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Yo I'm seeing all these comments saying my family isn't the type to say love you and I get it because that was just like us. Until one day my mom got sick and so we started saying it a lot more just because we never knew if she was gonna get better and then she did and we stopped saying it. We always just showed out love for each other more than we actually said but I regret not saying it more. I just gotta say though from an outside looking in point of view change it asap. Now that my mom has passed away I regret not telling her ILY everyday. I regret not hugging her and giving her a kiss on the cheek more often. She used to tell me that you'll never understand the pain that I feel for losing my parents but now I get why she'd always mention that to me. Moral of the story tell your parents,siblings, SO, kids, extended family, etc., I love you.
happy birthday. hope you have a good one.Turned 27 today and morality (not just my own, but people around me) is becoming more apparent.
Turned 27 today and morality (not just my own, but people around me) is becoming more apparent.
Happy birthday my G! Enjoy your day! How are you celebrating today?Turned 27 today and morality (not just my own, but people around me) is becoming more apparent.
damn homie that's cold bloodedHappy birthday to the dude who always keeps it real with me
I turn 27 later this year too -- fam is suspecting I'm gay just because I don't have a shorty
Turned 27 today and morality (not just my own, but people around me) is becoming more apparent.
Happy birthday to the dude who always keeps it real with me
I turn 27 later this year too -- fam is suspecting I'm gay just because I don't have a shorty
1) Really looking forward to it
2) Duly noted -- will be traveling around with my cousin who lives in the area
3) SF / SJ / staying out in Richmond -- will mostly be in SF + 1 day in San Jose
I’m 31 and I used to get that when I was around my mid 20s and still didn’t have a serious gf to bring home. However, that all changed when fam and family friends started getting Facebook and added me. They all got super nosy and looked pics and comments, now they’ve been calling me a “playboy” for the last couple years smh.
It's just the stigma with Asian families, IMO. Growing up, my mom didn't really show me any affection and only criticized me for the things that I was doing wrong. I learned she was like that because that's how her parents raised her. My dad was the only one who showed verbal support and love to me and my brother when we did good things.Yo I'm seeing all these comments saying my family isn't the type to say love you and I get it because that was just like us. Until one day my mom got sick and so we started saying it a lot more just because we never knew if she was gonna get better and then she did and we stopped saying it. We always just showed out love for each other more than we actually said but I regret not saying it more. I just gotta say though from an outside looking in point of view change it asap. Now that my mom has passed away I regret not telling her ILY everyday. I regret not hugging her and giving her a kiss on the cheek more often. She used to tell me that you'll never understand the pain that I feel for losing my parents but now I get why she'd always mention that to me. Moral of the story tell your parents,siblings, SO, kids, extended family, etc., I love you.
In Vietnam/China it is very common for women to get married relatively young around 18-22 sometimes even younger, so that's probably why your family kept bugging you about it and certain Asian cultures the 'value' of women decrease as they age if they aren't married (people will think that there's something wrong with you, difficult to deal with), obviously drastically different here in western culture.When I was 28, my family kept asking me when I was going to get married and have kids. Their reasoning was: I'm getting old and no dude wants an old lady. Really tho? I had plans to get married in my 30's. Why waste your 20's on marriage when there's so much in the world to learn and experience? I had a career I needed to focus on so that was my thing.
They called my guy cousins "lazy" and "playboys" because they're not married, seldom have a gf or a friend who is a girl around. My girl cousin who's going into medical school got called "too old" and she's 26. Can't win neither way!
Thanks fam! Tbh I'm at work man. Haven't made a lotta close connections in the States yet to where I would be comfortable with them getting loose on my birthdayHappy birthday my G! Enjoy your day! How are you celebrating today?
damn homie that's cold blooded
SF is really fun. Last time I was in North Beach, I drank until the spots closed but once it closes, there's not much else. I mean, Ruby Skye sometimes has good headliners if you're into EDM/trance.
Ruby Skye closed down a while ago.
Thanks fam! Tbh I'm at work man. Haven't made a lotta close connections in the States yet to where I would be comfortable with them getting loose on my birthday
In Vietnam/China it is very common for women to get married relatively young around 18-22 sometimes even younger, so that's probably why your family kept bugging you about it and certain Asian cultures the 'value' of women decrease as they age if they aren't married (people will think that there's something wrong with you, difficult to deal with), obviously drastically different here in western culture.
so true. baby boomers will never understand millennialsOld people are ridiculous with some of their perspectives. I don’t even use facebook anymore because my statuses and pics would cause drama and I’d get asked about it in real life by family. It’s like they don’t understand people want to keep that stuff separate.
same goes the other way too. I can't imagine up and leaving my home country to start a life in a foreign country even starting a business like some of our parents did just sounds crazy to me.so true. baby boomers will never understand millennials
Happy birthday to the dude who always keeps it real with me
I turn 27 later this year too -- fam is suspecting I'm gay just because I don't have a shorty
Happy birthday!Thanks fam! Tbh I'm at work man. Haven't made a lotta close connections in the States yet to where I would be comfortable with them getting loose on my birthday
Yoooo that pressure is too real.shoot my mom is already begging me to get married and have kids soon lol