I am in love with my girl best friend...it sucks trying to hide it. I did good,in the beginning, now it's getting kind of obvious I like her
Does your girl's best friend know that you "love" her? Why even be with current bird? Just hurting yourself by doing it.
On a side note. There's something wrong with me. Idk if I'm going through a phase. I should have never gone to that wedding. Brb. Gonna go run 3 or 4 miles to clear my head.
I think he means he's in love with his female best friend, not his girlsfriend's best friend.
To the guy in love with his female best friend, you have only two options:
1. Tell her how you feel and face the repercussions. If she feels the same way, you won. If she doesn't, it may or may not alter the friendship forever. Something you can try is get a mutual friend to talk to her about if she ever sees you as more than a friend. This way, you can find out without the friendship being ruined (depending on how you handle it).
2. Slowly distance yourself from her. You can do this intentionally, or by focusing more on the rest of your life. Focus on other women, your career, school, hobbies, etc. Over time, your infatuation for your friend will wear off and you'll laugh at the idea that you had romantic feelings in the first place. This happened to me with a female crush I had in high school and then into college, and after dating my current girlfriend for over a year, I laugh at the notion. I don't even think about her anymore.
If a girl can't picture you naked comfortably, she will never see you as a boyfriend. Period. There is no physical/sexual attraction. 99% of women in this world want to be ravaged in bed, and if you can't provide that, well then you can be the friend that listens to her problems fully clothed. That's just the truth.
If you find out she does just see you as a friend, and you still want to be with her, you will need to start transforming yourself, both physically and mentally, to increase attraction. Work out, groom yourself, smell good around her, and focus on your career. Date other women. If she sees that other women are interested in you romantically, it might re-wire her brain a little. She'll become curious and that might spark attraction.
Best of luck.