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I've had enough of this, I'm not letting three girls I fw make my life miserable. I'm about to try this tinder thing out with no expectations. Is there an age requirement?
 
Wassup fam. I just graduated hs in June, and I think its time I go for some females to have some experience before I start college. There's some girls that I had classes with in hs, but never talked to as I was pretty quiet. Basically, the only way I can think of getting in contact with them is through instagram since I don't have a twitter. How can I come off with making my intentions clear and not seeming as a creep since I never actually talked to them. Should I like a few pictures and eventually DM them? If so, what should I write to not come off corny or make them think I'm being thirsty.
 
chick is a vegan. since im far from that would that negatively impact me bagging?

Been with mostly vegetarian girls, 2 vegans and I'm a carnivore basically.


They get over it but if its long term? You going to have to get used some weird dinners sometimes. :lol
 
chick is a vegan. since im far from that would that negatively impact me bagging?

Been with mostly vegetarian girls, 2 vegans and I'm a carnivore basically.


They get over it but if its long term? You going to have to get used some weird dinners sometimes. :lol

My boy is a big carnivore and his wife is vegetarian. Don't make it a bigger deal than it needs to be
 
Man. Have y'all ever met a shorty & while vibing with them, you can tell at that EXACT moment that you got her? Had that happen to me earlier tonight. I was chilling with my boys & they invited some girls. Honestly I was mad sketched out cuz I was the only black dude in a sea of Mexicans lol. So these shorties come in & it's only two of them.

One bougie looking thin chick and this laid back looking thick one. I'm already counting myself out like I'm Krillin from Dragon Ball Z against Frieza. I'm like "yo, I should bounce" lol. Long story short, the sexy *** laidback shorty was feeling me HEAVY. when she put her number in my phone & read the emoji's she put, it all but confirmed by suspicions.

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Yambily, It was at that moment, that I knew I won. Correct me if I'm wrong, but these emoji's tell the story, right? :lol







Unfortunately, that didn't happen tonight! But I'm planting the seeds for another time. I gotta dial it back tho, I don't wanna be too aggressive after I was just laid back and nonchalant.


Looks like the kid's back off the bench, y'all.
 
Was at a Sunday Funday BBQ thing all day today and I'm pretty sure I put on a clinic of how to get a chick that's interested in you completely uninterested. Literally said/did so much stupid/goofy stuff :lol

Natural blonde with a tan who just looks like she does "them vids" too. I'll see her around more this summer but I'd be shocked if I recovered from today's L and made it happen.
 
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Man. Have y'all ever met a shorty & while vibing with them, you can tell at that EXACT moment that you got her? Had that happen to me earlier tonight. I was chilling with my boys & they invited some girls. Honestly I was mad sketched out cuz I was the only black dude in a sea of Mexicans lol. So these shorties come in & it's only two of them.

One bougie looking thin chick and this laid back looking thick one. I'm already counting myself out like I'm Krillin from Dragon Ball Z against Frieza. I'm like "yo, I should bounce" lol. Long story short, the sexy *** laidback shorty was feeling me HEAVY. when she put her number in my phone & read the emoji's she put, it all but confirmed by suspicions.

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Yambily, It was at that moment, that I knew I won. Correct me if I'm wrong, but these emoji's tell the story, right? :lol






Unfortunately, that didn't happen tonight! But I'm planting the seeds for another time. I gotta dial it back tho, I don't wanna be too aggressive after I was just laid back and nonchalant.


Looks like the kid's back off the bench, y'all.

Hahah that's the best contact save I ever saw. And she put that in herself god?

You in there homie.
 
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Was at a Sunday Funday BBQ thing all day today and I'm pretty sure I put on a clinic of how to get a chick that's interested in you completely uninterested. Literally said/did so much stupid/goofy stuff :lol

Natural blonde with a tan who just looks like she does "them vids" too. I'll see her around more this summer but I'd be shocked if I recovered from today's L and made it happen.

Repped you for being able to laugh at your own goofiness. Lol.
 
Was at a Sunday Funday BBQ thing all day today and I'm pretty sure I put on a clinic of how to get a chick that's interested in you completely uninterested. Literally said/did so much stupid/goofy stuff :lol

Natural blonde with a tan who just looks like she does "them vids" too. I'll see her around more this summer but I'd be shocked if I recovered from today's L and made it happen.

Repped you for being able to laugh at your own goofiness. Lol.

Repped you for repping him instead of clowning him.
 
Hahah that's the best contact save I ever saw. And she put that in herself god?

You in there homie.

Yeah, she put it in herself, I gave her my phone & then she called herself on my phone so she'd have my number too.

I gotta cool my jets tho, I think I came off thirsty tryna chill alone with her already, I'll just fall back & see if she hits me up during the week. If not, it's whatever.
 
Yeah, she put it in herself, I gave her my phone & then she called herself on my phone so she'd have my number too.

I gotta cool my jets tho, I think I came off thirsty tryna chill alone with her already, I'll just fall back & see if she hits me up during the week. If not, it's whatever.

Nice. Sometimes if the chick you are dealing with is the aggressive type, I find letting them take charge and "control" the chilling times and what not, is better.

She already knows about you and if she has a bench, like we do, she'll call you off to star when she is ready. So like you said sit back and stay yourself. She will definitely hit you up.

Maybe some other NTrs can chime in too.
 
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Ur boy Donnie over here is in BIG trouble boys. I'm inside of SF girl and she says... "I love you...Opps!"

Finish up and ask her if we should talk about this... She says, "I think I'm falling in love with you."

Problem is she lives in SF and I'm in OC... And yall know how I am, coming up on the century mark by the end of the summer.

She wants to come down in 2 weeks and see me again, and I'm kind of honestly with it. But when she's not here I already know the smashing of others will happen.

Sighs.
 
Ur boy Donnie over here is in BIG trouble boys. I'm inside of SF girl and she says... "I love you...Opps!"

Finish up and ask her if we should talk about this... She says, "I think I'm falling in love with you."

Problem is she lives in SF and I'm in OC... And yall know how I am, coming up on the century mark by the end of the summer.

She wants to come down in 2 weeks and see me again, and I'm kind of honestly with it. But when she's not here I already know the smashing of others will happen.

Sighs.

Better tell her to get her *** up.
 
Thanks guys!  

Jeez fontaine that sounds like a lot of work...though I'm sure the benefits are great I think for now I'm satisfied with my two.
Or will I eventually want more?
nah bro... Trust me...

Its onky as complicated as you make it.

If you're trying to take all the chicks on extravagant dates and coddle them emotionally, it will get pricey and draining.

I've learned to keep convo light and fun... Not to get into all types of serious stuff...

Also, yes bro... You'll want more yambs. :lol
 
Yambily.....for the first time in my life I can say I have a "roster." (Thanks be to TAY for it's wisdom and guidance).

It may be a roster of 2, but a juggling act none the less.

I have already decided who is "side" and who is "main."

Main knows she's main so she's good for now and knows about the other girl.

Side is unaware of main and from the tone of our conversation last night seems to be catching feelings.

How does one make a side chick aware she is in fact the side chick?

I was going to say flat-out "tell her" but if you're under the suspicion feels have been caught, just do what big homie said...give her space so she learns you're not readily available.
OR, you could've just told her from the jump
Keep in mind that just because the main knows she's a main doesn't mean she won't flex on you either. She might catch the feels (it's what you wanted, right?) and demand more of you and even tell you to ditch the side chick.

Then you're left with 1 chick in your rotation.

So, treat 'em both like side pieces. :rolleyes
 
I may be old fashioned, but, what part of the game is telling your main chick about your sides? This makes no sense to me. No respectable woman would be ok with that. I hope you mean you just favor spending time with her and not that she could potentially become your girlfriend.
 
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