12am Valentines day and I kicked her out..GOODBYE on PG10

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Not a single damb given. Must be hard though after a 7 year relationship...

Highest rep post I've ever seen. :wow: :pimp:
 

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There are not any significant updates except for the text messages I got all day from it...

"I know I messed up and you will never take me back. I regret doing what I did and it was not worth it. You are the only man for me. I bought these so I can wear them for you tonight. Just know that I will never be with another man or build my life with another man for the rest of my life" how pathetic.

These words have been repeated by her over and over and over again. I get send all kinds of pics in lingerie like if Im going to somehow forgive her and take her back based on her looks out of anything. I know I never loved her, this is relationship that stemmed from HS. For about 2.5 years of the 7 I was with her but on lose terms. She was clingy to the max doing irrational things when I would tell her that I needed time for my self to study and do what any young man should do in his early years of manhood. This woman trapped me with a child after I wanted to break up with her, stopped taking birth control. I was furious about this but I accepted and embraced the fact that I was going to be a father. Moved her out of her parents house and ever since Ive been literately upgrading living conditions every year like clockwork. The next step was buying a house but the silly girl will never eat the fruits of my labor. I made her get a job so she won't be just sitting at home being worthless getting dumber and fatter. All day on FaceBook and Instagram....Im sure the white knights were in full effect while she was literately in the next room or sitting next to me on the couch. Im not on social sites cause I live in the real but Im positive this changed her a bit. Soon after getting a job at a fastfood joint she started acting cool and confident (this is where she met her new soul mate). Telling me that she could find ANY guy :lol: I would just tell her alright... just make sure your new boy has some money. Dude had no money but did have some serious loving words thru txt.

Im not sure when I lost interest to the point where it became neglect. She was getting fat and was doing nothing about it. I would tell her she needed to work out cause rolls were developing and she had that there double chin. It was really disgusting to me because Im a fit guy and I had many beautiful women trying to get at me (to compare) but I would never follow through because it was not worth the hassle of dealing with being secretive... she would check my phone constantly and would answer it no matter who was calling so I just focused on school and the gym basically improving my self in order to improve the life of those around me. For years Ive noticed her flaws and always kicked my self over the head,always regretting the day I met her, how she took my freedom right when I was about to claim a life for myself as an adult. Her terrible feet disgusted me, her feet are huge with blisters all over cause she would wear small shoes to look sexy. Girls and even my mom used to tell me how I could do so much, I listened to them but in my mind I was in the relationship for my son. Every flaw was devastating to look at, when compared to all the other potential chicks I could be banging my soul would scream 'you dun'goofed'. I can honestly say the break up was inevitable it was going to be me leaving her due to the quality of women popping into my life or her straying away. I never told her "I love you" not one time because I never felt it while she would always say she "loved me and would die for me"... funny thing she said that while she was emptying out her closets and I was posting on NT. I just answered "well I guess your going to kill yourself tomorrow cause this is over for good".

Those saying I must have done something wrong might be right. I treated her like an equal and never talked to her like she was a 3 yr old. Never lied and kept it real. Always trying to make her become a higher valued person just like I was trying. Maybe I should have started simpin making her feel a false sense of confidence and security with herself. Maybe she thought it would be best to cheat and find someone on her level she could have her type of conversation. Maybe she thought I was dissing her when in reality I was trying to make her the perfect woman I desire. I asked her why she cheated and said "maybe because he talked really sweet to me"... yup good reason.

To all the young NT'rs and those coming into the world as young men. Stay focused and improve yourself, always look forward and set some goals. As you move forward in this rat race those not fit to run with you will stay behind in the dirt they are used to. Im not sure if women are irrational or some are just plain stupid. I had had recently just gotten accepted to a university and I have a very nice apartment in a nice area, even an ok car but this didn't make her think that if she messed up it would all be gone and she would have to go back to her parents house sharing one room with 3 people. The safety and small luxuries I provided were not enough to make her think twice. Men must learn to choose the women they will spend the rest of their life with. One must have standards and any flaw, any mistake important to you must be addressed immediately. Never settle for less when it comes to women. If you are trying to smash a girl just assume you will have a child with her before you smash then ***** your feelings...is it worth my time and effort? is she good enough for me? does she match my intelligence? will our kids look good? Always look at the mother...if the mother if obese then mostlikely the daughter will slowly pound for pound become the shadow of her mother. If you have a girl already picture yourself with her in the long run, think hard, change perspective... make sure it is what you desire.

I told some girls I know I was newly single for Valentines and the smirk said it all.. went out had some drinks with friends, got some numbers. I have my own place now so the yambs should be 30% easier. Ive kept my game sharp throughout the years just incase.... deep inside Ive always lusted for the true bachelor life style. Regarding my son I will probably try to gain custody sometime in the near future, or at least work out a 50-50 deal regarding time spend but ill let him decide who he wants to live with when he is old enough.


I got about 8-10 of these but only saved one for the beasts. Nothing to be sad about... them feets ugh. As I type this my phone is blowing up. txt message after txt message pic after pic (she must think I suffer instagram thirst). I guess it was a cold night or noticed her new boy didn't measure up.


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Im retiring this sn.... If you guys see some posts in the future about sexual escapes you already know.

with love

Never forget

Mr.Brown
 
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Damn son.

NT thick

But on some real ish I see you. Those hs relationships, you want them to be more than what they are. Hs relationships.
 
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:rofl: at her thinking those pics were going to salvage things

You are a good man
 
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There are not any significant updates except for the text messages I got all day from it...

"I know I messed up and you will never take me back. I regret doing what I did and it was not worth it. You are the only man for me. I bought these so I can wear them for you tonight. Just know that I will never be with another man or build my life with another man for the rest of my life" how pathetic.

These words have been repeated by her over and over and over again. I get send all kinds of pics in lingerie like if Im going to somehow forgive her and take her back based on her looks out of anything. I know I never loved her, this is relationship that stemmed from HS. For about 2.5 years of the 7 I was with her but on lose terms. She was clingy to the max doing irrational things when I would tell her that I needed time for my self to study and do what any young man should do in his early years of manhood. This woman trapped me with a child after I wanted to break up with her, stopped taking birth control. I was furious about this but I accepted and embraced the fact that I was going to be a father. Moved her out of her parents house and ever since Ive been literately upgrading living conditions every year like clockwork. The next step was buying a house but the silly girl will never eat the fruits of my labor. I made her get a job so she won't be just sitting at home being worthless getting dumber and fatter. All day on FaceBook and Instagram....Im sure the white knights were in full effect while she was literately in the next room or sitting next to me on the couch. Im not on social sites cause I live in the real but Im positive this changed her a bit. Soon after getting a job at a fastfood joint she started acting cool and confident (this is where she met her new soul mate). Telling me that she could find ANY guy :lol: I would just tell her alright... just make sure your new boy has some money. Dude had no money but did have some serious loving words thru txt.

Im not sure when I lost interest to the point where it became neglect. She was getting fat and was doing nothing about it. I would tell her she needed to work out cause rolls were developing and she had that there double chin. It was really disgusting to me because Im a fit guy and I had many beautiful women trying to get at me (to compare) but I would never follow through because it was not worth the hassle of dealing with being secretive... she would check my phone constantly and would answer it no matter who was calling so I just focused on school and the gym basically improving my self in order to improve the life of those around me. For years Ive noticed her flaws and always kicked my self over the head,always regretting the day I met her, how she took my freedom right when I was about to claim a life for myself as an adult. Her terrible feet disgusted me, her feet are huge with blisters all over cause she would wear small shoes to look sexy. Girls and even my mom used to tell me how I could do so much, I listened to them but in my mind I was in the relationship for my son. Every flaw was devastating to look at, when compared to all the other potential chicks I could be banging my soul would scream 'you dun'goofed'. I can honestly say the break up was inevitable it was going to be me leaving her due to the quality of women popping into my life or her straying away. I never told her "I love you" not one time because I never felt it while she would always say she "loved me and would die for me"... funny thing she said that while she was emptying out her closets and I was posting on NT. I just answered "well I guess your going to kill yourself tomorrow cause this is over for good".

Those saying I must have done something wrong might be right. I treated her like an equal and never talked to her like she was a 3 yr old. Never lied and kept it real. Always trying to make her become a higher valued person just like I was trying. Maybe I should have started simpin making her feel a false sense of confidence and security with herself. Maybe she thought it would be best to cheat and find someone on her level she could have her type of conversation. Maybe she thought I was dissing her when in reality I was trying to make her the perfect woman I desire. I asked her why she cheated and said "maybe because he talked really sweet to me"... yup good reason.

To all the young NT'rs and those coming into the world as young men. Stay focused and improve yourself, always look forward and set some goals. As you move forward in this rat race those not fit to run with you will stay behind in the dirt they are used to. Im not sure if women are irrational or some are just plain stupid. I had had recently just gotten accepted to a university and I have a very nice apartment in a nice area, even an ok car but this didn't make her think that if she messed up it would all be gone and she would have to go back to her parents house sharing one room with 3 people. The safety and small luxuries I provided were not enough to make her think twice. Men must learn to choose the women they will spend the rest of their life with. One must have standards and any flaw, any mistake important to you must be addressed immediately. Never settle for less when it comes to women. If you are trying to smash a girl just assume you will have a child with her before you smash then ***** your feelings...is it worth my time and effort? is she good enough for me? does she match my intelligence? will our kids look good? Always look at the mother...if the mother if obese then mostlikely the daughter will slowly pound for pound become the shadow of her mother. If you have a girl already picture yourself with her in the long run, think hard, change perspective... make sure it is what you desire.

I told some girls I know I was newly single for Valentines and the smirk said it all.. went out had some drinks with friends, got some numbers. I have my own place now so the yambs should be 30% easier. Ive kept my game sharp throughout the years just incase.... deep inside Ive always lusted for the true bachelor life style. Regarding my son I will probably try to gain custody sometime in the near future, or at least work out a 50-50 deal regarding time spend but ill let him decide who he wants to live with when he is old enough.


I got about 8-10 of these but only saved one for the beasts. Nothing to be sad about... them feets ugh. As I type this my phone is blowing up. txt message after txt message pic after pic (she must think I suffer instagram thirst). I guess it was a cold night or noticed her new boy didn't measure up.


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with love

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Mr.Brown
1. I think you're lame for posting this picture.

2. She didn't trap you. You agreed to have unprotected sex with her.

3. All that complaining in the 3rd paragraph shoud've been enough for your to leave on your own not wait around til she started stepping out on you for not doing what you were supposed to do. It's cowardice.

Pathetic.
 
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^ she told him she was on the pill, so he was safe believing she was on her contraceptive. Being in a long term relationship usually guarantees raw sex.

He blanked out her eyes, and you can't see her face. Dude was just being honest and showing what he was dealing with.

He was trapped though, with the child so the complaining was all he could do.
 
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Damn what a shame.

:rofl: @ the fact that she thought you would go back to her over those pics :x
 
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1. I think you're lame for posting this picture.

2. She didn't trap you. You agreed to have unprotected sex with her.

3. All that complaining in the 3rd paragraph shoud've been enough for your to leave on your own not wait around til she started stepping out on you for not doing what you were supposed to do. It's cowardice.

Pathetic.
you're riding this man's pole pretty hard, sir.
he's a man scorned...let him vent.
 
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^ she told him she was on the pill, so he was safe believing she was on her contraceptive. Being in a long term relationship usually guarantees raw sex.

He blanked out her eyes, and you can't see her face. Dude was just being honest and showing what he was dealing with.

He was trapped though, with the child so the complaining was all he could do.
I'm sure long term relationships usually does guarantees raw sex but I'm not putting myself in a position to get someone I don't love and don't want to be with pregnant. "when someone shows you who they are believe them". Dude says she would tell him she could get any man and his response was "alright... just make sure your new boy has some money." He can't be that scorned. Getting cheated on sucks. I'm not saying he deserves it. I'm just saying it was lame for him to post a picture like that online especially because of who she is, idc if she cheated. He'll probably regret it. i've seen this happen before. Good luck OP.
 
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1. I think you're lame for posting this picture.

2. She didn't trap you. You agreed to have unprotected sex with her.

3. All that complaining in the 3rd paragraph shoud've been enough for your to leave on your own not wait around til she started stepping out on you for not doing what you were supposed to do. It's cowardice.

Pathetic.
I'm sure long term relationships usually does guarantees raw sex but I'm not putting myself in a position to get someone I don't love and don't want to be with pregnant. "when someone shows you who they are believe them". Dude says she would tell him she could get any man and his response was "alright... just make sure your new boy has some money." He can't be that scorned. Getting cheated on sucks. I'm not saying he deserves it. I'm just saying it was lame for him to post a picture like that online especially because of who she is, idc if she cheated. He'll probably regret it. i've seen this happen before. Good luck OP.

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I respect the discourse. But I feel like you're so quick to jump to this conclusion. Trust, I would probably dump the girl too. I think the difference between me and you is that I will never say that I will definitely ditch the broad, because I will never commit to a course of action [unless I have to] without analyzing the situation before hand.

With that said, I have been in a relationship for over 4 years. She's a ride or die chick. But if she ever creeped on me, I couldn't imagine myself able to stay with her.
this sorta negates all that other **** you was sayin :lol:
basically you'd dump her too you'd just need time to ponder on the.......complexities of the female brain in relation to her reason for cheating...or something like that.

well **** it. OP had a week. he pondered. times up ***** get yo mentionables and unmentionables and skate on to the jabroni you cheated with.
straight Orange Juice Jones style :pimp:

and if you haven't been cheated on then alllll of the "take her back" stuff is out of the window. you don't know that feel broham
 
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This is the first time seeing that many +1 reps. Thats good for you and I hope I am that strong willed if that **** happens to me.
 
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before i read your update i was going to say. . 

i hate to say this but i think coming to NT about this was a bad idea and I hope karma wont hit you for this

And i say Karma as in speaking to soon, falling back for it, especially with a son, anything can happen, things can change... but then again you seem pretty tough and you do have the upper hand and shes in the wrong and youre not

But exposing her begging seems pretty wrong, its something i would just keep to myself if i already let go of it, why must i come to nt if its already gone...

And anyways, thank you for the whole

"[color= rgb(255, 255, 255)]To all the young NT'rs and those coming into the world as young men. Stay focused and improve yourself, always look forward and set some goals. As you move forward in this rat race those not fit to run with you will stay behind in the dirt they are used to."[/color]

Thanks for that, as a 17 year old, that means alot, because i already fell in love with that highschool sweetheart. were not together due to things that have happened in the past, but we still talk and she is still that girl that id be hoping to spend the rest of my life with

but as of right now, i have alot of credits to make up in order to graduate, due to me being a knucklehead in the past :smh: and thats 1 of the main reasons why we arent together, cause i need to get my $#*^ straight smh :smh:  so i can have benefits, so i can have support on my side,and support her also..go halfers on life

Shes doing way better than me too :smh: :frown: , shes already starting college this summer and it sucks cause im so behind and im not on her level and i want to fight to be on her level, so i can take her out to fancy restraunts, have a house, have a nice car, buy her nice things...yall feel me?

for yall "players". girls can be very expensive... :tongue:
 
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I'm hearing a lot of capes flapping in this thread



@op Good things will come your way. Keep shining!
 
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