I had to give my girl a reality check last night. She was gettin a lil too comfortable this week. Here's how the week went:
Monday - I vacuum her apt and take 3 big bags of garbage down 8 flights of stairs for her. She was freaking out because her apt was dirty and her best friend from high school was visiting on Wednesday. Then go grocery shopping and spend $100 on groceries for the week. 1/3 of that stuff was just for her breakfast, lunch, snacks. Other 2/3 was for making dinner together.
Tuesday - I was going to go back to my place but decide to leave work early and buy a dress shirt so I could stay at her place through the week (which she wanted). I call her and tell her I'm coming over and I bought clothes and she's pissed saying she made plans with her co-workers and had to cancel them now. She leaves me waiting in her apt lobby for an hour because she went to CVS before coming home. Then doesn't talk to me because she's pissed, gets ready to go to her co-workers place then ends up staying. I cop like $40 chinese food takeout this night.
Wednesday - We out to dinner with her best friend from high school and her bf. I spend $120 on the two of us at dinner. She says she'll come home with me on Thursday night because she had to do something in my area on Friday (her day off) any way. I pack a bag of stuff from her place I need her to bring home to me on Thursday night. Bag had stuff I NEEDED for work today.
Thursday (last night) - I text her at 5:30 and tell her I'm home so come over after she grabs my stuff from her place. She texts me back and says, "oh I forgot the Syracuse game was on tonight (at 10:57 :x ) and I'm going to watch it with some friends." I tell her we made plans to stay at my place and she broke them on the whim just like that. Tell her I needed my stuff and to come home or I'm gonna be really pissed. Her phone goes off for like 3 hours. When she finally answers me back at like 11 she just got back from bar she was at. I tell her that she taking me for granted and has been a ****** gf all week and I'm getting my stuff tomorrow or Saturday and that's it. She was ungrateful didn't offer to pay for anything like she usually does. Didn't say thanks for anything. We're broken up.
She cries, and cries, tells me she's sorry and doesn't understand what she did. She loves me, doesn't wanna lose me, etc...
I tell her now she has all the time she wants to ditch me and go out with her friends. She says all she wants to do is be with me and shes sorry.
I basically tell her to **** off, we're done, and I need my stuff and don't wanna see her for at least a week. She's asking if I'm going to have sex with another girl or am I seeing someone else. I tell her no but I don't wanna see her.
She text me this morning says "I love you." I say, "you should bring that stuff that I needed for work to my place tonight if you wanna fix your mistake."
Seriously thinking about just not talking to her for like a week or so.
