Why are girls heartless? (Girl Problem)

[youngwill500]

I give this girl everything..i bend over backwards all the time for this girl.. I know sometimes a @##!, but thats only once every blue moon..i treated herwith mad respect.. but she is so caught up on being jealous of my best friend, which is a girl.. that ive known for 8years.. who is dating my male bestfriend for 10years.. for 4 years... we fight and argue over her..all the time.. we fight all the time now, over dumb stuff..because she is sometimesrude and immature..i feel like she takes everything i do for her, for granted.....and then she texts me saying she needs a break from me for a littlewhile..

 

[produccionfrescos]

Originally Posted by youngwill500

I give this girl everything..i bend over backwards all the time for this girl.. I know sometimes a @##!, but thats only once every blue moon..i treated her with mad respect.. but she is so caught up on being jealous of my best friend, which is a girl.. that ive known for 8years.. who is dating my male best friend for 10years.. for 4 years... we fight and argue over her..all the time.. we fight all the time now, over dumb stuff..because she is sometimes rude and immature..i feel like she takes everything i do for her, for granted.....and then she texts me saying she needs a break from me for a little while..

[color= rgb(255, 0, 0)]Stopped reading right there, get a back bone.[/color]

[color= rgb(255, 0, 0)]edit: I actually read this post, START SAYING NO!!!![/color]

 

[mez 0ne]

Yeah, for starters you can't give YOUR ALL from the start, she's gotta work to get to that point, and you do have to have a backbone and not doeverything she wants (a relationship is a 2 way street).

If she doesn't put forth the same effort you do in the relationship, then she either does not have the same strong feelings for you, or is simple selfish.You don't want to be with someone who is either to begin with.

I';m guessing you two are young as well.

EDIT:As for your close friend being a woman, she needs to be able to put that aside and trust you, all of my friends are females and pretty hot, but Idon't give my girl a reason to feel insecure or jealous over them. She needs to be able to trust you.

 

[drjdoc26]

Have you tried looking at it from her perspective? Just a thought. Not saying your in the wrong.

 

[youngwill500]

Originally Posted by DrJDoc26

Have you tried looking at it from her perspective? Just a thought. Not saying your in the wrong.

Dude, if she had a male best friend.. who was dating her female bestfriend for 3 + years.. i wouldnt have a problem..

 

[Pmighty]

Originally Posted by Mez 0ne

Yeah, for starters you can't give YOUR ALL from the start, she's gotta work to get to that point, and you do have to have a backbone and not do everything she wants (a relationship is a 2 way street).

If she doesn't put forth the same effort you do in the relationship, then she either does not have the same strong feelings for you, or is simple selfish. You don't want to be with someone who is either to begin with.

def the truth. Pmighty had to learn the hard way

and how long yall been together??

 

[youngwill500]

Originally Posted by Pmighty

Originally Posted by Mez 0ne

Yeah, for starters you can't give YOUR ALL from the start, she's gotta work to get to that point, and you do have to have a backbone and not do everything she wants (a relationship is a 2 way street).

If she doesn't put forth the same effort you do in the relationship, then she either does not have the same strong feelings for you, or is simple selfish. You don't want to be with someone who is either to begin with.

def the truth. Pmighty had to learn the hard way

and how long yall been together??

about 8months..but talked for like a year..

 

[blackmagnus514]

Find a new girl. Hell, find a hobby to do. Girls only act as crazy as you let them w/o checking them

 

[thytkerjobs]

make that break permanent.

to her. Insecure people FTL

 

[youngwill500]

Originally Posted by blackmagnus514

Find a new girl. Hell, find a hobby to do. Girls only act as crazy as you let them w/o checking them

i took up photography...

 

[carlosdapaperboy]

why is she jealous of your friend when she has a boyfriend?

. Iswear some of these women these days are so damn insecure

.

 

[retrojtino]

Originally Posted by carlosdapaperboy


why is she jealous of your friend when she has a boyfriend?

. I swear some of these women these days are so damn insecure

.

That's exactly what it is. Straight up insecurity. Imma make a post later on cuz I need some advice myself. My girl is insecure too. Just don't getback wit her. She needs to realize that her insecurities are gonna cause her to lose good things in life. That is, if you're actually a good thing in herlife. Good luck to u anyway brother.

 

[yungmatt]

Drop her

 

[eight2one]

she aint heartless, just a jealous insecure ingrate

 

[mez 0ne]

Women of all ages are always insecure, you have to give them a reason not to feel that way (and frequently).

 

[the minister]

 

[potus2028]

Stop being a !%$#!% simp. Seriously...get some nuts in that sack.

 

[5iveonit]

Originally Posted by eNPHAN

......because they have vagina.......

What !$%%#@$%%*$%? You have no right to say %$** about anything they're saying in here.

 

[5iveonit]

you didnt read the post but you felt it necessary to respond? get the %%## outta here

 

[selfmadepimp]

i didnt read anything but your title. and i can tell you it might be because dudes are heartless?

 

[DCAllAfrican]

Originally Posted by youngwill500

I give this girl everything..i bend over backwards all the time for this girl.. I know sometimes a @##!, but thats only once every blue moon..i treated her with mad respect.. but she is so caught up on being jealous of my best friend, which is a girl.. that ive known for 8years.. who is dating my male best friend for 10years.. for 4 years... we fight and argue over her..all the time.. we fight all the time now, over dumb stuff..because she is sometimes rude and immature..i feel like she takes everything i do for her, for granted.....and then she texts me saying she needs a break from me for a little while..

Start of problems right there

 

[5iveonit]

Originally Posted by eNPHAN

Originally Posted by 5iveonit

you didnt read the post but you felt it necessary to respond? get the %%## outta here

"Why are girl's heartless?"

"because they have vaginas"

which has nothing to do with what you gettin hot under the collar about.

haysh.

touchy subject. you know what/who i'm talking about

 

[a king of da kickz]

Yeaa...i think da question should be why are some so immature?....but yea it seems like she just wants to argue...cuz if chick mess wit ya malebestfriend..obviously there's nuttin der...welll....

in most casesder ain

 

[daytona 5000]

You acting softer than that Snuggle bear on the detergent

 

[czdadegrees]

Originally Posted by eNPHAN

......because they have vagina's.......

fixed