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Understood. But there is right/wrong way to go about things following a break up. It does feel good to get things off your chest, but when yougo about it in a vindictive manner, you most definitely don't come off looking like the bigger person. Especially if you are saying things like this:Originally Posted by Mr Fongstarr
Originally Posted by DoubleJs07
I feel bad for ben, but he knew what he was getting in to the second he started to date her. Why air her out now? What's the point?
As much as it might not make you a better man, it definitely feels good to get that stuff off your chest.
don't test me girl, I got more ether and much more ammo to destroy you.
Again...what good does that do? The girl is a mess, and this is the same chick he was to spend his life with. Now he wants to "destroy" her becausethings weren't what they seemed? Everyone else from the outside looking in knew this was a disaster from the jump.
The ironic thing about this whole situation is that dudes here on NT called this breakup the minute the dude proposed. If you're going to date a girl withquestionable character to begin with, you better be prepared when things don't go the way you hope in the relationship.
The best thing to do is find a girl who is 100% interested in you as a PERSON, opposed to finding a girl who is 100% interested in your lifestyle. I'msure Ben will bounce back, but he should chalk this up as a learning experience no matter how old he is.