TAY: IT'S A MAN THING GINA

[suberzat1]

Better get your campus life up bro. I was on your campus in September and yambs were everywhere. They were protesting for the school Financial aid director to be fired. House party, kick backs, random evening events you need to be there to show your face to the chicks.

 

[BIG LEEMELONE]

I just have to vent right now and keep it 100 with y'all.

I'm here at Howard, second semester, and I'm horny as **** with no one I can just call up and say come thru. I mean I have prospects, but either they sometimes don't text me back, or they claim they're always busy. This one darkskin girl I REALLY want to go after, but she a thot. We both have Calculus together, so there's a good starting point. However, I'll admit my texting game isn't all that good (or maybe I just overthink too much), and I'd like to text her a few times before I get to fthe point where I tell her, "come thru for a study session." Any tips on that front?

Also, there are SO MANY girls here, but due to my major (engineering,   career-prospects wise, but in terms of the females  ) I'm unable to see most of the attractive ones. The only time I really see girls is either out on the yard or in the cafe. I mean, I'm starting to do a lil bit of small talk with a few of them, but I'm trying to learn how to seal the deal. I swear once I break thru, I'm never coming back. 

Bro you should be glad there's no yambs in your field, keeps you from getting distracted in class. Take it from a business major where there was nothing but group assignments and the yambs were plentiful in every class. Makes you seem like you put biz before pleasure which will help you stand out amongst the werewolves on campus

As far as your dilemma try this for a week, it helped me out a lot when I was at a similar stage. Any of these chicks you're talking to or want to talk to, if everything goes how you want they will eventually be butt naked in your arms right? Focus on that part from jump as far as your vibe goes. It's like playing chess, you gotta be focused on the checkmate as soon as the game starts because it might happen in 3 moves.

Now don't change anything about your convo, just your demeanor/vibe. Just try to exude confidence from your pores. I used to imagine that at some point I was going to have to be comfortable enough and get her to be comfortable enough that I could just say to her "suck my ****" and she would be happy and eager to do it it used to help me get over those jitters

 

[surgev1]

Yeah you definately remind me of myself, lol...
Don't over analyze/ over think things my man.
Just go with the flow, girls generally leave cute emojis no matter who it is..
As for the "selfie", just get her comfortable and relax, maybe catch her after class while you guys are walking and compliment her on her smile and be like:
"You have a really special smile, is there anyway I can get a pic so when you call I can IMMEDIATELY pick up,lol"...
You know something cheesy like that and I am pretty sure she will oblige...
Over thinking is one of my flaws I am working on, but I am learning to just chill and if a situation is truly bugging me I just straight up address. But just relax like I said and lay in the cut but don't be tooooo nonchalant, you have to find the balance of chill and aggressive, especially if she is throwing alleys like you described...

You right bro, overthinking or not, she's throwing me easy lobs that I should be dunking at every opportunity. I'll go with the flow and see what happens. All the attention before and during class is what had me thinking she's either really nice or we got some potential, to me: that emoji sealed the deal but it probably doesn't mean anything

Gonna try to get a selfie and if it's not "too" soon, maybe kick it with her this weekend.

 

[mugen81]

You right bro, overthinking or not, she's throwing me easy lobs that I should be dunking at every opportunity. I'll go with the flow and see what happens. All the attention before and during class is what had me thinking she's either really nice or we got some potential, to me: that emoji sealed the deal but it probably doesn't mean anything

Gonna try to get a selfie and if it's not "too" soon, maybe kick it with her this weekend.

Nothing is ever too soon breh, always seize an opportunity before the next man does.If its chemistry there like it was in class, just set a little coffee date up under some type of premise for class or something. Not saying you are trying to cuff but met my old lady on the first day and been together ever since, so who knows you could be doing the Dougie in those yambs by Sunday, lol...

 

[ill steelo]

I just have to vent right now and keep it 100 with y'all.

I'm here at Howard, second semester, and I'm horny as **** with no one I can just call up and say come thru. I mean I have prospects, but either they sometimes don't text me back, or they claim they're always busy. This one darkskin girl I REALLY want to go after, but she a thot. We both have Calculus together, so there's a good starting point. However, I'll admit my texting game isn't all that good (or maybe I just overthink too much), and I'd like to text her a few times before I get to fthe point where I tell her, "come thru for a study session." Any tips on that front?

Also, there are SO MANY girls here, but due to my major (engineering,   career-prospects wise, but in terms of the females  ) I'm unable to see most of the attractive ones. The only time I really see girls is either out on the yard or in the cafe. I mean, I'm starting to do a lil bit of small talk with a few of them, but I'm trying to learn how to seal the deal. I swear once I break thru, I'm never coming back. 

Sounds like you need to get your campus life up. Build up your circle so that you'll get invited to small/medium sized kickbacks or those bigger house parties, and then from there you just step to em, make em laugh, make em feel comfortable around you.

Good thing about those kickbacks is that, at least in my experiences, a lot of times the women are a bit more relaxed then at clubs. So, you make em feel comfortable & it's easy pickings. Plus after a few drinks you could tell one of ya boys to throw on some twerking **** (start with drunk in love and go from there) & you could maybe, possibly, potentially luck up on something that same night. If not that night, then if your rapport was good she should be receptive to a 1on1 at your spot in the days/weeks afterwards.

 

[airedweezy]

I have something like a 0% success rate when I give my number out . one time I gave it to this chick in college who was all on my nuts and I bs you not she hit me up a whole year later and it ended up going nowhere. plus I like to be the one making everything happen, doesn't feel right when I give up the digits

This used to be my move I'd just give chicks my number and went off that. If they texted or called I knew I was in if not I saved myself the time. Dam thing only worked 2 times out of the 5x I did it tho lol.

 

[surgev1]

Nothing is ever too soon breh, always seize an opportunity before the next man does.If its chemistry there like it was in class, just set a little coffee date up under some type of premise for class or something. Not saying you are trying to cuff but met my old lady on the first day and been together ever since, so who knows you could be doing the Dougie in those yambs by Sunday, lol...

I like the sound of that, now what's a good way to make your intentions known without coming across as pushy or too aggressive? I'm hoping we text on off days & talk during class days, hopefully get something popping by Friday/Saturday. But I've learned you gotta make it known what your intentions are almost right away, or you'll be friendzoned quick

 

[niquefreak94]

I just have to vent right now and keep it 100 with y'all.

I'm here at Howard, second semester, and I'm horny as **** with no one I can just call up and say come thru. I mean I have prospects, but either they sometimes don't text me back, or they claim they're always busy. This one darkskin girl I REALLY want to go after, but she a thot. We both have Calculus together, so there's a good starting point. However, I'll admit my texting game isn't all that good (or maybe I just overthink too much), and I'd like to text her a few times before I get to fthe point where I tell her, "come thru for a study session." Any tips on that front?

Also, there are SO MANY girls here, but due to my major (engineering,   career-prospects wise, but in terms of the females  ) I'm unable to see most of the attractive ones. The only time I really see girls is either out on the yard or in the cafe. I mean, I'm starting to do a lil bit of small talk with a few of them, but I'm trying to learn how to seal the deal. I swear once I break thru, I'm never coming back. 

man **** everything you talking about. honestly. no disrespect. i'm about to help you immensely.

i too go to Howard. you have 0 confidence. that's why you getting no play. it's the lamest dudes

out here with the confidence of Kanye West meets Donald Trump hittin all these girl tellin you that they're

busy. they are lying. all of them saying they're busy are lying...well no they not. they busy getting they guts

beat in M. Dot. FACT. get your confidence up. act natural. let your convo flow. if you take 69% of these girls

to a damn movie one time in Chinatown you will have sex with them. it is too damn easy. i have a girl and

i have to dodge these females and their advances to stay faithful. they are tooooo easy.

 

[mugen81]

I like the sound of that, now what's a good way to make your intentions known without coming across as pushy or too aggressive? I'm hoping we text on off days & talk during class days, hopefully get something popping by Friday/Saturday. But I've learned you gotta make it known what your intentions are almost right away, or you'll be friendzoned quick

Just keep it flirty and fun and if she goes with the bait for drinks or coffee and the chemistry is there, I say speak your intentions:
" I am having a really good time and I would like to hang more outside of class with you and keep this thing going", try to keep it as non-thirsty as you can...
OG approach:
"Look I am feeling you and I know you are feeling me, so lets say you come back to my place for a nightcap".
Now that last approach is only to be taken if you really are smelling yourself and confident, plus if she is touching you, etc... That's when you pull the BOSS move like that, lol...
But just try to keep it low key and follow her body cues and keep the witty banter on deck..

 

[surgev1]

Just keep it flirty and fun and if she goes with the bait for drinks or coffee and the chemistry is there, I say speak your intentions:
" I am having a really good time and I would like to hang more outside of class with you and keep this thing going", try to keep it as non-thirsty as you can...
OG approach:
"Look I am feeling you and I know you are feeling me, so lets say you come back to my place for a nightcap".
Now that last approach is only to be taken if you really are smelling yourself and confident, plus if she is touching you, etc... That's when you pull the BOSS move like that, lol...
But just try to keep it low key and follow her body cues and keep the witty banter on deck..

Bet. We're texting now, she got a lil hood in her definitely keeping that banter runnin. Speaking of touching, she'd do that periodically in class, or look over to me.

 

[mugen81]

Bet. We're texting now, she got a lil hood in her definitely keeping that banter runnin. Speaking of touching, she'd do that periodically in class, or look over to me.

NINJA

And she got a little ratchetness to her, ooh those are my favorite type( wifey isn't tho, lol)...
Go forth young man and

 

[Thierry Henry]

Any tips to get at older women? I'm 21 and there's this beautiful Middle Eastern chick(iirc she's Pakistani) that comes in my job. She's gotta be at least 25 and I've only seen her in the evening when I work night shifts. The only time I've talked to her was the 2nd time I seen her and all I asked was "where are you from?". I'm terrible when it comes to talking to women, especially when keeping conversation going and making them laugh because I stutter and start speaking gibberish


I kinda want her, but I already know about the reputation of Middle Eastern women only dating men with much more money than them. I'm just a broke dude from the inner city pushing in his momma's van, word to Kendrick.

 

[awwsome]

I only deal with older women so I guess I can offer some insight. Not really that much of a difference in the courting process, just be yourself, be confident and be honest. In my experience older women can handle bluntness a lot better than younger girls and actually can appreciate a man who doesn't play games. Older women have treated me a lot better when it comes to things like cooking for me/dates/vacations. Also sex with older women is a lot better IMO, they are a lot more comfortable and have far less boundaries, women reach their sexual peak later than men so it works out well. Also from a conversational/intellectual standpoint it's not even close, from being with a college girl to a woman with a masters is like night and day. Older women can give you a lot of life jewels and really move you forward as a man in a way a younger girl just can't.


You'll be competing against older men who likely have more money/better careers and more experience but you'll be good as youth is still a premium and a woman will recognize your potential if you have any

 

[surgev1]

NINJA

And she got a little ratchetness to her, ooh those are my favorite type( wifey isn't tho, lol)...
Go forth young man and

The convo was going well until I was like "Hey, send me a picture for my contacts. Give me a reason to pick up my phone when you text me lol" and it's been like 15 minutes...yikes

 

[Mark Antony]

15 mins? Calm your *** down. On some real g **** if she doesn't ever respond or text back, you don't. Move on to the next, consider it abundance mentality training.

 

[mugen81]

The convo was going well until I was like "Hey, send me a picture for my contacts. Give me a reason to pick up my phone when you text me lol" and it's been like 15 minutes...yikes

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Okay you should have waited to be in her presence to pull that card lol..
Okay maybe she is just getting pretty to send you a selfie, give her time...
Now if you don't hear from her until next class just kinda of play it off in person and just say:
"Sorry if I came off mega thirsty just really like to have pictures of people I find special or are super cool with me so I can decide to pick up the phone or just ignore", something that can downplay that misfire...
Just relax, might not be as bad as you think, over analyzing again...

 

[raysweatshirt]

Any tips to get at older women? I'm 21 and there's this beautiful Middle Eastern chick(iirc she's Pakistani) that comes in my job. She's gotta be at least 25 and I've only seen her in the evening when I work night shifts. The only time I've talked to her was the 2nd time I seen her and all I asked was "where are you from?". I'm terrible when it comes to talking to women, especially when keeping conversation going and making them laugh because I stutter and start speaking gibberish

I kinda want her, but I already know about the reputation of Middle Eastern women only dating men with much more money than them. I'm just a broke dude from the inner city pushing in his momma's van, word to Kendrick.

Thats not too much of an age different so just go at her like you would with someone your age. If she denies you then move on. I just pulled a 40 year old 2 weeks ago and I'm 21 as well.  

 

[suberzat1]

 
The convo was going well until I was like "Hey, send me a picture for my contacts. Give me a reason to pick up my phone when you text me lol" and it's been like 15 minutes...yikes

You got to calm down young fella....she may have been busy or want to take a nice picture for you. If she is playing games then its time to move on.

 

[RayCashhhh]

man **** everything you talking about. honestly. no disrespect. i'm about to help you immensely.

i too go to Howard. you have 0 confidence. that's why you getting no play. it's the lamest dudes

out here with the confidence of Kanye West meets Donald Trump hittin all these girl tellin you that they're

busy. they are lying. all of them saying they're busy are lying...well no they not. they busy getting they guts

beat in M. Dot. FACT. get your confidence up. act natural. let your convo flow. if you take 69% of these girls

to a damn movie one time in Chinatown you will have sex with them. it is too damn easy. i have a girl and

i have to dodge these females and their advances to stay faithful. they are tooooo easy.

Stamp my dude. Lowkey my confidence is getting up there. I'm talking to these broads more and more, and I KNOW they noticing how well a ***** can dress. Like I said, once I reach that point, ain't know looking back. 

 

[mugen81]

I think my man is still in the game but this is a lesson tonight that you can't just depend on texting for everything. This is were interpersonal skills also play a BIG FACTOR. When you are face to face with a person, you can say ALOT of things that translate better and you also get to see their reaction. In those cases a woman can see your confidence ALOT more then she can through text. Texting can definately be used as a thirst trap. As men with have to know how to cultivate and mesh both together so you can get the desired result you want. surgev1
Not even mad at you because it seemed the situation was on lock but you really should have waited to ask for the picture in person, like I said I think you are still in the game just calm down and let things chill and go from there.

 

[bawayfrombless]

Okay you should have waited to be in her presence to pull that card lol..
Okay maybe she is just getting pretty to send you a selfie, give her time...
Now if you don't hear from her until next class just kinda of play it off in person and just say:
"Sorry if I came off mega thirsty just really like to have pictures of people I find special or are super cool with me so I can decide to pick up the phone or just ignore", something that can downplay that misfire...
Just relax, might not be as bad as you think, over analyzing again...

hype her for it,jokingly. be like wtf! i orderd u aint deliverin

 

[surgev1]

Thanks for the advice guys 

@mugen81  Yeah I feel like i'm still in the game too, i'm over it. If we talk tomorrow, we talk, if not, oh well. When I see her in class, we'll talk & I'll make a joke or somethin out of it.

Ya'll are right tho, I gotta chiiiiillll

 

 

[Velle47]

back in this thang

 

[yeezusdisciple]

Y would u ask for contact pic? Not a good move

 

[youngdoc]

The only time I ask for pics if I can't remember what she looks like and she's not on social media