Virgins of Niketalk, Assemble.

[shyguy]

I turn 21 in jan and im currently a kissless virgin. Im not waiting for a 10/10 or marriage or anything like that. I just lack anything close to confidence and im really shy. Ive stopped worrying about it though, in highschool i was always thinking like "damn i need to get a girl before its too late" but now im just like if its gonna happen it'll happen and if not then oh well.

 

[sir charles]

the grape jelly....

I apologize for my outburst

YOU GOT PEANUT ALLERGIES!

 

[dt43]

I turn 21 in jan and im currently a kissless virgin. Im not waiting for a 10/10 or marriage or anything like that. I just lack anything close to confidence and im really shy. Ive stopped worrying about it though, in highschool i was always thinking like "damn i need to get a girl before its too late" but now im just like if its gonna happen it'll happen and if not then oh well.

Even worse than caring is trying to pretend that you don't care.. all you're doing is allowing it to dig even deeper into your subconscious and affect your confidence in ways that you aren't even aware of.

You have to face it head on and decide that you'll drop your fantasies and stop making it out to be a big deal. Sex is just a fun act humans engage in, it's not something you have to change yourself for.

 

[foamhead93]

ShyGuy I'm in the same boat.
Never had a girlfriend, or been on a date either because that fear of rejection is so strong
All I ever hear from friends talking about getting girls is confidence
I've been trying to get some confidence up, but my self-esteem is down in the dumps so it's a slow process

 

[trav t]

ShyGuy I'm in the same boat.
Never had a girlfriend, or been on a date either because that fear of rejection is so strong
All I ever hear from friends talking about getting girls is confidence
I've been trying to get some confidence up, but my self-esteem is down in the dumps so it's a slow process

Here are some sayings to keep in mind:

He who hesitates masturbates.
You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.

Now get to it! What you're pretty much saying is, "I'm gonna pass up an opportunity to land a GF and have sex because I don't want to get rejected by 4-10 girls first to get there." We've all been rejected by girls more times than we've succeeded. All you need is one girl to say yes. Who knows, maybe 3 will say yes. Now suck it up and get out there!

 

[jordan novice]

Like shyguy and foamhead93, I too am one of you. I made a thread a few months ago. Posted my pic, people said I was trollin'

 

[bluesneakerhead]

there's nothing wrong with being a virgin imo 

 whatever happens, happens.

 

[mrbrown]

-start no fap
-initiate no porn
-start doing push ups
-start asking random women for directions to random locations
-proceed to wear a watch and ask women for the time
-start to smile at the hottest chicks that make eye contact. Grin sometimes
-introduce your self to some cute chicks
-straight out ask girls out not giving a ****

do these enough and you increase chances of getting some action by about 68%

 

[shyguy]

Even worse than caring is trying to pretend that you don't care.. all you're doing is allowing it to dig even deeper into your subconscious and affect your confidence in ways that you aren't even aware of.
You have to face it head on and decide that you'll drop your fantasies and stop making it out to be a big deal. Sex is just a fun act humans engage in, it's not something you have to change yourself for.

I still care and all, I still want a gf. In hs i would always beat myself up mentally and never do anything to try and change. Now i just don't belittle myself and never do anything to change. I realize that any guy can get a girl. Even if you're a quasimodo looking dude you can still get a girl, its all about confidence.

I do have to change myself physically though. I have phimosis which is when your foreskin can't go all the way back and it makes sex painful (so I've heard obviously i don't know) so if i want to lose my v-card I'm gonna have to get circumcised one of these days. But that's getting way ahead of myself i should probably try to atleast get to 1st base.

 

[shyguy]

Like shyguy and foamhead93, I too am one of you. I made a thread a few months ago. Posted my pic, people said I was trollin'

ShyGuy I'm in the same boat.
Never had a girlfriend, or been on a date either because that fear of rejection is so strong
All I ever hear from friends talking about getting girls is confidence
I've been trying to get some confidence up, but my self-esteem is down in the dumps so it's a slow process

We should meet once every month like AA and see if we can't get over these issues together.

 

[acbboyz84]

Tears

 

[udawgg]

I still care and all, I still want a gf. In hs i would always beat myself up mentally and never do anything to try and change. Now i just don't belittle myself and never do anything to change. I realize that any guy can get a girl. Even if you're a quasimodo looking dude you can still get a girl, its all about confidence.

I do have to change myself physically though. I have phimosis which is when you're foreskin can't go all the way back and it makes sex painful (so I've heard obviously i don't know) so if i want to lose my v-card I'm gonna have to get circumcised one of these days. But that's getting way ahead of myself i should probably try to atleast get to 1st base.

putting waaaaay too much thought into your situation my dude

you're in, you're out, and you're on the go

 

[shyguy]

putting waaaaay too much thought into your situation my dude

you're in, you're out, and you're on the go

I literally can't do it right now.

 

[shoefreakbaby]

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This is so random and off topic but your avi is gving me de ja vu, which game is that.

 

[mrbrown]

If any dudes are in LA and are serious about changing

hit me up... I too need to perfect my game so practice makes perfect. Anyone need some in action coaching hit me up. Ill try my best to get any NT virgins on the wet path to success

serious. Ill be wingman

 

[sir charles]

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This is so random and off topic but your avi is gving me de ja vu, which game is that.

Shy guy is from super msrio

 

[shoefreakbaby]

Shy guy is from super msrio

I knew it, thats when the screen get all dizzy and makes sleep music right

 

[sunshineblotters]

Ohh I will have to read this whole thread for the lulz

But yah unfortunately. It is the cause of my extremely low self esteem. So much so that I am not suicidal. i just wouldnt do much to save my life. I actually fought someone with a knife over my gold chain wearing it in a place I know I shouldnt have

24 on May 24.

I am a scrawny black male. I am working to change the scrawniness but it won't change the fact that I look 15

 

[shoefreakbaby]

Ohh I will have to read this whole thread for the lulz
But yah unfortunately. It is the cause of my extremely low self esteem. So much so that I am not suicidal. i just wouldnt do much to save my life. I actually fought someone with a knife over my gold chain wearing it in a place I know I shouldnt have
24 on May 24.
I am a scrawny black male. I am working to change the scrawniness but it won't change the fact that I look 15

Go to the gym and lift weights, I seen people confidence skyrocket after gaining some muscle and their faces matured

 

[sunshineblotters]

Would you rather be a virgin or a guy who has a lot of sex with ugly women?

The latter.

Looks aren't even in my standards anymore (I will smash anything thats a 4/10 and up. I cant afford not to)

 

[currensy]

I'ma virgin to guise but I know what my problem(s) are.

I have no clue how I get girls that are interested but still scared of getting rejected, prolly my mindset.

 

[sunshineblotters]

No offense (seriously), but you're a woman, so you couldn't possibly understand the plight of being a grown man who still has his V-card.




...

This is what I try to tell my younger sister, who is not a virgin

 

[sir charles]

Would you rather be a virgin or a guy who has a lot of sex with ugly women?

The latter.

Looks aren't even in my standards anymore (I will smash anything thats a 4/10 and up. I cant afford not to)

wait what

 

[sunshineblotters]

real talk...i want to see what some of you dudes look like

I won't upload a pic but if you are looking for
When girls stare at me I am not sure if they are checking me out or staring in disgust. I usually assume the latter. I simply refuse to believe a girl would check me out. I couldn't understand what would go through a girls mind for that to happen.
It's actually how I got into clothes and shoes and spend a ridiculous amount of money on both, and cover almost every inch of my body.

 

[shoefreakbaby]

^ It cant be that bad


You guys post are making me sad, its wayyy easier being a female virgin.

I guess in the meanwhile you guys can get some positivity out of it.
If you not getting yambs, then you are probably not in a relationship
If you are in a relationship you're probably focusing more on you and your goals

idk




cant believe i just said yambs, I need another break from NT