after a long period of time, consistently FWBs cant work)
I don't think I've ever heard of a FWB situation lasting more than a few months maybe a year WITH consistent sex and interaction (for those who are going to say well i have one that i meet up with on occassion: I dont mean those) I mean like every week, or two meeting up. Hanging out, having sex. someone is bound to catch feelings. it's just natural .
But as I just said, for those who just meet up with chicks like once a month, only really contact for sex my above line doesn't apply to you.
 
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Hey son I'm not coming to Houston. My boys flaking on the trip.

Tomorrow I'll be in the city for some FIFA games.
 
I've had one FWB since fall 2012 but we had a break bc she caught feelings

Had a steady FWB from June of last year until February. Smashed on avg 1-2 times a week. Only ended bc she moved
 
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