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Was just inspired by another post.... long story short, me and my girl broke up in February, didn't really talk or see each other for 6 weeks or so, I waspretty broken up, but soon enough got my stuff together. I'm sure some of you know the story. So We start hanging out quite a bit for the past 4 or 5weeks. The more and more I see her, I realize, I just dont see her the same way I used to, I could never be with her again, and I just don't feel quite thesame as I did.
So we still do the I love you thing, text a lot, I miss you and all that jazz. Well I started to think I shouldnt be saying it because I don't really feelit so much anymore. Saturday we are chillin at her house and she says "I love you" and I'm just sittin there with the
face in silence, finally she asks do you love me, and I hate when she does this,it bothers me so much, and I say to her I don't know anymore. So after her crying for a bit I lay it down straight and I tell her, I care about you a lot,you mean a lot to me, but I could never be in a relationship with you again. I think its fair that I'm telling you this now, so we don't keep doingthis and have you get closer to me just to get let down. Well even after me telling her this she decides she still wants us to continue hanging out, showingaffection, you know how it goes. Kinda odd....
Last night we hang out again, and of course I end up hitting it. So should I dead her all together, or continue to keep up this act until someone else comesalong? And theres more to it then the sex, sure its a friend with benefits, but its nice to have someone to go to dinner with or see a movie with when my boysare out with their girls.
So we still do the I love you thing, text a lot, I miss you and all that jazz. Well I started to think I shouldnt be saying it because I don't really feelit so much anymore. Saturday we are chillin at her house and she says "I love you" and I'm just sittin there with the
Last night we hang out again, and of course I end up hitting it. So should I dead her all together, or continue to keep up this act until someone else comesalong? And theres more to it then the sex, sure its a friend with benefits, but its nice to have someone to go to dinner with or see a movie with when my boysare out with their girls.