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I was close with my old High School buddy for nearly 9 years, last year we got in a car accident. I was the passenger he was the driver, we both had a fewdrinks since our plan was to just chill at the beach with a few people and spend the night. Well i got sick so i ended up throwing up or w/e, and just sat upon the ground cause i just wanted to go to sleep.
According to him the people in the house which were no more than 10 were "talking crap about me", so he wanted to leave i assume he got embarassedsince he invited me and now its like "look at this guy". A few people including myself are saying t just stay or w/e and leave in the morning causeof the fact that he had some drinks. He was too stubborn and i was dumb to get in the car, but being two hours away from home with no car and work the next daydidn't really leave me a choice
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So i get in, put my seat belt on, ask him yo you sure you can drive? It's a long drive and i'm ready to fall asleep. "Yea man i'm cool blahblah."
Well next thing i know I'm out, he wakes me up i look up and see busted air bags, cracked windshield and a bunch of trees...
Turns out he fell asleep, rear ended a lady and was only able to react after the impact. Things got weird after that, mainly so when he tried blaming me forwhole situation. At least he did so when people asked what happened? he'd reply " I was taking drunk "el cuco" home and we had anaccident."
Since then i kinda just kept my distance moreso due to the lack of an apology for trying to point the finger at me and what not, Last time we chilled wasaround xmas time then we bumped into each other one other time.
Well last night he hits me up saying his b-day's on thurs that he's having people over, I'm more then welcomed to stop by...Maybe we can put ourdifferences in the past and what not.
I don't respond to the text, an hr later i get on aim and he im's me asking if i got the text?
I don't respond... what are your thoughts?
Cliffnotes:
Best friends since freshman yr h.s.
Go down to the beach to have a good time
Me: Starts feeling sick from the drinks i had
Him: Embarrassed i got sick, claimed people were talking crap so he wanted to leave
Everyone: Tells him to just stay that i shouldn't be moving around let him be, to leave in the morning
Him: He's good to drive
Me: No choice since i had work and lived 2hrs away with no other way to get home
Me: Gets in buckles up and falls asleep
Him: Falls asleep and ends up rear ended a lady and nearly killing us on the expressway
Him: Points finger at me when people asked what happened?
Me: Gets pissed and just ignores him for a while seen him no more than 5 times since last summer.
Him: Texts me to see if i want to go out for his bday with some co-workers of his, im's me later to see if i got his text.
Me: ....... no response
What would you guys do in this situation?
According to him the people in the house which were no more than 10 were "talking crap about me", so he wanted to leave i assume he got embarassedsince he invited me and now its like "look at this guy". A few people including myself are saying t just stay or w/e and leave in the morning causeof the fact that he had some drinks. He was too stubborn and i was dumb to get in the car, but being two hours away from home with no car and work the next daydidn't really leave me a choice
So i get in, put my seat belt on, ask him yo you sure you can drive? It's a long drive and i'm ready to fall asleep. "Yea man i'm cool blahblah."
Well next thing i know I'm out, he wakes me up i look up and see busted air bags, cracked windshield and a bunch of trees...
Turns out he fell asleep, rear ended a lady and was only able to react after the impact. Things got weird after that, mainly so when he tried blaming me forwhole situation. At least he did so when people asked what happened? he'd reply " I was taking drunk "el cuco" home and we had anaccident."
Since then i kinda just kept my distance moreso due to the lack of an apology for trying to point the finger at me and what not, Last time we chilled wasaround xmas time then we bumped into each other one other time.
Well last night he hits me up saying his b-day's on thurs that he's having people over, I'm more then welcomed to stop by...Maybe we can put ourdifferences in the past and what not.
I don't respond to the text, an hr later i get on aim and he im's me asking if i got the text?
I don't respond... what are your thoughts?
Cliffnotes:
Best friends since freshman yr h.s.
Go down to the beach to have a good time
Me: Starts feeling sick from the drinks i had
Him: Embarrassed i got sick, claimed people were talking crap so he wanted to leave
Everyone: Tells him to just stay that i shouldn't be moving around let him be, to leave in the morning
Him: He's good to drive
Me: No choice since i had work and lived 2hrs away with no other way to get home
Me: Gets in buckles up and falls asleep
Him: Falls asleep and ends up rear ended a lady and nearly killing us on the expressway
Him: Points finger at me when people asked what happened?
Me: Gets pissed and just ignores him for a while seen him no more than 5 times since last summer.
Him: Texts me to see if i want to go out for his bday with some co-workers of his, im's me later to see if i got his text.
Me: ....... no response
What would you guys do in this situation?
