I think people are confusing their "requirements" for a relationship with sex. Why do I need to have a job if we just boning? What does my personality really have to do with things if we only here for a few minutes? Do I really need to carry on a conversation past, What time you want to meet up? or You coming through? Seriously! Granted, me thinks, you shouldn't sleep with people you couldn't see yourself with longterm, if god-forbid pregnancy occurred, but that's different. In that occurrence, you'd need to assess their character and the whole sha-bang. But not for one night.
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