engagement /marriage thread.

[aepps20]

Man just thinking about it, I’ve been engaged for two years. Me and the fiancé haven’t even brought up the topic of when the wedding will happen. Having a child and the pandemic really set things back.

My wife and I dated for 6 years and were engaged for 2 years before we got married. Don't worry about when the wedding actually happens because things always work out.

 

[jape]

Yeah we were together 4 years and engaged for like a year and a half. Covid messed all our original wedding plans up but ended up with a smaller wedding that was great and saved us so much money.
looking back we were crazy to try and have a big wedding.

 

[sneakaprince]

Man just thinking about it, I’ve been engaged for two years. Me and the fiancé haven’t even brought up the topic of when the wedding will happen. Having a child and the pandemic really set things back.

Coming up on 2 years in February fam. Was planning to get married in Bali but Indonesia hasn't opened yet and we had a date set for 6/26/22.

Making a ton of changes now but it will probably result in a lot of money saved. All I can say is I'm here with you fam and it will be okay. Talk to your lady when you can and don't sweat it.

 

[big1236]

I was with my wife for 6 years and were engaged for 2 until our wedding. been married for 11 years now....

it happens when it happens. as long as both of ya'll are good, that's all that matters

 

[jape]

Yeah you look back at the wedding with good memories but it’s really not as important as you think it is before

 

[s0lefunk]

We were engaged for almost 3 years before getting married just a month ago. Granted, we decided to buy a house before even thinking about a wedding. Pandemic complicated things too but we made the best of it. Definitely a day to remember.

 

[アミーゴ]

We are at two years of engagement - literally just finished the table assignments 3 mins ago. Got like 7 NTers coming - have had to push back 2x, 35 days out

nako xl suberzat1 MVP DCAllAfrican

 

[jhova718]

i asked my now wife to marry me 6 weeks after meeting her.

got married almost exactly a year later.

 

[stuntman mike]

i asked my now wife to marry me 6 weeks after meeting her.

got married almost exactly a year later.

damn OP it’s crazy to look back at your first post and where you’re at now.

 

[stuntman mike]

celebrated 7 years of marriage yesterday. dropped the kids off at my mom’s and we grabbed some take-out and watched the guilty on netflix. couldn’t picnic like we wanted to cause the weather was crap so we ate on the floor and watched the movie.

charcuterie.
detroit-style pizza.

after the movie we looked through a bunch of options and decided on a rocky road ice cream pie. got in the car, grabbed dessert, and watched celeb house videos on yt and talked about our lives and our dreams. it was a great evening.

 

[アミーゴ]

5 days… here we go

 

[spizike231]

enjoy it fam.

 

[アミーゴ]

enjoy it fam.

Thanks man!

 

[maldonado]

Tied the knot October 14th.

 

[stuntman mike]

5 days… here we go

you’re married now! congrats!

 

[deusavertat]

Yea 6 with my wife. 2 year anniversary coming up this month.

 

[steebie j]

Do folks still get married in a church? I haven’t been to an actual wedding since I was a kid. My mom trying to press that on us. Talking about it’s not official if it ain’t done in a church. Very old school. Me and my fiancé don’t eem go to church tho.

 

[TURBO UNO]

Congrats アミーゴ

 

[ekrev98]

Do folks still get married in a church? I haven’t been to an actual wedding since I was a kid. My mom trying to press that on us. Talking about it’s not official if it ain’t done in a church. Very old school. Me and my fiancé don’t eem go to church tho.

Im catholic and my wife is Christian. We got married at the SF courthouse. We could’ve gotten married at a church but we wanted a small and quick wedding. My sister on the other hand, got married in a church. So did my cousins. Either way, do what makes ya’ll happy.

 

[spizike231]

2 year anniversary tomorrow. Time flew by. Love being married.

 

[deusavertat]

Im catholic and my wife is Christian. We got married at the SF courthouse. We could’ve gotten married at a church but we wanted a small and quick wedding. My sister on the other hand, got married in a church. So did my cousins. Either way, do what makes ya’ll happy.

This is a little pet peeve of mine but Catholics are christians.

 

[zekethephysique]

Just had our 4 year wedding anniversary last week. Decided I wanted to go back to the Catholic church, started adult classes and the wife wants to convert as well. We are having a little ceremony at the end of the month at the church so it's official in their eyes. Looking at it as a vowel renewal and an excuse to get a few friends together for a nice lunch.

Word of advice for those getting married. Don't freak out the day of the wedding if something isn't "perfect". You'll will be the only ones that know something isn't exactly how you wanted it, and your guests won't have a clue. Just have a great time and soak it all in.

 

[adobecs4]

Proposed last month, December will make 7 years together. Tentative plan is to get married mid 2023.

 

[moonman818]

Just bought the ring fellas. Spent a little more than I wanted but I’ll be proposing in about a month.

Officially turned in my player card. … ****ed with so many I’d never thought I’d see the day

 

[CrownRoyalDaddy]

Do folks still get married in a church? I haven’t been to an actual wedding since I was a kid. My mom trying to press that on us. Talking about it’s not official if it ain’t done in a church. Very old school. Me and my fiancé don’t eem go to church tho.

People do, but plenty don’t. Especially if neither of you are religious. We didnt and also had no mention of religion in our ceremony
Dont let them push anything on you unless theyre funding it. In that case, walk in that church like you never sinned