women that don't want kids are my red flags...
it's cool to want them later in life so you can do you for a minute, but if you want to do you for the rest of your life that screams selfish to me.
that's the kind of chick that will leave you when something better comes along b/c all she cares about is herself.
again, that's just my semi-ignorant feelings on those types of chicks... but i hear what you're saying.
It's funny you mention that.
my #1 (the one who doesn't want kids) asked if it was selfish to not want them.
I ma say it like i told her
It cant be selfish if you don't already have a kid.. There are no rules saying you have to have a kid in life.. Not socially, not politically, not even religiously. (and she is very religious)
I mean people without kids make contributions to society also. maybe adopting animals. or helping people in need. (which she's all about )
As someone who is 85% sure they don't want kids. I can empathize with this.
plus I have more than enough nieces, nephews, and God children (3 of them ) to where I can still impact a young ones life.
Plus being a teacher.
The ones I do know who don't want kids, are still like the best babysitters...
lol I put it like this, when they're not your kids, you can have fun with them, treat them spoil them. then return them to their owner