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So sorry to hear about your brother. God bless you and family bro.
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Although I have't lost kin, I've lost several friends to similar circumstances. Including my best friend in 2012. So I know what you're going through. What's even crazier to me is that my reaction is becoming less extreme with every loss. Like losing people to addiction is becoming "normal." It's really scary. In MA addiction is probably as rampant as anywhere, especially opiates and alcohol.
I'm glad I never did anything beyond smoking weed and drinking growing up. I see all these old folks that drink a case of beer per day, young dudes hooked on Percocets and ultimately heroin, being revived with narcan several times before it eventually catches up with them and they pass.
I barely drink anymore, don't smoke weed...but I deal with the stress that most of us do and can see how some people might choose the path of self-medicating with substances because life really can be a m******er, especially when you have odds stacked against you since before you were even born.
I'm sorry for you loss OP. I know it's no consolation, but you had 25+ years with a brother that you seem to cherish. That's more than many people get with a loved one. I hope you two meet again in a place better than this.
Condolences bro. Thanks for sharing this because I’m going to quit drinking after reading this.
So sorry to hear man. Always sad to hear someone pass and such a young age.
There is no shame is seeking therapy man. You have suffered some traumatic events, check to see if there any programs around your area to help cover the costs.
Life is hard, we can’t make it through by ourselves. It’s impossible, be around your loved ones in this tough time. Also, drop the cigs and join a gym, it’s much cheaper than a pack a day and a huge stress reliever. Do it man! Hoping for the best.