LoL, this thread is still going?
haven't posted something since i tried to broker a deal with MemphisFinnest ,and he ended up not needing my services whatsover
good stuff tho, glad to see a fellow naija do it
Nehow...ive read a lot this thread moves too fast for me and my schedule will never allow me to catch up but i wanted to drop a gem or too. S/O to GBPM for her perspective, she dropped plenty of gems in here uoeno
Im going to say this, some of you guys won't agree but heh, it doesn't matter what you agree or don't agree with, if your way worked for you, congratulations , if you haven't reached the promise yambs yet, SHUT UP and listen. IF you've got yambs but haven't reached the yambs of milk and honey, SHUT UP AND LISTEN.
RULE NUMBER 1.
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OU, can have ANY woman in the world that you want. It doesn't matter what you look like, how much $ you got, what ya drive, if the woman is a celebrity , if the woman is a lesbian, DOES NOT MATTER!
RULE NUMBER 2
A CONFIDENT FELLOW, IS THE ONE THEY WILL CONFIDE in. Notice i said "THEY", because this doesn't just serve purpose for yambs (no ayo) the confident one is the one the rest of the crew looks up to, is the one who normally closes the most deals, is the one one who busts up the most yambs.
Thats how simple it is. I say my personal opinion of myself as far as looks wise, I think I'm a high 7. When i work out and am in shape I'ma an 8, when I do all that and I'm groomed, or dress well I'm a higher 8. BUT i know my mental core and attitude puts me at a 20, the times that i remain at that 20, no one can tell me NO! I'm currently in a long term relation ship with the girl that i wished for, The mexican chic with a fat ***, kim K face, $, who cooks and cleans who wants me to destroy them yambs more than i can take (unfortunately I also have to deal with the other baggage that comes with all that i.e Kanye & kim k current situation) we aslo just brought a child into the world BUT before her, and during a few break ups, I've pulled, and been in the presence of some of the women ya'll lust after and fap to. Literally . I'm no better than you, If somebody pulled up my job history and current assets right now, I'd be on the very bottom of the index, SO i say all that to say its possible and doable.
Im no pick up guru, and ima bit of a hybrid male, didn't start off alpha, but believe i've adapted the characteristics of alphas, and I'm usually targeted for competition from with alphas sooo that just goes to say you can develop into one who didn't have the ladies from one who rarely encountered them. SO im going to give a few pointers.
a. )
Always smell good.- There is a thread about fragrance on here, i haven't checked it out yet but if you go to a macys they'll help you find something that works with your skin. IN rule number one i said it doesn't matter what you look like, i didn't say it doesn't matter what you smell like! IF your breath, clothes, hair, hands stink, girls will do just like people do when they see bums, AVOID THEM. So get your breath and all that together, sometimes scope and all that aint enough, might have to do a cleans or eat veggies and water for a week so that you are forsure smelling good from your core. Ever had a big girl that you worked with day in and day out that smells good, that you wound up wanting to smash/crushing on? Theres a reason for that, women get this same itis, but X10 worse. So smelling great is essential. Even bad girls on the highest horse will compliment that your breath is great or that you smell good. i.e Girl: I like whatever your wearing, that smells good what is that! You: Thanks, its givenchy and (smile) I actually like your face, who are you? *DONE DEAL*
b).
Always look your best-, what that means is, you don't have to have on a 450 dollar Gucci belt! S/O to those who copped from me in Buy/Sell forum, lol sold my collection no more loud belts, i've invested in more subtle low key pieces. Back to the point, always looking your best shows that who evers yambs your potentially squashin has a form of insurance,. She knows, if you cut, your not somebody who was on the street yesterday, and if you guys end up having a child you can potentially protect the family weather it be income or whatever, if you look like your hungry, or haven't had a shower, or not clean, thats a warning sign to the woman that she cant have kids with you, and those yambs will stay closed, That open for business sign will flip around quick. IF your teeth are yellowed and gunked up. you got hella dandruff ,your lips are crusted, your fingernails are dirty and your not a mechanic,you have on prowings but even THOSE are scuffed? You can't win. Notice how i didn't say you have big ears or you don't lift etc, etc, that doesnt matter. The important thing is to take care of what you got, have your current self in order and well managed. I' pulled the some bad german/black 10k follower plus instagram chic in my shorts a wife beater and some concord 11's at a gas station,in studio city (im from CA) i wanted a sobe so i went in the convenience while my homeboy filled the tank up. Funny thing was she had 3 other bad ones with her, and she was so cold she completely threw me off
, i forgot what the eff i was looking for, Once i got out of the trance I digged through my pockets and walked up to the teller while she was paying, I told the teller, "Shes putting this on her tab". Kind of freestyled that but i didn't want her to leave because I froze up, Beauty still amazes me, im human. But She laughed and then asked me my info, pretty much hollard at me and all i did was be sarcastic.
i think i was at a pretty bummy level that day, hadn't showered:x, was about to hit the studio again, straight bum status but i know my breath was good , my beater and shorts were clean, you know my shoes were spotless and MY ATTITUDE WAS super clean. Didn't have on no gucci or nothin name branded
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BE CONFIDENT- ALWAYS even when you're not, remain confident, even when your unsure- Because in all things, the worse thing that can happen is you die and go to hell, thats my attitude, and i believe i'f i die I'll go to heaven. So with that being said, It doesn't matter how fire the girl looks you gota approach her like you've had better and the only reason you talked to her was because the girl you were chatting up before her had on a michael Kors watch and she had on a channel j12. Extreme example but at the end of the day, women should be at your mercy, not you at theirs, YOU HAVE SOO MANY choices, they don't have the same selection as us men do, so she should be proving herself to you. All this comes with time and development but if you lack confidence, the easiest way to build it is by joking around. SERIOUSLY. With your homies or if you have home girls, or even better if YOU HAVE A FRIENDZONED homegirl
thats even better. The friendzone IS indeed your friend.
THe NOZONE, is your enemy. No zone is that
"OUT OF SITE OUT OF MIND" you don't exist place. FriendZONE is , "SHE LIKES YOU, she O.E.N.O yet. But neways, if you joke around with yourself everyday like "
I GET ALL OF THE YAMBS, that girl who just walked passed me is hot af, too bad i don't do chicks with pink toe nails". etc it might be funny but eventually your attitude will become why not? That bad one who friendzoned had an argument with her bf? You tell her, "hey Cassie, i would listen, but Beckys back in bed BEGGIN me to give her the yambstick, i'm sure im going to disappoint her, so I'll call you shortly after im done and tell you how it went" Then you don't call her till 10 am the next day. She cant' fault you for bringing it up, because she tells you about her issues and life so why cant you? in fact she didn't even know you liked women lmao, now shes shocked that you got yambs and is even interested because she figured how is it that your not tearing her yambs up? BOTTOM LINE IS, If your going to be that dude, be that dude, even if it starts off as a joke, in 3days from now you'll start to believe that joke, and in a month from now that JOke will be something serious, and I'ma have to cuff my chick so that yo don't snatch her up
Did i really just write all of this? Back to the land of the lurk...
