OneNightDan
formerly mryoungmoney
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If at all possible, try to work things out bro. Make it clear that her insecurities are getting in the way of your growth as a couple. If she can't understand that, then you already know what you need to do. In my situation, I just knew that it would be an endless cycle of fights and make-up sex, and back to being worried about if she is going to bring up old problems. She needed to change, and it wasn't going to happen while still being emotionally attached to me.
For my ex, she thought that my decision was sudden. What she didn't realize was that she was slowly pushing me away with every time she picked a fight with me or decided to be emotional/irrational. I reached my limit. I made my decision.
I thought that she was the one. She had a key to my place, my family liked her a lot. But in the end, I had to put myself first. And I just knew that I couldn't deal with it anymore.
Of course I'ma try to make it work, but I'm hoping she meets me halfway. Not on some 70-30 or even 60-40 ish either.
That's exactly how I'm feeling now as far it's been building up for a good while. Tried letting it go, but with every "new" fight it keeps stacking on top of other ish.
Yeah man thanks, I'ma try my best to make it work.
I'ma make sure I'm happy at the end, I can't make anyone happy unless I am. I'm not a selfish person, but be real with yourself. How do you spread joy & happiness with those around you if one is not happy with one's self?