Coming home after a long days work to shower yambs ftw
Okay broham listen to a dude that was doing what you are currently doing... First off there is nothing wrong with being respectable and thinking the way you are or your approach but if you want to stay out the friendzone, you need to make your intentions known... There's nothing wrong with striking out or losing... Every experience OG in this thread has been knocked down, beat up, hurt, kicked and that's the only way you learn.. You have to change your mindset and just letting things flow... It's not always about being the ALPHA but being more aware of yourself... Let me break it down, right now you don't know yourself, you don't know your likes,wants,needs in life so you are projecting low self esteem and contempt toward ****** because you are short... I can name tons of short dudes that used that as a tool, you got it, to learn about themselves and that's were confidence comes in.. Once you love yourself and give no dambs about a broad, that's when The Matrix opens and you see the signs like NEO... I went through this phase of" if I show them that I am not every guy, then they will like me", WRONG, once I learned to love myself and I started keeping it 100, I was on a smash streak like NBA JAMS"HE'S ON FIRE", after the last girl I lost that sight of who I was and that's were I got in trouble, but once you look at yourself in the mirror and say" GOTDAMN I am a sexy mutha" and say it everyday and you enjoy your alone time and own company, you will see what I am talking about.. Keep with your approach but state your intentions and don't take the L's personally..
Tell you what, don't know if you listen to rap but download/copy this song( I played this song everyday until I got my confidence/self identity back)
"ILLEST MUTHAF...ALIVE" by JAY and Ye...
Play that ish every morning, at the gym, at the supermarket, everywhere, I guarantee you will see a difference...
Learn and Love yourself first, don't be cocky but be aware of yourself... IF YOU DON'T LOVE YOURSELF, NOBODY WILL and NOBODY WILL WANT TO GIVE UP YAMBS...
About to take a nap with wifey before happy hour...
Peace