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Originally Posted by WISEPHAROAH
I really miss the " magic" of being a kid. Life had a kind of feeling that I can't explain. The feeling of having that crush on that girl or knowing your birthday was coming up. The excitement and beauty of a summer day with no real worries. Responsibility,experience and ambition have completely robbed me of any remnant of wonder. The small intricate glory of being just flat out ignorant is gone. I've seen,heard and been around too much and my mind is over saturated with too much "reality" and hard truth. Love isn't something my heart yearns for anymore and im not entranced or deceived by petty illusions of the ego. I'm free yet I've never felt as suffocated and in bondage as I do now. Life is a uncomprehensible paradox.
Yes indeed.Originally Posted by ROBPZEE612
This album's a classic.
Originally Posted by erupt107th
I went to a bar with a chick I've known since HS (who I've been talking to for the last week) and this girl I just graduated college with (who I also just started talking to this last week) walks into the same bar and sees me with this chick. She was with her friends and I was with mine so we just said hi/bye and I thought it was all good so I hit her with a text right now that I got home and said we should kick it sometime soon and she responded "K night"
Before tonight I would have easily picked HS girl over College girl but after I saw College girl tonight I regret not kicking it with her tonight. Gonna see if I can MacGyver my way outta this situation
Originally Posted by 651akathePaul
Originally Posted by WISEPHAROAH
I really miss the " magic" of being a kid. Life had a kind of feeling that I can't explain. The feeling of having that crush on that girl or knowing your birthday was coming up. The excitement and beauty of a summer day with no real worries. Responsibility,experience and ambition have completely robbed me of any remnant of wonder. The small intricate glory of being just flat out ignorant is gone. I've seen,heard and been around too much and my mind is over saturated with too much "reality" and hard truth. Love isn't something my heart yearns for anymore and im not entranced or deceived by petty illusions of the ego. I'm free yet I've never felt as suffocated and in bondage as I do now. Life is a uncomprehensible paradox.
That's the problem. The "magic" never goes away. You just think you have to displace it. I never understood this mindset to be honest. I absolutely love my life as it is as an adult. Being a kid was fun, but damn...So many more opportunities now, I feel..Try this. Make a Pro's and Con's list of being a kid vs an adult. Serious....If you're still unhappy then change things up. Move away, new job, new GF..whatever. That's the wonder that can still recapture the magic. Once you find your personal freedom (happiness) then you'll rediscover your inner kid and won't fret about the reality and will stop trying to reminisce on the past.
/real
How did this come about?? That's $$!$$# up family would do you in like thatOriginally Posted by 216301baller
My date to the currensy concert is a $$*%+ n my cuz stole her from me....damn nt don't trust these $$$*+# or family...I learned my lesson...dam even fam doesn't keep it 100.. I told the chick she is a +@@#* cuz she was tryna get at my cuz on the slide...and she tried to fake like she was upset...Smdh but im too trill for this...but Damn my that's crazy my own cuz tho...
I kinda blame you bro, how do you allow your "girl" to be taken like that? There has to be a deeper story or some self esteem issues hereOriginally Posted by AntBanks81
How did this come about?? That's $$!$$# up family would do you in like thatOriginally Posted by 216301baller
My date to the currensy concert is a $$*%+ n my cuz stole her from me....damn nt don't trust these $$$*+# or family...I learned my lesson...dam even fam doesn't keep it 100.. I told the chick she is a +@@#* cuz she was tryna get at my cuz on the slide...and she tried to fake like she was upset...Smdh but im too trill for this...but Damn my that's crazy my own cuz tho...
The silver lining to this...you now know you can't bring anyone around your cousin and you know shorty woulda cheated eventually and wasn't worth the price of the ticket
lolwutOriginally Posted by solarius49
I kinda blame you bro, how do you allow your "girl" to be taken like that? There has to be a deeper story or some self esteem issues hereOriginally Posted by AntBanks81
How did this come about?? That's $$!$$# up family would do you in like thatOriginally Posted by 216301baller
My date to the currensy concert is a $$*%+ n my cuz stole her from me....damn nt don't trust these $$$*+# or family...I learned my lesson...dam even fam doesn't keep it 100.. I told the chick she is a +@@#* cuz she was tryna get at my cuz on the slide...and she tried to fake like she was upset...Smdh but im too trill for this...but Damn my that's crazy my own cuz tho...
The silver lining to this...you now know you can't bring anyone around your cousin and you know shorty woulda cheated eventually and wasn't worth the price of the ticket
I cant even be mad at your cousin, if the box is to be had, and its not actually your girlfriend, then its fair game if you aint making the proper moves
Originally Posted by Da XpLiCiT OnE
Got engaged last weekend. It's going to be 6 years being together next week (I'm 26 she's 25).
We've been long distance the whole time, 2 different states.
Just need to finish my work project within the next 2-3 months then look for a job out in Cali to move in with her, finally.
Long distance CAN work out if both people work hard at it
No but sounds like his cousin made that move and he didnt. Like dude said, shorty was choosing, and he drew the short straw...As soon as you saw their conversation getting friendly, dude shoulda started cuffinOriginally Posted by DaBottom305
lolwutOriginally Posted by solarius49
I kinda blame you bro, how do you allow your "girl" to be taken like that? There has to be a deeper story or some self esteem issues hereOriginally Posted by AntBanks81
How did this come about?? That's $$!$$# up family would do you in like that
The silver lining to this...you now know you can't bring anyone around your cousin and you know shorty woulda cheated eventually and wasn't worth the price of the ticket
I cant even be mad at your cousin, if the box is to be had, and its not actually your girlfriend, then its fair game if you aint making the proper moves
So if he has a date that his cousin is aware of and he doesn't make her his girlfriend immediately, that's HIS fault?
I don't care if dude was just his friend, once it is known he dating/courting/talking to her the cause she not pursuit anything. Clearly his cousin can't be trusted and I'm sure dude will learn not to bring girls around him anymore.
@ allow.. like she's some kid or pet.
No but sounds like his cousin made that move and he didnt. Like dude said, shorty was choosing, and he drew the short straw...As soon as you saw their conversation getting friendly, dude shoulda started cuffinOriginally Posted by solarius49
lolwut
So if he has a date that his cousin is aware of and he doesn't make her his girlfriend immediately, that's HIS fault?
I don't care if dude was just his friend, once it is known he dating/courting/talking to her the cause she not pursuit anything. Clearly his cousin can't be trusted and I'm sure dude will learn not to bring girls around him anymore.
@ allow.. like she's some kid or pet.
Originally Posted by 651akathePaul
Originally Posted by WISEPHAROAH
I really miss the " magic" of being a kid. Life had a kind of feeling that I can't explain. The feeling of having that crush on that girl or knowing your birthday was coming up. The excitement and beauty of a summer day with no real worries. Responsibility,experience and ambition have completely robbed me of any remnant of wonder. The small intricate glory of being just flat out ignorant is gone. I've seen,heard and been around too much and my mind is over saturated with too much "reality" and hard truth. Love isn't something my heart yearns for anymore and im not entranced or deceived by petty illusions of the ego. I'm free yet I've never felt as suffocated and in bondage as I do now. Life is a uncomprehensible paradox.
That's the problem. The "magic" never goes away. You just think you have to displace it. I never understood this mindset to be honest. I absolutely love my life as it is as an adult. Being a kid was fun, but damn...So many more opportunities now, I feel..Try this. Make a Pro's and Con's list of being a kid vs an adult. Serious....If you're still unhappy then change things up. Move away, new job, new GF..whatever. That's the wonder that can still recapture the magic. Once you find your personal freedom (happiness) then you'll rediscover your inner kid and won't fret about the reality and will stop trying to reminisce on the past.
/real
Originally Posted by AntBanks81
man you don't step over your family/friends for buns...its everywhere, no need to be a viking about it...if its someone I don't know, then yeah its open season and even that mentality was when I was younger.
If someone else saw her first and is on a date with her, you stand back. I don't even mess with chicks after my people are done with them.