What would make a guy interested in a girl he was not initially interested in? Vol. Keepin' it rea

[antonlavey]

Originally Posted by HOVKid

Originally Posted by AntonLaVey


These type of girls is the reason why I am settling for nothing less than a wealthy Jewish American Princess. I am extremely skeptical of women who are attracted to success and material things.....my solution is to get a girl that already has it all

live good off daddy's trust fund.

Best thing I've ever read on NT.  They are the hottest chicks out there....hands down.

One thing you should know though, **** are golddiggers too.  They won't ever really marry someone that doesn't come from money if they do.







  

KEYWORD....WEALTHY.

 

[sshanique]

Originally Posted by AntonLaVey

Originally Posted by K2theAblaM

Originally Posted by SShanique

Originally Posted by toine2983

  If he had not owned the restaurant, I don't think I would have been interested in him at all, especially since he had a tattoo.  If I ever see him again, I'm going to tease him about it. 

 

I'm starting to miss DC's daily threads.

Well, then he would have been just another guy.  When he told me who he was, he was already qualified, because my ex manager use to talk about the restaurant across the street all the time.  He would be like, such and such is packed, and then I would be looking across the street, longing for a single customer to set foot into the restaurant where I worked.  A 25-year-old who is doing that much better than a couple of 50-year-olds definitely makes me sit up and take notice.  Even in the online reviews, there is a huge difference between the two restaurants.  It also turns out that the guy lives a few houses down from my bosses.  At 25, he owned a house, a restaurant, a car, and I don't know what else.  To me, it is very attractive for a man that young to be about his business, because I am definitely about mine!

  

Grimey. Just everything about you.

These type of girls is the reason why I am settling for nothing less than a wealthy Jewish American Princess. I am extremely skeptical of women who are attracted to success and material things.....my solution is to get a girl that already has it all

live good off daddy's trust fund.







  
I already have material things, boo boo!  So, why would I go out looking for some guy who is a loser?  As I said, this guy is about his business.  He has a restaurant, a ride, a house and takes care of his sister, from what I can tell.  He reminds me so much of my dad, who in his twenties before I was born, bought a house for his parents to live in.  Apparently, they didn't have very much.  They all lived together along with any of his sisters who were going through or had gotten divorced.

Then my mom joined in and then me and another one of my sisters.  My mom was pregnant with my 2nd sister, when my dad decided the house was getting too crowded.  He then bought another house for his parents and one of his sisters to live in.  After that, he bought several rental properties, and guess what another sister and his neices and nephew lives in one of the houses.  Another rental property was accompanied by another one of his neices.  None of these people have to pay rent, and my dad keeps all the houses up with new furniture and appliances and does the repairs.

But I guess because I'm black and looking for a man who has his stuff together, I must be a golddigger, huh?  My dad has a nice job at Georgia Power, a Southern Company (anybody from Georgia knows what that is), and he has his rental property business on the side.  I don't have to ask for anything from any guy I choose to date.  I already posted about my last boyfriend who was always trying to get money off of me, signed me up for a cellphone plan behind my back so that his bill could be lowered, etc.  I don't want to be with anyone like that.  At the end of the day, I just want a man I can respect.

 

[sshanique]

Originally Posted by Nktran001

So, you're basically attracted to success.

Yes, thank you!

 

[MON5T3R]

Originally Posted by AntonLaVey

She want a 25 year old Italian guy with a big house, a nice car, owns his own business, doesn't drink, doesn't gamble, no tattoos, as straight laced as they come, probably has no personality or backbone........and whose favorite thing to do is arts and crafts.

Craigslist anyone?

 

[ThaxbyChamblis]

Yeah, so y'all always ride on this chick (w/ reason most of the time) but I don't see a problem w/ this last little discussion is about.

I mean, what woman WOULDN'T want that. Just like a dude would love that about another chick.

That's attractive to anybody. To say any different is asinine.

Carry on.

I don't see any gold diggerism's yet

Not saying that they aren't there though.

 

[antonlavey]

Originally Posted by SShanique

Originally Posted by Nktran001

So, you're basically attracted to success.

Yes, thank you!

I'm not knocking you for being attracted to success, do you....but I will never commit to a woman who was obsessed with success and "things" long-term. It's too risky.

 

[sshanique]

Originally Posted by AntonLaVey

She want a 25 year old Italian guy with a big house, a nice car, owns his own business, doesn't drink, doesn't gamble, no tattoos, as straight laced as they come, probably has no personality or backbone........and whose favorite thing to do is arts and crafts.

I never said that.  I said even though he has a tattoo, I was willing to work with him.  He has a personality.  I don't think he's "straight-laced" if he has a tattoo.  He's 26 now, anyway.  When I met him, he was 25.  I hardly ever do arts & crafts.  Plus, this guy invited me to his birthday party and invited me out.  I wouldn't have to resort to arts & crafts.

 

[antonlavey]

Originally Posted by dreClark

Yeah, so y'all always ride on this chick (w/ reason most of the time) but I don't see a problem w/ this last little discussion is about.

I mean, what woman WOULDN'T want that. Just like a dude would love that about another chick.

That's attractive to anybody. To say any different is asinine.

Carry on.

I don't see any gold diggerism's yet

Not saying that they aren't there though.

I'm not even calling her a gold-digger.......I'm calling her a "potential" gold-digger. Love should be about a connection and the "intangibles" such as personality, shared interests and values.....not a business, house and a nice car. That's all I'm saying.

 

[sshanique]

Originally Posted by AntonLaVey

Originally Posted by dreClark

Yeah, so y'all always ride on this chick (w/ reason most of the time) but I don't see a problem w/ this last little discussion is about.

I mean, what woman WOULDN'T want that. Just like a dude would love that about another chick.

That's attractive to anybody. To say any different is asinine.

Carry on.

I don't see any gold diggerism's yet

Not saying that they aren't there though.

I'm not even calling her a gold-digger.......I'm calling her a "potential" gold-digger. Love should be about a connection and the "intangibles" such as personality, shared interests and values.....not a business, house and a nice car. That's all I'm saying.

We had a "connection."  I think he's hot, after knowing him for a while.  I also love the way he dresses, his accent, his jokes... ooh la la.

 

[k2theablam]

Originally Posted by SShanique

Originally Posted by Nktran001

So, you're basically attracted to success.

Yes, thank you!

Like I said. Straight Grimey.

 

[antonlavey]

Originally Posted by SShanique

Originally Posted by AntonLaVey

She want a 25 year old Italian guy with a big house, a nice car, owns his own business, doesn't drink, doesn't gamble, no tattoos, as straight laced as they come, probably has no personality or backbone........and whose favorite thing to do is arts and crafts.

I never said that.  I said even though he has a tattoo, I was willing to work with him.  He has a personality.  I don't think he's "straight-laced" if he has a tattoo.  He's 26 now, anyway.  When I met him, he was 25.  I hardly ever do arts & crafts.  Plus, this guy invited me to his birthday party and invited me out.  I wouldn't have to resort to arts & crafts.

I don't know why, but the notion of a mid-20s woman doing arts and crafts has me dying right now.

 

[wildcard]

%%#! you and these threads are so annoying.... you're a GIRL on a SNEAKER MESSAGE BOARD who constantly asks about FEMALE RELATIONSHIP ADVICE. I mean, can't u c y noone cares?

 

[sshanique]

Originally Posted by AntonLaVey

Originally Posted by SShanique

Originally Posted by AntonLaVey

She want a 25 year old Italian guy with a big house, a nice car, owns his own business, doesn't drink, doesn't gamble, no tattoos, as straight laced as they come, probably has no personality or backbone........and whose favorite thing to do is arts and crafts.

I never said that.  I said even though he has a tattoo, I was willing to work with him.  He has a personality.  I don't think he's "straight-laced" if he has a tattoo.  He's 26 now, anyway.  When I met him, he was 25.  I hardly ever do arts & crafts.  Plus, this guy invited me to his birthday party and invited me out.  I wouldn't have to resort to arts & crafts.

I don't know why, but the notion of a mid-20s woman doing arts and crafts has me dying right now.

Well, my grandma started letting me draw when I was about 4, and ever since then I've loved art.  I always was told by my teachers growing up that I was "creative."  I am also creative in my writing and other areas.  It's not limited to arts & crafts.  Sheesh!  There are artists of all ages out there.
  
Okay, y'all are trying to make it seem worse than it is. I don't even use beads or popsicle sticks!

 

[antonlavey]

Originally Posted by SShanique

Originally Posted by AntonLaVey

Originally Posted by dreClark

Yeah, so y'all always ride on this chick (w/ reason most of the time) but I don't see a problem w/ this last little discussion is about.

I mean, what woman WOULDN'T want that. Just like a dude would love that about another chick.

That's attractive to anybody. To say any different is asinine.

Carry on.

I don't see any gold diggerism's yet

Not saying that they aren't there though.

I'm not even calling her a gold-digger.......I'm calling her a "potential" gold-digger. Love should be about a connection and the "intangibles" such as personality, shared interests and values.....not a business, house and a nice car. That's all I'm saying.

We had a "connection."  I think he's hot, after knowing him for a while.  I also love the way he dresses, his accent, his jokes... ooh la la.

That doesn't seem to be the main "focus" of your attraction. You chose your words carefully the first time around.

 

[sshanique]

Originally Posted by K2theAblaM

Originally Posted by SShanique

Originally Posted by Nktran001

So, you're basically attracted to success.

Yes, thank you!

Like I said. Straight Grimey.

Can you explain to me how that is grimey?  I'm not attracted to any successful person, just him.

 

[hovkid]

Originally Posted by SShanique

Originally Posted by AntonLaVey

She want a 25 year old Italian guy with a big house, a nice car, owns his own business, doesn't drink, doesn't gamble, no tattoos, as straight laced as they come, probably has no personality or backbone........and whose favorite thing to do is arts and crafts.

I never said that.  I said even though he has a tattoo, I was willing to work with him.  He has a personality.  I don't think he's "straight-laced" if he has a tattoo.  He's 26 now, anyway.  When I met him, he was 25.  I hardly ever do arts & crafts.  Plus, this guy invited me to his birthday party and invited me out.  I wouldn't have to resort to arts & crafts.

All I gotta say is you better be coming THROUGH if I'm getting the right idea about the kind of guy you want.

Your body better be on point and you better dress like an all star BEFORE you even get with him......I'm talking Jimmy Choos, all the expensive pocketbooks, pony tail with the ill big sunglasses.....the whole nine.

No offense, I have no idea what you look like or how you dress, but odds are if you post on NT, the type of guy you want (i.e are attracted to) will not be attracted to you.



  

 

[kicktionair]

Its obvious chick is a gold digger from the jump

considering marrying that one dude just cause of the restaurant smh...

OP just go into the porn business or something.... forget law (common sense you have none)

 

[ThaxbyChamblis]

Originally Posted by AntonLaVey

I'm not even calling her a gold-digger.......I'm calling her a "potential" gold-digger. Love should be about a connection and the "intangibles" such as personality, shared interests and values.....not a business, house and a nice car. That's all I'm saying.

No doubt bro, and you're 100% right, but we aren't talking about LOVE right now, we're talking about an initial attraction/courtship. Owning a business, etc is what she comes from (provided she is not a troll) so those would be shared interests and values, no ?

 

[sshanique]

Originally Posted by AntonLaVey

Originally Posted by SShanique

Originally Posted by AntonLaVey

Originally Posted by dreClark

Yeah, so y'all always ride on this chick (w/ reason most of the time) but I don't see a problem w/ this last little discussion is about.

I mean, what woman WOULDN'T want that. Just like a dude would love that about another chick.

That's attractive to anybody. To say any different is asinine.

Carry on.

I don't see any gold diggerism's yet

Not saying that they aren't there though.

I'm not even calling her a gold-digger.......I'm calling her a "potential" gold-digger. Love should be about a connection and the "intangibles" such as personality, shared interests and values.....not a business, house and a nice car. That's all I'm saying.

We had a "connection."  I think he's hot, after knowing him for a while.  I also love the way he dresses, his accent, his jokes... ooh la la.

That doesn't seem to be the main "focus" of your attraction. You chose your words carefully the first time around.

Because I don't know any guy his age who has those things.  I thought you guys would be as impressed as I am, but apparently not.  Now, I'm in the golddigger category.
  

 

[diego]

Originally Posted by SShanique

Originally Posted by K2theAblaM

Originally Posted by SShanique

Originally Posted by Nktran001

So, you're basically attracted to success.

Yes, thank you!

Like I said. Straight Grimey.

Can you explain to me how that is grimey?  I'm not attracted to any successful person, just him.

Well, well, well......a selective gold digger.

 

[k2theablam]

Originally Posted by HOVKid

Originally Posted by SShanique

Originally Posted by AntonLaVey

She want a 25 year old Italian guy with a big house, a nice car, owns his own business, doesn't drink, doesn't gamble, no tattoos, as straight laced as they come, probably has no personality or backbone........and whose favorite thing to do is arts and crafts.

I never said that.  I said even though he has a tattoo, I was willing to work with him.  He has a personality.  I don't think he's "straight-laced" if he has a tattoo.  He's 26 now, anyway.  When I met him, he was 25.  I hardly ever do arts & crafts.  Plus, this guy invited me to his birthday party and invited me out.  I wouldn't have to resort to arts & crafts.

All I gotta say is you better be coming THROUGH if I'm getting the right idea about the kind of guy you want.

Your body better be on point and you better dress like an all star BEFORE you even get with him......I'm talking Jimmy Choos, all the expensive pocketbooks, pony tail with the ill big sunglasses.....the whole nine.

No offense, I have no idea what you look like or how you dress, but odds are if you post on NT, the type of guy you want will not be attracted to you.
  

Perfectly worded. You a preeeeetty decent attorney aren't you.

 

[ninjallamafromhell]

I feel sorry for this dude, I mean what successful dude would want to mess around with an absolute train wreck?  Not I says this guy.  I prefer my women with intelligence anyways.

 

[sshanique]

Originally Posted by Kicktionair

Its obvious chick is a gold digger from the jump

considering marrying that one dude just cause of the restaurant smh...

OP just go into the porn business or something.... forget law (common sense you have none)

I never said I was considering marrying that guy.  I said I felt bad for him, because he laid a guilt trip on me.

 

[antonlavey]

Originally Posted by dreClark

Originally Posted by AntonLaVey

I'm not even calling her a gold-digger.......I'm calling her a "potential" gold-digger. Love should be about a connection and the "intangibles" such as personality, shared interests and values.....not a business, house and a nice car. That's all I'm saying.

No doubt bro, and you're 100% right, but we aren't talking about LOVE right now, we're talking about an initial attraction/courtship. Owning a business, etc is what she comes from (provided she is not a troll) so those would be shared interests and values, no ?

Well yea.....but I would never make a transition from casual fun to a long-term committed thing if a girl gives me the impression she is obsessed with my success.

 

[fedexciter]

Originally Posted by HOVKid

Originally Posted by SShanique

Originally Posted by AntonLaVey

She want a 25 year old Italian guy with a big house, a nice car, owns his own business, doesn't drink, doesn't gamble, no tattoos, as straight laced as they come, probably has no personality or backbone........and whose favorite thing to do is arts and crafts.

I never said that.  I said even though he has a tattoo, I was willing to work with him.  He has a personality.  I don't think he's "straight-laced" if he has a tattoo.  He's 26 now, anyway.  When I met him, he was 25.  I hardly ever do arts & crafts.  Plus, this guy invited me to his birthday party and invited me out.  I wouldn't have to resort to arts & crafts.

All I gotta say is you better be coming THROUGH if I'm getting the right idea about the kind of guy you want.

Your body better be on point and you better dress like an all star BEFORE you even get with him......I'm talking Jimmy Choos, all the expensive pocketbooks, pony tail with the ill big sunglasses.....the whole nine.

No offense, I have no idea what you look like or how you dress, but odds are if you post on NT, the type of guy you want (i.e are attracted to) will not be attracted to you.



  

let me paint a picture for you

ever seen diana ross in like 1977?
there u go