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My child's mother is 2 months pregnant again. We haven't been officially together for the last 6 months but the kid is most likely mine.

Not really happy to go through this process with her again but I'm happy because my son is about to be 10 and I wanted a kid soon
 
Honestly I don't cheat on my wife for moral reasons, I don't do it because I've seen what it does from my parents.

Seeing my pops and grandfather cheat ****** up my perception of women and I don't want my boys to view women that way.

I'd rather my boys just be truthful savages than lying and manipulating women

My girl said pretty early on to me that she had never been in a relationship where her partner didn't cheat.

So once I committed to her I decided that I'm going to be the exception.

There's ways around it you're brave enough to be open minded.
 
Man staying away from soda & juice,eating better has been the toughest part when it comes to getting healthier & in shape. Kinda had to force myself to not even look at certain things when I'm at the store. It's tough cause I eventually break and go back to it like I do with alot of my get in shape ambitions.

As I let myself get into an actual routine this time, the toughest part will be out the way and I'll never look back. Think that was my problem in the past; being too impatient and talking too much about it. I just go and do it now.
 
I love my girl but I feel like I always get into relationships when I'm not ready. I just wanna be a *** for a good 5 years. I've never had a connection like how I've had with this girl though. I done goofed this time
 
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I love my girl but I feel like I always get into relationships when I'm not ready. I just wanna be a *** for a good 5 years. I've never had a connection like how I've had with this girl though. I done goofed this time

Being a ho is overrated. I was one. It's fun, but being with someone you love is better.
 
I love my girl but I feel like I always get into relationships when I'm not ready. I just wanna be a *** for a good 5 years. I've never had a connection like how I've had with this girl though. I done goofed this time

Being a ho is overrated. I was one. It's fun, but being with someone you love is better.

This, at the same time you gotta go with what you're overwhelmingly being compelled to do before it consumes you and comes out in ways you regret, even if it's ultimately an L. If that's where you are in your growth, that's where you are.
 
Can't save money for my life been working part time for over two years never had more then 1,500 in my account at once. I'm 20 turning 21 in July live at home only real bill is my phone bill I have a problem
 
Can't save money for my life been working part time for over two years never had more then 1,500 in my account at once. I'm 20 turning 21 in July live at home only real bill is my phone bill I have a problem


No you don't have a problem man that's perfectly normal believe me I've been there with you... you're still really young you're doing better than most people...hang in the end don't get discouraged bro your time will come I promise you
 
Can't save money for my life been working part time for over two years never had more then 1,500 in my account at once. I'm 20 turning 21 in July live at home only real bill is my phone bill I have a problem


Create a monthly budget for yourself with Excel or something. Youll easily be able to see where and how much youre spending your money. Then just manage accordingly, cut back on certain expenses and save that money instead.
 
Kind of catching feels for a coworker but I'm almost certain it won't work so I don't want to escalate it an further than a friendship role. Crazy cause the girl is a lot like myself and I never really connected with a girl that was into a lot of the things that I like.
 
Kind of catching feels for a coworker but I'm almost certain it won't work so I don't want to escalate it an further than a friendship role. Crazy cause the girl is a lot like myself and I never really connected with a girl that was into a lot of the things that I like.
Don't do it.

Don't dip your egg roll in the company fish sauce.
 
Kind of catching feels for a coworker but I'm almost certain it won't work so I don't want to escalate it an further than a friendship role. Crazy cause the girl is a lot like myself and I never really connected with a girl that was into a lot of the things that I like.

Do it.
 
I'm being careful. We have hung out outside of work. I'm treading carefully, I'm not ready to commit to anyone at this time also. I'm fully aware I'm not stable enough to.
 
Can't save money for my life been working part time for over two years never had more then 1,500 in my account at once. I'm 20 turning 21 in July live at home only real bill is my phone bill I have a problem

The fact you have any financial awareness at 20 is a win :lol

Easy way to go is to honestly identify your 'wants' and 'needs'.

- Do you need to throw your drawls out after one wear?

- Do you need to cop 3 colour ways of the same kicks?

- Do you need a ******** subscription?

Cut back to the necessities, save where you can and try and earn your treats with accomplishments.
 
Kind of catching feels for a coworker but I'm almost certain it won't work so I don't want to escalate it an further than a friendship role. Crazy cause the girl is a lot like myself and I never really connected with a girl that was into a lot of the things that I like.
I'm in the same boat... kind of. I was hanging out with an old coworker knowing that she is with someone. While kicking it, she tells me that they ended that relationship a couple days earlier. Went back to my place, started drinking and I hit. Ever since then, it wasn't to awkward at work. We both worked graveyard while no managers were in the building yet, and we would "mess around" where nobody would go and there weren't any camera's to catch us doing anything. This happened for a couple months, then I got a new job.

I would still see her outside of work everyday. All of a sudden, she was at my place, we were making out, then she just stopped... She said she couldn't do "this" anymore, and left... I am so lost right now. I am definitely not over her, and wish she was still with me. She hits me up every once in a while, but when I mention to hang out, she just "deads" the conversation. I know I guess I was somewhat of a rebound, but she even told me she wanted to slow down with me. Then all of a sudden she doesn't want to kick it with me anymore. I want to stop talking to her, but I still have feelings for her. This also sucks though because I'm going to a concert with her (bought tickets while we were together), and I'm thinking to just give her, her ticket, or just give her money for it. I'm just thinking that I should just not talk to her, and ignore her after the concert... No idea what to do.

PS
After one week she "ended" it, we went to go eat lunch and get some ice cream. We made out in my car, and a week after that, I helped her move some stuff into her house, and "slept over" for the night... I hope none of my friends still go on NT, :p
 
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