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Originally Posted by Capricorn1229
Yeah you clearly didn't put him the friend zone properly.Originally Posted by SShanique
Okay, I don't see what the big deal is about arts & crafts. The guy had expressed interest in me and had asked me out a few times. I wasn't interested, but he said we could be friends. We went along as friends. Then we were doing a project for school, and he asked me to come over. At first I didn't want to, but then I decided it would be okay. He said that he would be sitting in his recliner, and I would be sitting on the couch. Okay, cool with me. After I got there, he started getting closer and closer to me, taking pictures, putting them as his laptop background and such. Then he said that we could work together in his office, and he showed it to me. Well, I went in there and was standing beside a huge stack of Playboy and XXL (I think that's the name of it) magazines. I asked him about them, like why did he have all that.Originally Posted by Big J 33
Maybe if they were dating for awhile and it was just a random activity they did one afternoon, then arts and crafts isn't that weird.Originally Posted by Nawth21
What's wrong with arts n crafts?
But to bring them over on a first date or something
OP... what did you expect? You come over with paper-mache and he's going to jump for joy and propose to you?
He quickly changed the subject. Anyway, he planted himself on the couch beside me. He grabbed my hair and said that he loved my hair and that he'd always loved my hair. Most people wouldn't say that about natural hair, so that was a huge compliment to me. Then he asked me if he could touch my back. I was feeling uncomfortable, and he started trying to give me a massage. I told him to stop, and he was like, "I do that with all my friends. Well, all my female friends." At that point I was thinking, "What kind of friends does he have?"
Later he tried to kiss me and grabbed my chest. I couldn't believe what was happening, so I pushed him off me. I yelled at him. He was acting like he was sorry, and he was sitting on the couch. I was standing at that point with my back turned to him. I guess my butt was at eye level, and he was like, "No, turn around. That's just making it worse."He apologized profusely, so we did continue to work on our project together.
I went over there 3 more times to work on our paper, and he sat in his recliner. I sat on the couch, and he didn't bother me after that. After we finished I didn't go back over there, but he still said he really liked me and would like to see me outside of class. I said that we could possibly hang out after I finished my exams. After exams is when I brought the arts & crafts. It was the getting-to-know-you stage. I didn't just want him to see me as a sex object.You gave dude hope when there was none.
Arts & Crafts is cruel when you know dude wants to jump your bones.
Well, I thought he liked and respected me as a person, but it turns out that he just wanted to sleep with me.