You go from "thats how i personally feel" to " im not gonna judge". Which is it? I think what you are failing to grasp is the fact that none of it was intended to offend you personally. Its not an offensive stereotype about YOU or YOUR family, so it only seems logicl that YOU dont feel any kind if way about it. You're on the outside looking in, telling everyone else its not that bad, even after admitting yourself that you dont know whether it was that bad or not. Your comments themselves are offensive and dismissive of how others might view it, you know, people who are actually black and have to deal with hurtful, offensive stereotypes in real life. Basically, its not about you and doesnt relate to you or anyone else close to you so your opinion on its offensiveness is irrelevant and ultimately based on your own bias of not wanting to see racism or prejudice when its not convenient for you to do so. When you have people that are actually black telling you its offensive and you want to sit up here with your white *** saying its no big deal makes you sound very, very foolish.
