TAY: IT'S A MAN THING GINA

[tomdiginson]

Guys serious question: how did you guys deal with prerejecting people?
Like I know I have a quirky personality so I what I do is I mentally reject people for I even try.
Like, I just assume they wouldn't be into what I'm into so I dont even give it a try.
Need to get my head out of it but I can't figure out how...

You're overthinking this. You're eliminating opportunities without even knowing what they really are. You're just going off of perception and imo Perception can be a false reality. Just talk to girls and get to know them and stop overthinking ****.

 

[doxen5703]

Hit her with a spa day or something. I'm not sure if just dipping out on her is the right choice, even if it is for the weekend.

 

[mugen81]

This is where the real work begins.
All relationships(even the happy ones) run into this gauntlet.
Sit her down and say:
"I'm not here to fix it, all I'm here for is to listen"..
Just let her speak. With my wife, she had some postpartum and just felt bad. I knew it wasn't her nature and I could see the sadness in her face even when she said that she was fine.
I just sat her down and told her:
"I'm not her to fix it but I'm her to just listen"
For about two good hours she spilled her guts on all topics and not once did I say anything. She just needed to feel she had a voice, that I still loved her body and other things..
We decided to go to group counseling as well as her own just in case there were things she didn't know how to clearly verbalize or needed another persons opinion.
I know that stuff is down played or frowned upon as for weak individuals but it's a lot of people walking around with angst, anger, and pain but are too scared to share information because they feel like failures or they may let the other person down.
Not saying your situation is the same but sometimes you need an independent voice that has no attachment to you to bring clarity to both of your lives.
My wife and I are stronger for it[emoji]9996[/emoji][emoji]127999[/emoji]️

 

[mplsdunk]

Man. I was working today and the finest girl walked by. She looked happy as hell too so talking to her wouldn't have been a problem. I'm still pissed 6 hours later I didn't walk with her a second. That's all. She kind of looked like a stripper from a club around the corner. she might be back if so.

 

[gotjz]

DMV fam getting into anything tonight?

 

[hennessy]

DMV fam getting into anything tonight?

Tonight prolly.

So I hung out with this girl a few times. She slept over the second time and denied me when I went to make a move saying we just met. Then next time we hung out I acted like we were just friends and ignored her after that. She sent me a pic of my apartment driving by one day a week after that and I ignored it. Hit her up last night, but then I passed out. I don't usually play games but I think this is getting to her lol.

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She's just a buddy at this point but if she came over looking good once I might try to hit it again. Last time she showed up to my spot in a t shirt, ripped jeans, and bred 11s with no make up. Cmon.

 

[heliumclinton]

no make up is appreciated

 

[suberzat1]

Sweatpants, hair tied, chilling with no make-up on thats when you're the prettiest 

 

[youngdoc]

no make up is appreciated

Only if they don't need it

 

[youngdoc]

Got into another fight with my chick last night and she says something to the effect of "we're through" and hangs up on me when I'm mid sentence.

I simply send her a text calling her real mature and that's it.

I'll only consider getting back together if she approaches me apologetic and cognizant of how she has been messing up.

 

[joepac12]

Might be friend zoned or used for bud man lol I just don't like how she is talking or acting

 

[usabasketball08]

Got into another fight with my chick last night and she says something to the effect of "we're through" and hangs up on me when I'm mid sentence.

I simply send her a text calling her real mature and that's it.

I'll only consider getting back together if she approaches me apologetic and cognizant of how she has been messing up.

Seems childish. What was the fight over?

 

[hennessy]

no make up is appreciated

Only if they don't need it

She isn't really a natural beauty lol.

 

[stork]

Got into another fight with my chick last night and she says something to the effect of "we're through" and hangs up on me when I'm mid sentence.

did you get engaged? sounded like it was near that

 

[youngdoc]

Got into another fight with my chick last night and she says something to the effect of "we're through" and hangs up on me when I'm mid sentence.

did you get engaged? sounded like it was near that

Was planning to by Valentine's Day

 

[stork]

Was planning to by Valentine's Day

maybe time for a break? what has she been messing up on?

 

[Coromanti]

Ever see a woman who just changed your perception of what you thought you were attracted to?

I like the coke bottle body but a bit thicker than most. I went to the DMV yesterday and a few steps ahead in the process there was this well proportioned slender chocolate woman.

Big lips,cocoa skin, senegalese twists, and this body just...soo well proportioned...she didnt have the big boobs and mass I usually like but something about her...she still had a mass though not as big. Just...well proportioned..

Just have me thinking about the slimmies in a whole new light.

 

[tmso]

Been smashing this Italian chick from Zurich for a week and it has been dope even though she is a little nuts. She is only here for the semester so that kinda sucks, even though I graduate in December. I am actually typing this from her computer as she does her Spanish homework lol. My god I wil never find this level of freak in American girls my age... SMH

 

[tdogg2k]

Ever see a woman who just changed your perception of what you thought you were attracted to?
I like the coke bottle body but a bit thicker than most. I went to the DMV yesterday and a few steps ahead in the process there was this well proportioned slender chocolate woman.
Big lips,cocoa skin, senegalese twists, and this body just...soo well proportioned...she didnt have the big boobs and mass I usually like but something about her...she still had a mass though not as big. Just...well proportioned..

Just have me thinking about the slimmies in a whole new light.

you was in DMV and didn't tell no one....

 

[Coromanti]

 

Ever see a woman who just changed your perception of what you thought you were attracted to?
I like the coke bottle body but a bit thicker than most. I went to the DMV yesterday and a few steps ahead in the process there was this well proportioned slender chocolate woman.
Big lips,cocoa skin, senegalese twists, and this body just...soo well proportioned...she didnt have the big boobs and mass I usually like but something about her...she still had a mass though not as big. Just...well proportioned..

Just have me thinking about the slimmies in a whole new light.

you was in DMV and didn't tell no one....

I meant department of motor vehicles...my bad for the confusion.

 

[lamekilla]

Been smashing this Italian chick from Zurich for a week and it has been dope even though she is a little nuts. She is only here for the semester so that kinda sucks, even though I graduate in December. I am actually typing this from her computer as she does her Spanish homework lol. My god I wil never find this level of freak in American girls my age... SMH

Italian chicks >>>>

They love the brothas too

 

[suberzat1]

 

 

Ever see a woman who just changed your perception of what you thought you were attracted to?
I like the coke bottle body but a bit thicker than most. I went to the DMV yesterday and a few steps ahead in the process there was this well proportioned slender chocolate woman.
Big lips,cocoa skin, senegalese twists, and this body just...soo well proportioned...she didnt have the big boobs and mass I usually like but something about her...she still had a mass though not as big. Just...well proportioned..

Just have me thinking about the slimmies in a whole new light.

you was in DMV and didn't tell no one....

I meant department of motor vehicles...my bad for the confusion.

 I was thinking the same thing 

 

[tmso]

Italian chicks >>>>

They love the brothas too

Already knowing... Repping team Blackanese over this way.


From one brotha to anotha.... (Father voice)

 

[lamekilla]

Already knowing... Repping team Blackanese over this way.


From one brotha to anotha.... (Father voice)

*Pounds fist*

 

[flyny]

NT idk what's gotten into me lately...but I think i want to have sex with a snow bunny