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You're probably right. Can you elaborate as to why? Just want to hear some opinions.Nope.
Move on homie, I know you felt when you said that she had that special connection like no other but you'll meet other girls as move on. I was in the same shoes, not exactly as you but I know how you feel when you said you've never felt this close. She'll always be in your head until you find someone else.
Recently been thinking more about the girl I met and was dating last summer. We met through mutual friends and we hit it off really well. We went on to go on a few dates, texted just about every day, were both really into each other, and things were going perfectly. We were never "official," but we were like a week or two away from that if you could put a timeframe on it.
She was just coming back from her two week vacation and we had all these plans laid out for the week she was coming back. We couldn't do anything the day she did because she told me she was going to a friend's birthday party that night. I got a text the next day saying that she doesn't think that we'll be able to hang out that week and then for the rest of summer because she got in trouble with her parents. She wouldn't really go into detail and it was so sudden because everything was going fine just the other day.
She seemed like she was withholding something and eventually came forward and said it was because she came home from the party hungover the next day. It was totally unlike her to do anything like that and I guess that's why she got in so much trouble. She then went on to say that she doesn't think things could work out considering we wouldn't have anymore time to get even closer before we went to different schools and because of that she didn't want to try a long distance relationship and that it would probably just be best to move on.
I was so frustrated since she wouldn't hear me out and because everything fell apart out of nowhere. I had recently had a bad experience with another girl who made a bunch of excuses and so I couldn't help but think that she might be lying about getting in trouble. I let my frustration show and she said it felt like I was attacking her with what I said. We didn't talk for months until I tried to initiate conversation which didn't get very far.
Like I said I recently started thinking about her more. I've never felt as close as I did with her as I have with any other girl and I'm seriously starting to think I'll never meet a girl like her ever again. I texted her the other day asking how she was doing and told her I was sorry for getting angry with her and that I wanted to talk to her again. She still hasn't responded and I don't think she will.
Is there anything I should say or do?
Nothing wrong with how you're feeling. Most of us have been through something similar.You guys are right, guess I just needed to hear some people talk me out of doing anything else. Unfortunately dwelling on the past/thinking too much are things I do often but I am trying to get better on cutting down on it.
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The biggest thing is finding someone else so that I can totally move on and I'm kind of struggling to do so. Obviously the goal is to move on to better things and sure there are better looking girls, but she was one of the rare cases where her personality is on par with her looks. I hate to compare other girls to her, but I can't help it.
I probably shouldn't have even included the question in there since I know what I really should do. I was more venting because something that seemed so sure slipped away and I'm not sure when I'll meet another girl like that.
Can't believe it's been 2 years already since you've been gone. Crazy how I started working for our favorite baseball team. Don't know why you decided to end your life cuz you didn't have to man. I was one call away and so was everyone else man. I wish you could've been here to see your twins grow up and how your sisters always talk about you and the rest of the family always hold you close to our hearts. Just know everyone miss you and loves you and I still feel sorry for missing that last call didn't mean to at all you should've kept calling me left me a voicemail anything and I would've dropped it and met up with you to show you that you weren't alone...
Two years ago I buried the only other woman I have loved. Taught me how to be a gentlemen as well as being firm. They only reason why I worked so hard in school was to pay you back for the two jobs you worked. I loved you more than my mom poll because you treated me like I existed. My work a holic comes from you to this day I'll never forget seeing you cry in the bathroom over money and what we were gonna do I was six I new then that I didn't want to be a burden to you. I should have come home faster.
RIP grandma aka Mo
mo heart
mo compassion
Mo strength
mo hustle
Let them out @Ecook0808I've become, what a mother wouldn't want in a son. And I have done...a few things I regret.
I'm confident that if you have confidence, nothing can hold you back.i'm ugly, but I like to look at myself in the mirrorw
Just tell yourself youll never see those people again in your life.
Looking at my ex instagram. Feel like such a loser im the one that dumped her and she happy AF its like im dead and never existed in her life. **** she happier than when she was with me. Makes me feel worse about how I handled it and I guess its what I deserve
Hell I was gonna hit her up just to catch up and see how she's doing but now I dont want to. I dont want to remind her of the past, her life is great the way it is now
I also subconciously shake, and i can't stop it even when i notice it. Very nerve wracking
I'm also very sensitive about my personal image, cause i've been bullied and teased about it since forever so i catch feels whenever somebody says something about it
I really want to hug you...but my femininity won't let me.I also subconciously shake, and i can't stop it even when i notice it. Very nerve wracking
I'm also very sensitive about my personal image, cause i've been bullied and teased about it since forever so i catch feels whenever somebody says something about it
Recently been thinking more about the girl I met and was dating last summer. We met through mutual friends and we hit it off really well. We went on to go on a few dates, texted just about every day, were both really into each other, and things were going perfectly. We were never "official," but we were like a week or two away from that if you could put a timeframe on it.
She was just coming back from her two week vacation and we had all these plans laid out for the week she was coming back. We couldn't do anything the day she did because she told me she was going to a friend's birthday party that night. I got a text the next day saying that she doesn't think that we'll be able to hang out that week and then for the rest of summer because she got in trouble with her parents. She wouldn't really go into detail and it was so sudden because everything was going fine just the other day.
She seemed like she was withholding something and eventually came forward and said it was because she came home from the party hungover the next day. It was totally unlike her to do anything like that and I guess that's why she got in so much trouble. She then went on to say that she doesn't think things could work out considering we wouldn't have anymore time to get even closer before we went to different schools and because of that she didn't want to try a long distance relationship and that it would probably just be best to move on.
I was so frustrated since she wouldn't hear me out and because everything fell apart out of nowhere. I had recently had a bad experience with another girl who made a bunch of excuses and so I couldn't help but think that she might be lying about getting in trouble. I let my frustration show and she said it felt like I was attacking her with what I said. We didn't talk for months until I tried to initiate conversation which didn't get very far.
Like I said I recently started thinking about her more. I've never felt as close as I did with her as I have with any other girl and I'm seriously starting to think I'll never meet a girl like her ever again. I texted her the other day asking how she was doing and told her I was sorry for getting angry with her and that I wanted to talk to her again. She still hasn't responded and I don't think she will. |I
Is there anything I should say or do?
Yo I thought I was the only one that felt this way with Asian parents. I dont kno what you guys are but Im Viet and thats prob the most gossipy of all asians and the parents are always comparing their kids and trying to 1 up each other. I wanna be friends but our parents/relatives seem to make us compete with one another.@shoyru are you Asian? Because your pops sounds just like mine.. or used to. Let me tell you this, there was a time, for YEARS, my dad was never proud of what I did. He thought all I did was bang, party, and hang out with the wrong people in high school. I proved him wrong by getting accepted to UCD.
While away from him, it was the most rewarding and most growing up experience I ever had. When you were in Socal, if you still are.. that would have been the time to allow your self a growing experience to not be withheld by anyone or anything. Even when I got my first job back home, he still wasn't proud. All he could say was get another job and it wasn't good enough. I proved him wrong by getting promoted within several months.
Don't listen to him. Don't let him try to mold you into what you are not, he doesn't understand the way we grow up as Americans (assuming you're 1st generation). They are hardwired to think a certain way, but that's not how it is over here. Prove him wrong, and keep doing it over and over again.