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Sometimes you just gotta get in where you fit in and find places where people embrace your personality and style. Growing up I was more of an intelligent metropolitan type, but I'd constantly mingle and party in Long Island and places where "bros" were looked at as the ideal. Now that I'm back in school and have something giving me swagger and confidence, and in a setting with people that embrace intelligence and can get with things that are different women are much more receptive to me.
Idk part of me thinks you're making excuses though. Like we all have homies who aren't loud but bag females. You probably know someone like that too. Not every girl wants the life of the party type either. A lot of those dudes are seen as immature and obnoxious as ****.There's more to this story than just your way of speaking. Maybe you're just a lame dude. But you shouldn't confine yourself to what sounds like hanging around hood rats if you truly believe you have as much going for you as you say. If you have your **** together then put yourself in settings with women that do too, or try the online dating route if a change of scenery isn't a viable option for you.
Idk part of me thinks you're making excuses though. Like we all have homies who aren't loud but bag females. You probably know someone like that too. Not every girl wants the life of the party type either. A lot of those dudes are seen as immature and obnoxious as ****.There's more to this story than just your way of speaking. Maybe you're just a lame dude. But you shouldn't confine yourself to what sounds like hanging around hood rats if you truly believe you have as much going for you as you say. If you have your **** together then put yourself in settings with women that do too, or try the online dating route if a change of scenery isn't a viable option for you.
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