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How does she have the lead?
By acting annoyed when you all touchy feely, then acting annoyed when you're no touchy feely.
That's games Bruh. Games.
What should you do?
When she act like she don't want you all over her tell her "well don't be all over me in 10 minutes. I ain't got time for you to be acting like that. Make up your mind." Or something along those lines.
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Don't mind me i'm tired papi. Dive right in.
bonez7
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Damn bros..I got a lil situation that I'm facing with my women. Been with her for almost a year, she everything I look for in a women smart, funny, educated, polite, respectable family culture (shes cambodian) and gorgeous. But her sex drive aint up there like mines. I probably hit about 1-2 times a week and its kind of getting to me, I need that almost daily and I was used to getting it daily before I got with her. She def pushed me out of my comfort zone, but that part of me wont go anywhere plus Im finding myself txting old flames every now and then..... ish sucks
inb4 pipegameaintstrong/tyrone
inb4 pipegameaintstrong/tyrone
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Damn bros..I got a lil situation that I'm facing with my women. Been with her for almost a year, she everything I look for in a women smart, funny, educated, polite, respectable family culture (shes cambodian) and gorgeous. But her sex drive aint up there like mines. I probably hit about 1-2 times a week and its kind of getting to me, I need that almost daily and I was used to getting it daily before I got with her. She def pushed me out of my comfort zone, but that part of me wont go anywhere plus Im finding myself txting old flames every now and then..... ish sucks
inb4 pipegameaintstrong/tyrone
You have to tell her your needs and. That its important to you. Do it spontaneously and change it up. My girl was the same way and gradually changed.
A lot of oriental girls who are raised by strict parents think sex is only about satisfying their man. You have to make them orgasm and enjoy it as much as you do.
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I have fam, she feels as if she is a bad girlfriend because she doesn't satisfy me to my liking. I feel where she coming from because if I was in her shoes I'd feel he same way. Sex is important in a relationship... I feel it keeps that "spark" in the relationship. Hoprefully she comes around....
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What was her reason for the low sex drive? Does it hurt? Does she enjoy it? A disorder?
This.
What's her reasoning... is she on birth control. That plays a big part!
But at the end of the day... don't always think with your ****.
At least you get it twice a week. I know dudes that don't smash for WEEKS.
80/20 rule my friend. Does not having sex every day outweigh her other assets? (Smart, pretty, funny, polite...ect)
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I would not wife you up if you can not go at least once a day. Sex is that important.
Your post definitely shows your maturity level. EVERYDAY? Just think what you just said.
John Wick
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You definitely don't know what real life and responsibilities are if you think you and your wife both working full time jobs and trying to handle every day things and still have time and energy to have sex everyday .. You gotta be 18 and under
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I can go with out it for days now... been forced to get used to it. But I use to have a nice lil roster before I got with her, so I was constantly rotating for about 1-2 years with little dry period and Im still fairly young at 24. Reason being is that she works and goes to beauty school and I get that I like that she got ambition so yea all those things def outweigh the sex. I know Im being selfish, but at the same Im just being a man with needs bruh. The ish is muscle and needs to flex sometimes
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Everyday is a lot over long-term.
Hell when I'm really busy I don't even feel like smashing myself
Hell when I'm really busy I don't even feel like smashing myself
larry david
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Exactly.
For you to hang out with any individual, let alone a girl/women more than two-three times (in your case 6+ times/2 months) and not be on the same page or being reliant on her friends information to dictate your moves is a joke. You need to use the time you're spending with her more efficiently, modify the questions you're asking, and push the envelope a bit to get the information you want/need to see if this is worth your investment.
All this slow grind waiting on her business is the equivalent to turning in an online application for a job you REALLY want but never doing any sort of follow-up after the initial submission despite knowing the boss, just praying he calls you in for an interview one day.
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So what happens when you wife and she doesn't do it everyday? You're gonna divorce her? Cheat on her? Stop it
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Apologise for that post. It was late and does come off as immature but it was taken too literally. What i meant is before i start a relationship with you, our sex drive should relatively be the same. Once you are married/ long term its difference.
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One thing I learned, is DO NOT put all your eggs in one basket fellas
I'm not saying if you're in a serious relationship to keep one on the side, but definitely have a number saved somewhere hidden (email, private contact app or somethin) just as insurance. Don't fully commit to anything without a Fail Safe Plan. Even if you just dating exclusively have 1 or 2 options on deck. These females will make you wanna be all about them and switch it up on you faster than an Iverson crossover. Both my exes got pregnant by a ninja within like 9 months of the break up....hoez be playin the field homiez trust me. Unless you know for sure you got a wholesome girl, treat them accordingly...do not trust them farther than you can throw them
It's sad because I wanna be a good one woman dude...but after this ish I'm probably gonna be a player for life or the next 5-10 years at least. Even though I stay wit some female company I can't relate so its still basically that feeling of being #foreveralone
I'm not saying if you're in a serious relationship to keep one on the side, but definitely have a number saved somewhere hidden (email, private contact app or somethin) just as insurance. Don't fully commit to anything without a Fail Safe Plan. Even if you just dating exclusively have 1 or 2 options on deck. These females will make you wanna be all about them and switch it up on you faster than an Iverson crossover. Both my exes got pregnant by a ninja within like 9 months of the break up....hoez be playin the field homiez trust me. Unless you know for sure you got a wholesome girl, treat them accordingly...do not trust them farther than you can throw them
It's sad because I wanna be a good one woman dude...but after this ish I'm probably gonna be a player for life or the next 5-10 years at least. Even though I stay wit some female company I can't relate so its still basically that feeling of being #foreveralone
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One thing I learned, is DO NOT put all your eggs in one basket fellas
I'm not saying if you're in a serious relationship to keep one on the side, but definitely have a number saved somewhere hidden (email, private contact app or somethin) just as insurance. Don't fully commit to anything without a Fail Safe Plan. Even if you just dating exclusively have 1 or 2 options on deck. These females will make you wanna be all about them and switch it up on you faster than an Iverson crossover. Both my exes got pregnant by a ninja within like 9 months of the break up....hoez be playin the field homiez trust me. Unless you know for sure you got a wholesome girl, treat them accordingly...do not trust them farther than you can throw them
It's sad because I wanna be a good one woman dude...but after this ish I'm probably gonna be a player for life or the next 5-10 years at least. Even though I stay wit some female company I can't relate so its still basically that feeling of being #foreveralone
+1
Retto
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2. Couldn't agree more, as sad as this reality is.
joepac12
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No way to know whether you had a wholesome girl or not while in the moment. All you know is you didn't have one when you get cheated on
Humbled
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One thing I learned, is DO NOT put all your eggs in one basket fellas
I'm not saying if you're in a serious relationship to keep one on the side, but definitely have a number saved somewhere hidden (email, private contact app or somethin) just as insurance. Don't fully commit to anything without a Fail Safe Plan. Even if you just dating exclusively have 1 or 2 options on deck. These females will make you wanna be all about them and switch it up on you faster than an Iverson crossover. Both my exes got pregnant by a ninja within like 9 months of the break up....hoez be playin the field homiez trust me. Unless you know for sure you got a wholesome girl, treat them accordingly...do not trust them farther than you can throw them
It's sad because I wanna be a good one woman dude...but after this ish I'm probably gonna be a player for life or the next 5-10 years at least. Even though I stay wit some female company I can't relate so its still basically that feeling of being #foreveralone
truth all up in this post
Retto
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Very true as well.
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