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What if you had one roommate and he brought up his gf moving in the apartment? What would you do?
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What if you had one roommate and he brought up his gf moving in the apartment? What would you do?
Alright guys I have a situation . A month ago I met this girl off tinder we hit it off she tells me she is a virgin and I say alright cool . Fast forward a week later I take her virginity ( she bled a lot )things are good we go on a couple dates . But I don't know she just doesn't do it for me she is a little awkward and her conversation skills aren't the best . Any way to drop her without hurting her . I feel like since I took her virginity I owe her more . Thanks
Im not for a roommate gf staying in the apartment since its starts to get crowded after awhile.What if you had one roommate and he brought up his gf moving in the apartment? What would you do?
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Serious question, I've always been curious.
How do you guys do the roommate thing.
I have supported myself since 19, had to work two jobs to get through school but even though i had some stressful times financially, I just couldn't do the roommate thing. I've heard horror stories, so that always made me timid on ruining relationships. Plus how do you deal with yambs coming through?
I think if someone wants to move a girl in, ideally the bills/responsibilities should be split in thirds and contracts should be drawn up. Even though they are your homies/day ones, I've seen money ruin many a relationships. Sometimes it's harder to deal with business and money when it comes to love ones. I would definitely set boundaries and truly talk the arrangement out.
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My old roommate let my ex-gf stay with me for a month before she found a place to live on her own with no additional cost to me. But this seems permanent...
My current roommate told me last night he talked about his gf moving in. She'd be moving from NY. Doesn't currently have a job down here. He says it doesn't seem fair to split rent evenly but she would definitely contribute like all the gas/sewage/cable/utilities. I was just like whatever that's cool we can talk about it more later because I was kind of faded last night.
But I'm thinking about it this morning all of that stuff is probably slightly over $300. So I'd only be saving like $150/month to have another person living in the apartment. My apartment is not huge either. So I'm not really cool with it.
I don't think it's fair either to charge everyone evenly since they would be splitting a bedroom. So this is what I think I'll propose.
My basic rent right now is $2,230. I feel like at least she should pick up $230 + utlitles. Leave my roommate and I with a flat $1,000 a month.
That seems fair right?
Edit: Also have no problems at all living with my current roommate and he's gone probably half the weekends.
Not a roomate til she can pay rent imo
100 for groceries and some cleaning isnt much to ask for if no real money is floating in from the 3rd party
I would personally let them figure out how to split the extra money. As long as rent was lower for me. Like if he wants to pay an extra 500 and let his GF live for free - that's his problem, you know? Just IMO. Not making a mess and not raising the fridge should be implied for a roommate
I'm open to giving it a try, but I'm much less lenient to ******** if she starts acting up or doesn't carry her weight/offer something to the apartment. It would probably be different for me in a different work situation, but I'm currently only home Thursday night - Sunday afternoon most weeks, so I didn't really have to deal with it too much. Third girl was impacting the short amount of time I had at home on the weekends, so I told my roommate things had to change and he ended up dropping her.I'm not letting my non family member move some girl in. She can stay temporarily but if he wants to support her we'd be breaking lease