FOUR hypothetical questions for those in REAL-ationships.

Originally Posted by Fog Raw

Your last question makes me think...

Do feelings 'truly' die..?
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Who you telling? Let's just say the  4th question is influencing my real life curiosity about the 2nd one.. I realized last night while watching Casino, that I'm damn near Ginger.. and that my girl is Ace. It's.... difficult.
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No- Self explanatory. My girl doesn't have huge flaws anyways. No brainer.
No- Lol, joking right?
Yes- She's had male friends before me, no sense in changing that once we're together
Yes- She's still friends with her ex. No biggie because nothing would ever come of it anyways. She'd never risk losing me to her ex, fact.
 
No- Self explanatory. My girl doesn't have huge flaws anyways. No brainer.
No- Lol, joking right?
Yes- She's had male friends before me, no sense in changing that once we're together
Yes- She's still friends with her ex. No biggie because nothing would ever come of it anyways. She'd never risk losing me to her ex, fact.
 
K2theAblaM wrote:

Yes- She's still friends with her ex. No biggie because nothing would ever come of it anyways. She'd never risk losing me to her ex, fact.
Yea just keep him around. You are asking for something to happen. But you will just call me insecure for not allowing that. I just don't think it is a good idea. Will he come to the wedding too?
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K2theAblaM wrote:

Yes- She's still friends with her ex. No biggie because nothing would ever come of it anyways. She'd never risk losing me to her ex, fact.
Yea just keep him around. You are asking for something to happen. But you will just call me insecure for not allowing that. I just don't think it is a good idea. Will he come to the wedding too?
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Originally Posted by Jking0821

No
No - If my girl is seeing other women i think i might have the wrong girl
Yes
Yes - This however is asking for trouble sure they could be friends but hang out/text/talk everyday best friends no. Could they hang out alone yeah but if they are best friends id have to say something is wrong
this, but my girl hasnt seen her ex since forever and they're basically dead to each other so my answer for the last one wont matter, however, for the sake of answering id rather say no even though id let her make that decision.



Originally Posted by Murda He

Originally Posted by DCAllAmerican

K2theAblaM wrote:

Yes- She's still friends with her ex. No biggie because nothing would ever come of it anyways. She'd never risk losing me to her ex, fact.
Yea just keep him around. You are asking for something to happen. But you will just call me insecure for not allowing that. I just don't think it is a good idea. Will he come to the wedding too?
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this..


I would need to know the background more to give my input, like how long they were together and how serious they were, but judging by the confidence, im sure he knows what he is doing.
 
Originally Posted by Jking0821

No
No - If my girl is seeing other women i think i might have the wrong girl
Yes
Yes - This however is asking for trouble sure they could be friends but hang out/text/talk everyday best friends no. Could they hang out alone yeah but if they are best friends id have to say something is wrong
this, but my girl hasnt seen her ex since forever and they're basically dead to each other so my answer for the last one wont matter, however, for the sake of answering id rather say no even though id let her make that decision.



Originally Posted by Murda He

Originally Posted by DCAllAmerican

K2theAblaM wrote:

Yes- She's still friends with her ex. No biggie because nothing would ever come of it anyways. She'd never risk losing me to her ex, fact.
Yea just keep him around. You are asking for something to happen. But you will just call me insecure for not allowing that. I just don't think it is a good idea. Will he come to the wedding too?
glasses.gif
this..


I would need to know the background more to give my input, like how long they were together and how serious they were, but judging by the confidence, im sure he knows what he is doing.
 
Originally Posted by DCAllAmerican

K2theAblaM wrote:

Yes- She's still friends with her ex. No biggie because nothing would ever come of it anyways. She'd never risk losing me to her ex, fact.
Yea just keep him around. You are asking for something to happen. But you will just call me insecure for not allowing that. I just don't think it is a good idea. Will he come to the wedding too?
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this.... but my thing is this, I know it's a bad move. I just don't build fences around my jail. This here's the gun line. Cross me, and your chances with me are shot. Period.  Even God put the Tree of Knowledge in Eden as a test. You gotta give people the room to %+@# up so they can prov they aren't going to IMO.
 
Originally Posted by DCAllAmerican

K2theAblaM wrote:

Yes- She's still friends with her ex. No biggie because nothing would ever come of it anyways. She'd never risk losing me to her ex, fact.
Yea just keep him around. You are asking for something to happen. But you will just call me insecure for not allowing that. I just don't think it is a good idea. Will he come to the wedding too?
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this.... but my thing is this, I know it's a bad move. I just don't build fences around my jail. This here's the gun line. Cross me, and your chances with me are shot. Period.  Even God put the Tree of Knowledge in Eden as a test. You gotta give people the room to %+@# up so they can prov they aren't going to IMO.
 
  • No. I love my girl for who she is...bad personality traits and all.
  • No
  • Yes. I dont tell my girl what she can and cant do...just let her know how I feel about what she does. Shes a big girl and can make good decision on her own, at least I hope.
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  • Hell No. Trust is a major thing in a relationship...that being said, my answer would still be hell no. No reason for all that nonsense of staying friends.
 
  • No. I love my girl for who she is...bad personality traits and all.
  • No
  • Yes. I dont tell my girl what she can and cant do...just let her know how I feel about what she does. Shes a big girl and can make good decision on her own, at least I hope.
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  • Hell No. Trust is a major thing in a relationship...that being said, my answer would still be hell no. No reason for all that nonsense of staying friends.
 
Originally Posted by Murda He

  • (Maturity)If you could wish away your girl's worse personality trait at the expense of her best physical trait, would you?
  • (Sacrifice)Would you let your girl see other women (even though that undermines the actual stability of your relationship)? 
  • (Trust) Do you "allow" her to have male friends?
  • (Loyalty) Would you "allow" your girl to maintain platonic emotional ties to a previous lover even if you were confident that what you had to offer was more than he ever could??
No
No
I don't allow since she's not my child, but does she have them sure as I have female friends
I would not feel comfortable if that were the case at all, so to answer that No
 
NO- no stand out horrible ones
YEA-but she aint down with that... guess in the long run its a plus
YEA-he aint smashin so why not
NO- but wouldnt have 2 worry bout it regardless
 
Originally Posted by Murda He

  • (Maturity)If you could wish away your girl's worse personality trait at the expense of her best physical trait, would you?
  • (Sacrifice)Would you let your girl see other women (even though that undermines the actual stability of your relationship)? 
  • (Trust) Do you "allow" her to have male friends?
  • (Loyalty) Would you "allow" your girl to maintain platonic emotional ties to a previous lover even if you were confident that what you had to offer was more than he ever could??
No
No
I don't allow since she's not my child, but does she have them sure as I have female friends
I would not feel comfortable if that were the case at all, so to answer that No
 
NO- no stand out horrible ones
YEA-but she aint down with that... guess in the long run its a plus
YEA-he aint smashin so why not
NO- but wouldnt have 2 worry bout it regardless
 
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