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after tate blew up a former co-worker put me onto tate’s background & supposedly he has been around a for minute just living his life & was selling courses on how to make money as means to attain a certain lifestyle & not so much about women then only leaned into the dating stuff as he gained more attention…which put more of a spotlight on him & his views personally, which ultimately could be why he is in his current predicament and his theories/thesis on being locked up & romanian corruption is being put to the test
tate eat al. are all responding to a real phenomenon, i think it’s interesting that it is so casual to talk about ‘incels’ which is the problem most males are trying to solve but the consequence/flip of more men not getting any action is that it will actually make relationships harder for most women…especially given the way women’s expectations have changed in the modern era and the way people are actually meeting up these days
folk aren’t/don’t really talk about women being ‘involuntarily single’ tho…and women complaining about being done dirty by men that aren’t/don’t commit, aren’t/won’t settle down, are bums/eff boys, or aren’t traditionally masculine in terms of responsibilities is actually much more prevalent, done more openly & way more accepted/acceptable than whatever is going on with incels, however even tho it’s actually the same thing, it definitely isn’t ridiculed in the same way; granted that any problem men have is just more of concern/red flag due to the male propensity to use violence as a solution…
men typically give their commitment in terms of relationships, only that is moot point when most women don’t see most men as viable and don’t care about what the men they don’t want got going on, alternatively women do have a ‘commodity’ that most men do care about attaining and aren’t all too fussy about, obviously as dudes outchea are bustin’ down these fairly unattractive women too…
this ‘imbalance’ has always existed but was definitely attenuated by certain dynamics economically, morally, & socially but now is getting louder due to a confluence of things in the modern context that the ‘issue’ such that even tho it is always been understood, is now becoming more visible
arguably, the solution to the problem of involuntary celibate men, in a very technical sense, is so much more straightforward altho completely counterproductive from a societal view (only fans, free hub/tube sites, escorting, and other means of monetizing female sexuality) and just unhealthy for the individual, but it exists. involuntarily single women don’t really have much to cope with other than to secure their own via career, chastise the men they actually would want, & shame the behavior of other women who they are in competition with…i suppose adoption & surrogacy could be as well but that seems way more dystopian
