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I was dancing with this girl last night and I dropped her.
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I was dancing with this girl last night and I dropped her.
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I need a listening ear and some advice NT
So me and my girl recently split back in April and have been trying to get the relationship back on track since then but since the middle June she decided she has enough of my BS and called it quits for good. Since then I did a lot of thinking and realized that most of our problems started with me and I owned up to them and have trying to get her back for about like two weeks now with very little movement and then her going back to saying no. I'm like at that cliche point where "you never know what you got till its gone" phase. I just don't what to do and need some support. Like I've never felt this way about anybody and it sucks even more because we are where we are because of me.
Any more advice from fellow TAYers?I mean my main issue with her was she was slowly pulling away from me but after we broke up and thought about it I realized that I kind of did it to myself because I wasn't being the person I was in the beginning of the relationship. I started getting kind of insecure and when we would argue I would escalate them to levels I shouldn't and I would say some pretty hurtful and ****** up things. So all of my bs kind of pushed her away. And this last fight in April where I moved was he result of a stupid argument and me doing the childish thing and packing up my stuff and leaving. Keep in mind this wasn't the first time I've just packed and left. I just never fixed my issues and return it pushed her away. Other than that any issues or problems I had with her she was pretty quick to fix
I hear you fam. I don't know, I guess I just feel guilty that I was such a terrible boyfriend and want to make it up to her. I mean I still have strong feelings for her and I'm sure she's indifferent about it so I'm just chilling and haven't talked to her since MondayNot a regular here but u need to work on yourself b. No sense in being in a relationship w/ someone when u got your own issues to work out. Insecurity is not a good look in a relationship and will definitely push the other one away. As u get older, you'll have an "It is what it is" attitude about a lot of things and it'll help in future relationships.....that is if u desire to grow, if not....well, u won't.
I hear you fam. I don't know, I guess I just feel guilty that I was such a terrible boyfriend and want to make it up to her. I mean I still have strong feelings for her and I'm sure she's indifferent about it so I'm just chilling and haven't talked to her since MondayNot a regular here but u need to work on yourself b. No sense in being in a relationship w/ someone when u got your own issues to work out. Insecurity is not a good look in a relationship and will definitely push the other one away. As u get older, you'll have an "It is what it is" attitude about a lot of things and it'll help in future relationships.....that is if u desire to grow, if not....well, u won't.
I do need to change tho. Regardless of the outcome
Yea that's what I'm doing right now and I'm working on me in the mean time. I don't think she'll go through with it and if she doesn't go through with I'm here a new man. As much of my bs that she's been through I'm surprised she haven't left a while back. She's a good one and I'll be damned if I lose her so if space is what it takes then **** itStop forcing it. If it's too be, it will be. The more u push towards her, the more she'll push away. Best way to show her that u regret it is to give her space while u work on u. Gotta show growth or she'll always be thinking about how yall ended.
I hear you fam. I don't know, I guess I just feel guilty that I was such a terrible boyfriend and want to make it up to her. I mean I still have strong feelings for her and I'm sure she's indifferent about it so I'm just chilling and haven't talked to her since MondayNot a regular here but u need to work on yourself b. No sense in being in a relationship w/ someone when u got your own issues to work out. Insecurity is not a good look in a relationship and will definitely push the other one away. As u get older, you'll have an "It is what it is" attitude about a lot of things and it'll help in future relationships.....that is if u desire to grow, if not....well, u won't.
I do need to change tho. Regardless of the outcome
Stop forcing it. If it's too be, it will be. The more u push towards her, the more she'll push away. Best way to show her that u regret it is to give her space while u work on u. Gotta show growth or she'll always be thinking about how yall ended.
I can get down with that. It feels good hearing this from someone in my shoes before. Like I said I've been chilling and doing me since I posted this. Thanks for positive words dudesThis. I've been where you are, feeling guilty so I did everything to try and fix it. It pushed her further away, and I dived deeper into insecurity with each rejection. She's actually reinserted herself a few times, seeing if I was better, but because I was so eager to have her back and fix things, I was worse so we parted again. When I started fixing things for myself, rather than to get us back, things got better. I'm so happy with who I am, who I will be that even though I miss her, I have no desire to go running back to her and those ways. Like he says, get to that "it is what it is" stage. Fix you for you.
yea I'm sure she'll crack after a week or two if not, **** it. Ima do me and get better for the next oneYou gotta flip the script like Mark said. The more you ignore her after the break up the better you'll feel, and the worse she'll feel. Not in a hostile way, but she'll feel worst because she misses you and is wondering how you are flourishing without her. Bet if you don't end in a huge blowout then don't speak to her she'll hit you up within a few months maybe even a few weeks if she really wants you back.
The prices hurt famYou must be balling
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Haha it be those OD confident people that have the lowest self esteemIt's crazy because she never seemed like the low self esteem type..chick always came off OD confident.
Was just going to say that.Haha it be those OD confident people that have the lowest self esteemIt's crazy because she never seemed like the low self esteem type..chick always came off OD confident.
Two nights ago I realized why I hate condoms, morning after pill+pull out next time.
This. I've been where you are, feeling guilty so I did everything to try and fix it. It pushed her further away, and I dived deeper into insecurity with each rejection. She's actually reinserted herself a few times, seeing if I was better, but because I was so eager to have her back and fix things, I was worse so we parted again. When I started fixing things for myself, rather than to get us back, things got better. I'm so happy with who I am, who I will be that even though I miss her, I have no desire to go running back to her and those ways. Like he says, get to that "it is what it is" stage. Fix you for you.
Haha it be those OD confident people that have the lowest self esteemIt's crazy because she never seemed like the low self esteem type..chick always came off OD confident.
It's crazy because she never seemed like the low self esteem type..chick always came off OD confident.
On some "my ish don't stink" type stuff. For the longest she seemed like the arrogant, bougie type. I guess not. Don't know what I just got myself into.