TAY: IT'S A MAN THING GINA

[mugen81]

Also for music in the whip mix it up with old,new..
Depeche Mode, Kendrick, Cole, Tony Toni Tone, Raphael Saadiaq, Musiq Soulchild, The Weekend,Jill Scott,Robin Thicke(Evolution got me so many panties) Jon B.(high school and now got me so many panties), Maxwell, No Doubt, Janet Jackson( guaranteed draws with the right mix)
But if you really on your grown man and want to strike up a convo( said in last thread), get some jazz, blues or these three groups:
Frankie Beverly featuring Maze, The Isley Brothers, The O'Jays...
Let you in on a secret, women love older, sophisticated gentlemen. So when they hear music they never heard before it gives the allusion that you are wiser for your age group. The cougars/milfs will be reminded of their childhood and all the freaky ish they did, plus that's right, she will see you as mature as well, hemmed up a 50 year Japanese lady off some damn Isley Brothers( back in college) to "In Between The Sheets" and on another occasion from Frankie Beverly"Golden Time of Day"...
All old heads play spades or dominoes to this on Sundays but when women hear it they start dancing and the party begins...

 

[legit]

I cant even approach girls. My confidence is all messed up cause of the fear of saying something wrong that makes me seem lame. This one experience about 3 years ago killed my confidence and made me doubt myself. Smh the thing too is i constantly have girls staring at me HARD.

 

[jay are]

I dont have fear of approaching at all. I just dont approach often enough. My whole life women chose me, are made blatant signals. I need to improve on basic openers. Like homie said above I have chicks staring and smiling kinda often but I dont approach them regularly.

Another problem I have is I get these chicks numbers and lose interest fast and quit texting them.

 

[currensy]

legit Man don't be a lost cause, just gotta go up and try. Even if you get rejected your skin gets tougher from it and you learn from it, hopefully.

 

[awwsome]

Mugen with the high level gem dropping

Most of y'all ain't gonna listen and keep living in that other world with doubt and insecurity though. Pretty much 70% of this thread wouldn't exist if y'all understood that passage.

 

[MetalMario]

Suggestions on what kind of music you play in your whip when you gotta yamb in your car? I know that trash *** Jay-z album MCHG usually does the trick but any other music y'all play in y'all's whip while you riding with a chick?

Yooooo!!!!! I smashed to the whole MCHG album once

everytime Justin sings I remember being on top of the girl and shes singing me the lyrics

I stopped mid stroke to sing the entire Beach is Better

Dom Kennedy, Weeknd, Common I've had on the playlist

 

[MetalMario]

I remember someone telling me that a good way to get rid of the fear of approaching is to do a daily challenge of just talking to 3 people of the opposite sex every day no matter what age or anything and try to keep it more then just a Hi. you'll see how far that goes. back when I was younger and I was nervous getting a job in retail really help. It forced me to go up to girls in Old Navy and now with that experience approaching anybody is easy as hell

don't know if that helps but it did me

 

[Coromanti]

Tried to stay away but two post caught my eye.
Chasing and Friendzones should never occur.
At some point in every mans life "keeping it 100" should be your motto until you are dead in the dirt. Letting a woman know your intentions up front saves you the petty headaches and what ifs. Those two specific predicaments are truly based off being scared to take a lost. Everybody reaches this plateau in life at different times but when you finally ascend to that plain, I promise you will never have another woman problem again. I say this because that is the true meaning of loving oneself and not giving a damn about any obstacles that stop you from being great. I said this in the other thread. Women are just as scared( maybe more) of not being liked for themselves and other trivial things that as men we harp and conjur up in our heads to not take steps in future endeavors( whether its our career or love or just overall peace). I ask my Tay brethren, why do you fear a being that bleeds, thinks,poops,eats just like us. There truly isn't a science to this thing called dating or love. People let fear of rejection and failure supersede the things they want. If you meet a lovely young woman( not birds) but someone you find interesting, attractive, funny and just and overall cool person, why not state how you feel, if you she walks away, that just means your destiny or paths are not tied to each other and you just move on to the next. STOP BEING AFRAID OF TAKING THE L'S.
All the losses I have taken, all the Friendzones, all the heartbreaks made me the man I am today and also led me to wifey. Is companionship and love scary? **** Yeah but what do you have to lose, you are going to die anyway, losing one girl is might hurt you but it will make you wiser. You don't need a Bishop Juan mouthpiece, all you need is the belief in yourself. Women want to be led, that is biological and taught, not saying to be cocky but be you, if a chick is not down for the play, move on and continue the hunt. Mike Jones said the most prolific ish for the dumbest bar i have ever heard,"They didnt want me, now I'm hot, they all up on me", when you develop that confidence and knowledge of who you are(even when broke)trust and believe you will see a major change in how girls(women) deal with you. You can't love,smash or even date until you accept who you are and when you finally do this, I'm telling you the world will open up to ish you never thought of...
*This Has Been A Public Service Announcement From The Old Head At Wise Brotha Records*
Peace

Let the [insert place of worship] say [insert phrase of praise]

 

[legit]

II no doubt. Good looks with all the help

 

[hoosierdaddy317]

NT Yambily I need advice on scooping this girl that I attend school with. First off, shes easily one of the prettiest girls i've seen in person lol. She claims shes from Brazil.. guess i believe it. Don't know too many brazilians that are from Northern Indiana though

.

I make her smile, laugh, etc so I'm pretty sure shes in to me. While I was talking to her last week though, this ***** was telling me she dates one of UK's star players. MY NIKKAS HOW AM I SUPPOSED TO COMPETE WITH THIS FOOL?  Obviously dude is down in KY wylin and smashing hella girls but she even met his mom dukes too 

Tips and pointers on how to solidify these yambs would be much appreciated. Thanx

 

[lamekilla]

NT Yambily I need advice on scooping this girl that I attend school with. First off, shes easily one of the prettiest girls i've seen in person lol. She claims shes from Brazil.. guess i believe it. Don't know too many brazilians that are from Northern Indiana though .

I make her smile, laugh, etc so I'm pretty sure shes in to me. While I was talking to her last week though, this ***** was telling me she dates one of UK's star players. MY NIKKAS HOW AM I SUPPOSED TO COMPETE WITH THIS FOOL?  Obviously dude is down in KY wylin and smashing hella girls but she even met his mom dukes too 


Tips and pointers on how to solidify these yambs would be much appreciated. Thanx

Keep doing what your doing. Don't force anything. Invite her out to (breakfast, lunch, dinner, coffee, movie, ice skating, etc) and try to learn more about her and she learn more about you. Long distance relationship with an athlete? Obviously it's not gonna last, she'll need some comfort, guess what happens? Yambs

 

[youngdoc]

Don't even sweat her until you find out they're broken up

 

[murkn3m]

How about female coworkers? A no no?

 

[youngdoc]

How about female coworkers? A no no?

If you interact with them on a daily basis it's not worth it IMO

 

[murkn3m]

If you interact with them on a daily basis it's not worth it IMO

I'm currently in college and it's a part time gig. I see her from time to time.

 

[mugen81]

Approaching women can be tricky and down right frightening( no matter how experienced you are), but you know what gets a woman every time....
A warm smile, eye contact and a "How are you today"..
That's it, just being relaxed and calm and being a gentlemen..
Yeah alot of these chicks out here make it hard to even do that but always stay poised, walk tall, head up like you own the room and women will notice that more then what's coming out your mouth. Have a presence, mystery to you, be aloof but also be aware... Trust there is nothing "stupid" you can say to a female, you gotta know how to be quick with your witt. You can always try " Yeah I know that was kinda lame but I had to find a way to introduce myself, insert name, and a nice, firm handshake," can do wonders or point out things in your environment that can make her laugh. That has never failed me, plus women find it enduring that a guy is not trying to hit them with a line but they are being genuine(now disregard this if its a bird,lol)..
Also if she turns you down, be gracious and even though your ego might be crushed, politely say "Have a Nice Day", and proceed on with life. Being nasty or rude afterwards is sucka ish and you never know if you might see that person in a scenerio where they have power to decide your fate...
Also if you are finding yourself "un-interested" in certain females, that is because you are not talking to females that challenge your intellectual prowess. Yeah guaranteed yambs are better then no yambs, but I will preach this until the cows come home.. Search for quality, look for females that drive conversations, look for ladies that are not "NT Dimes", not saying settle but there are tons of women that are not your "standard"beauty but will give you not only experience but could also change your frame of mind of what you are truly looking for. Just because its easy doesn't make it fun or interesting...
And STOP ******G WITH CHICKS WITH DUDES...
Yeah you can't compete with him because you are not what she wants.. Women thrive off attention and that's exactly what you are giving her...
Been down that path and that ish was No Bueno..
This world has a plethora of single women who either just want to smash or are looking for the "Real Deal".. Why waste your time and energy with a chick like that..

 

[Coromanti]

^^^^

Church.

Valentines Day makes girl's go crazy.

I had a friend just tell me that she was considering having a train run on her because she didn't have a boyfriend.

All I could think was, V-Day brings out the inner *** (or perhaps desperation) in the single Bs.

 

[nelag]

Lol wait. Trains because she's lonely on valentines?

Wowza.

 

[MetalMario]

so V-day is coming up and I'm talking to a girl, went on one date already earlier this year just for drinks and it went smoothy, pretty casual. text almost everyday but the problems is both of us are too busy to see each other more then what I prefer. would it be doing too much if I ask her for V-Day plans? or like jumping a step ahead? this scenario reminds me of a 30 Rock episode where Tina Fey has her first date on V-Day and the whole episode people tell her "who does that ****? 1st date on V-Day?" kinda feel like that

 

[Coromanti]

Lol wait. Trains because she's lonely on valentines?

Wowza.

Yep.

Part of it was that my friends and her roommates (I was supposed to live with them...thank god I didn't) ended up pairing off and now it's awkward when I'm not there because it's her and two couples. So she's returning the awkwardness to them by having their personal space interrupted.

Doesn't make sense to me either.

 

[Coromanti]

 
so V-day is coming up and I'm talking to a girl, went on one date already earlier this year just for drinks and it went smoothy, pretty casual. text almost everyday but the problems is both of us are too busy to see each other more then what I prefer. would it be doing too much if I ask her for V-Day plans? or like jumping a step ahead? this scenario reminds me of a 30 Rock episode where Tina Fey has her first date on V-Day and the whole episode people tell her "who does that ****? 1st date on V-Day?" kinda feel like that

Well it's not your first date as you said in the first sentence.

And why not? Go do something fun with someone who seems interested.

 

[awwsome]

^^^^
Church.

Valentines Day makes girl's go crazy.
I had a friend just tell me that she was considering having a train run on her because she didn't have a boyfriend.
All I could think was, V-Day brings out the inner *** (or perhaps desperation) in the single Bs.

Na she's just a harlot bruh, loneliness =/= train

 

[mugen81]

^^^^
Church.

Valentines Day makes girl's go crazy.
I had a friend just tell me that she was considering having a train run on her because she didn't have a boyfriend.
All I could think was, V-Day brings out the inner *** (or perhaps desperation) in the single Bs.

My girl got legit mad when she saw this..
Lol...
I think getting a "train" ran on her is a tad bit extreme but if she about that life, so be it,lol..
As for V-Day, once again just act aloof as if you didnt remember that day and just ask her out as just a regular day. Don't over think it, find something fun to do whether miniature golf, go cart racing or find those activities planned for singles they have on V-Day where you can people watch and engage in banter that's light hearted...

 

[koudie from brooklyn]

Yep.

Part of it was that my friends and her roommates (I was supposed to live with them...thank god I didn't) ended up pairing off and now it's awkward when I'm not there because it's her and two couples. So she's returning the awkwardness to them by having their personal space interrupted.

Doesn't make sense to me either.

whats the address lol

 

[awwsome]

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