Females 'bagging' dudes?

[ramzs8906]

Originally Posted by North Dade Represent

Originally Posted by RamZs8906

*Ahem*

NO MALE HAS EVER BAGGED A FEMALE.

Say a girl goes out looking for a good time with her girlfriends, but not neccessarily looking for a guy. There's 10-12 guys in the club that she finds attractive but it's not a big deal. One of the attractive guys goes up to her and buys her a drink. They have a great conversation, he's funny, intelligent, and his swagger is phenomenal. She gives him the digits, and they eventually have sex.

In this situation (which happens all the time), didn't both parties bag each other? What made her bag him, versus it being a mutual thing? Maybe she gave him eye contact, but wouldn't he have to notice it at first and then act upon it. Wouldn't he have to pick her over the other 10 girls looking at him, many of which might have just been trying to get free drink? Couldn't his personality not be a good fit for her? Or maybe his game is weak, and she just didn't feel like dealing with a lame dude? There's an infinite amount of variables.

People bag each other, for the most part. Yeah, I've definitely been bagged once or twice by a broad, but for the most part it was definitely a joint effort. And due to the fact that women aren't the agressors in most situations, I'm going to give credit to the guy for making it happen.

If she wants the guy and does something to bait him to come over and give her attention: She bagged him.

Like I said earlier: Women know whether they want to give a guy their Real number within five minutes of meeting them. Only if a female finds a guy interestingenough will she give him her number or call him if she gets his number.

They just give us the impression that we bag them.

 

[raptors29]

Originally Posted by MOSTHATED770

Originally Posted by mytmouse76

i have...a few times...just for something to do...

most of the time it was at the let out of the club

"you baby whats your name?" jk

but i just walk up to them...and spit my game

them coming to me>>me going to them

Exactly. Women always get extra points in my book for approaching me. I don't like when they're extra thirsty though. Makes me feel uncomfortable.

 

[treewing]

Originally Posted by Master Zik

Originally Posted by Weekend Girl

Fellas, how do you feel about women approaching you and being dominant in the initiation of conversation/contact?

Do you like getting 'bagged'?

Appreciated.

As long as I'm attracted to them and they aint trying to trick/burn me.

I feel that too... In one of the situations tho, the girl i met kept callin' me caramel sensation when a bunch of us/friends were at 3ambreakfast together.... All of my other guy friends were... darker... lol... This girl in the end was indeed thirsty tho and I didn't "wife" herbut she never turned down the 1 a.m. text message

 

[frijo sneaker]

Plan B.

 

[dabuddhawitjays]

Originally Posted by Club29

Never happened to me

 

[wildout4]

a lot of chicks are aggressive these days. most of the times its the chicks setting you up to close the deal.

 

[Nujavez]

never happened to me. But I've had random females at school try starting random conversation out of nowhere or saying CORNY $%$+ like "ooo is itgetting hot in here is it just me??". Then I remember a few parties in the past where females come at me with the "ooo wuts yo name and who you comehere wit?"

 

[late80s]

Originally Posted by Diego

Originally Posted by Late80s

I just tried to do some e-stalkin right quick and I notice your eatedi link doesnt work.
Fix the link or delete from sig. Thanks.

fixed

 

[treewing]

Late80s update your blog, man lol...

 

[crumbs]

apparently i got bagged by her

 

[cobra kai]

"current" I talk to bagged me.

thanksgiving day party and she grabbed my line brother and had me come over.

we rapped, and took my number. hit me up a lil bit afterwards and things went smooth.

 

[ninjahood]

atlanta chicks are notorious for actually goin up to guys and hollain' it to em...cuz da girl to guy ratio is SO bad if u a decent lookin cat

they definitely chompin at da bits.

oh and puerto ricans in NYC usually like to bag guys too.

i personally love it, makes a girl look like she confident and in control.

 

[kevenmayne]

Happened to me in HS a lot, never after though

I remember I started going out with someone and a girl that I had night school with tried to bag me but I didnt want to ruin it with my other chick and toldher we could be friends and she straight up started crying (not a lot but some tears came out) she was getting all close telling me she really liked me and itwould of been an auto smash but I couldnt, she was extra thirsty: {

had me feeling

 

[ninjahood]

i also wanna add that my NYCers, if u wanna get hit on, just leave da 5 boroughs for a weekend and head out to jersey....them chicks are SO BORED

sittin on they porches all day they'll throw da panties at you for just havin a NY accent.

..matta fact, i can safely say NYC cats in other cities >* when

it comes to shorties just going up and sayin wats on they mind.

 

[fear the ibis]

I guess i'm kinda different. The same way women dangle the bait and make it seem like they're letting a dude "bag" them is how I am withwomen.



I don't ever straight up chase a woman. However I will "dangle the bait" so to speak and when she thinks she's getting the meat (no pun)i'm just reeling her in.



I "bagged" a chick in Sunglass Hut the other day by pretending to be shopping for my sister. All the while she thinks i'm really about to drop$300 on some Prada frames for my baby sis i'm just BS'ing. We talked in the store for 30 min with her trying to sell me some sunglasses I never had anyintention of buying. She gave me here #, and i gave her my BB pin. Added me same night.

 

[bluedeniro]

Chicks try to bag me all the time of course, not the ay, come here let me get your number way, but the f_ing me with their eyes way. I mean 85 percentcommunication is non-verbal so almost every time i end up hooking up with a chick, its because she choose up. Now i might have to put myself in a position tobe choose by either making her see my face or by moving closer in her vicinity or giving a courtesy hi how you doing, just to be nice, and to see if she bitethe bait and give smiles or check out how fresh i am, or how good my cologne smells. Man the game is to be sold not told, but you know how it goes we tryna getchoose. CHRUCHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[i drink your milkshake]

Originally Posted by Weekend Girl

For the old heads:

'Baggin'

(Bag, Bagged) Getting the number of an individual through attraction. Taking the contact with intentions of a relationship.

You stay baggin girls.

Yo! I Just bagged that girl right there.

Fellas, how do you feel about women approaching you and being dominant in the initiation of conversation/contact?

Do you like getting 'bagged'?

Ladies, do you bag dudes? What is your approach and under what circumstances do you make your move?

I bagged one---I made my move because I'm impatient and it was eating me up trying to figure out ifhe was feeling me or not. I was really digging him but was just playing it cool. I'm used to letting guys always make the first move. We met through amutual person on a out of town trip...I didn't ask my homegirl nothing about it and just was playing the background and trying to see what was what. Wewent out again (through her) and it was cool, laughed, talked, but he didnt' ask for the number. Again, I played it cool---joked with him and even madefun of his bowling skills

Couple months later, out of the blue, headded me on facebook, but no message. I said "*@*! it" and sent him a flirty message...he responded back like he knew what was good. The rest, washistory

Been "dating" close to 4 months now.

 

[smedroc]

Originally Posted by Leebuttahz

when Im in this situation its usually a beastly homely female.

Yeeeup......and when you knock em back they say "you gay or something???"

I've been 'bagged' by decent chicks a couple times though... i think the drink brings out the good samaritan in me

still waiting on that dime to come round and asking for a cup of sugar though

 

[ptrakarn23]

you playing the game wrong. NEVER ask for a girls number. you need to give her yours. when your calling/textin a girl, it puts you at a disadvantage when you're the one looking for her because she has all the power instead of the other way around.

Carry a business card on you at all times with your cell phone number and INSTRUCT them to call/text you. if shes coming at you with 100% cooperation, that means shes feeling you 100% & it becomes that much easier to close the deal since shes now looking for you. When i do this, girls knows the only way they can ever get in contact with me again is if she hits me up since i purposely didn't get her number. if she doesn't respond she probably has a boyfriend.

girls will give out their number even if they aint feelin you because they wanna boost their ego. they like the feeling of guys sweating them & feeling wanted. when you call/text a girl constantly & shes not being receptive, you become nothing more than a bug a boo & you're that guy shes always clowin on when she tells her girlfriends "ohh this guys annoying he won't stop calling me"

you never chase a girl. thats old fashion & nobody does that except losers that have no game. you have to understand that you must be CHOSEN. a woman must CHOOSE you, not the other way around. Always remember you have to keep on campaigning till you get elected. Stay confident & the girls will come.


/thread

 

[friscostylez]

Originally Posted by ptrakarn23

you playing the game wrong. NEVER ask for a girls number. you need to give her yours. when your calling/textin a girl, it puts you at a disadvantage when you're the one looking for her because she has all the power instead of the other way around.

Carry a business card on you at all times with your cell phone number and INSTRUCT them to call/text you. if shes coming at you with 100% cooperation, that means shes feeling you 100% & it becomes that much easier to close the deal since shes now looking for you. When i do this, girls knows the only way they can ever get in contact with me again is if she hits me up since i purposely didn't get her number. if she doesn't respond she probably has a boyfriend.

girls will give out their number even if they aint feelin you because they wanna boost their ego. they like the feeling of guys sweating them & feeling wanted. when you call/text a girl constantly & shes not being receptive, you become nothing more than a bug a boo & you're that guy shes always clowin on when she tells her girlfriends "ohh this guys annoying he won't stop calling me"

you never chase a girl. thats old fashion & nobody does that except losers that have no game. you have to understand that you must be CHOSEN. a woman must CHOOSE you, not the other way around. Always remember you have to keep on campaigning till you get elected. Stay confident & the girls will come.

/thread
my man

but girls that try to bag me are definitely appreciate but the fact that the majority of the girls that try to bag me looks

 

[gokickrocks]

Originally Posted by Ryda421

happened once a couple times, i still wonder why this does not happen more often to not only me, but other people too. these cali girls are too good for that I guess

 

[luis og13s]

Originally Posted by StuntHard

i'd be skeptical, like "this is too easy. it prolly stank"

 

[cidman911]

@ puttin up the urban dictionary definition of 'baggin'.

 

[downtown43]

Originally Posted by ptrakarn23

you playing the game wrong. NEVER ask for a girls number. you need to give her yours. when your calling/textin a girl, it puts you at a disadvantage when you're the one looking for her because she has all the power instead of the other way around.

Carry a business card on you at all times with your cell phone number and INSTRUCT them to call/text you. if shes coming at you with 100% cooperation, that means shes feeling you 100% & it becomes that much easier to close the deal since shes now looking for you. When i do this, girls knows the only way they can ever get in contact with me again is if she hits me up since i purposely didn't get her number. if she doesn't respond she probably has a boyfriend.

girls will give out their number even if they aint feelin you because they wanna boost their ego. they like the feeling of guys sweating them & feeling wanted. when you call/text a girl constantly & shes not being receptive, you become nothing more than a bug a boo & you're that guy shes always clowin on when she tells her girlfriends "ohh this guys annoying he won't stop calling me"

you never chase a girl. thats old fashion & nobody does that except losers that have no game. you have to understand that you must be CHOSEN. a woman must CHOOSE you, not the other way around. Always remember you have to keep on campaigning till you get elected. Stay confident & the girls will come.

/thread
i'm sorry but that advice is completely impractical. most women will shy away from chasing guys because they're not used to doing it andit would make them uncomfortable.

besides, that seems kind of cowardly to me and does not project confidence. a confident man would take it upon himself to make the girl at ease by making thefirst move and doing the talking. you're the man, so you call her and you tell her "hey, this is ____, do you want to do ____ on ____"... youdon't sit there and wait for her to call you, if she does at all. you talk to her on your own terms, not the other way around.

 

[illwill8710]

Love it. Shows that the female knows what she wants and isn't afraid to get it.