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In a restaurant, I know these days people say a decent tip is 20% if the service is good, but I think it's gotten to the point where people tip 20% all thetime because it's just quicker and easier to add up, and food servers have gotten used to that, so they're just like "Well as long as I bring thefood to the table, I should get a full tip..."
My wife and I just got back from this restaurant we hadn't been to, and she ordered some Falafel plate that came with vegetables and some pita bread. Foodcomes out, there's no bread, and a huge bed of white rice. She calls the waitress over and asks if she was supposed to get bread, and the waitress says"Um, no I don't think so..." We said that the menu didn't say a side of rice, it said wheat bread, and she still basically said we weremistaken. So my wife asks to see the menu again and the waitress says "Oh, that menu is kind of old. It needs to be updated..."
Aside from that, the service was really slow, even though it was dead in that place. (like 2 other tables seated in the whole spot.) So my wife pays, thewaitress brings the change back, and it's a straight five dollar bill and she asks her for 5 singles. Waitress says "Oh, I don't think we haveany singles..." and wifey says "Well then I don't have any money to tip you then." (Check came out to like $23.00. She wasn't about totip over 20%) It's not typical for her to not tip. We always tip well if the service is good, but she's the first to let someone know what they didwrong if she decides not to tip them, or to just leave 10%.
I thought we should have left her something, but the more I thought about it, the more I realized she was trying to BS us with the 5 dollar bill thing and thatmy wife was right. I think most of us are just too quick to leave that tip, even if they don't deserve it.
Cliffs Notes Version:
We went out to eat, the service was bad, and the waitress tried to play us over the menu and over our change to pad her tip. Wifey stiffed her on the tip. Atfirst I thought she was wrong, then I thought she was right.
Do we tip people too much money too automatically, and is that why service at restaurants, etc... is so bad these days? Discuss...
My wife and I just got back from this restaurant we hadn't been to, and she ordered some Falafel plate that came with vegetables and some pita bread. Foodcomes out, there's no bread, and a huge bed of white rice. She calls the waitress over and asks if she was supposed to get bread, and the waitress says"Um, no I don't think so..." We said that the menu didn't say a side of rice, it said wheat bread, and she still basically said we weremistaken. So my wife asks to see the menu again and the waitress says "Oh, that menu is kind of old. It needs to be updated..."
Aside from that, the service was really slow, even though it was dead in that place. (like 2 other tables seated in the whole spot.) So my wife pays, thewaitress brings the change back, and it's a straight five dollar bill and she asks her for 5 singles. Waitress says "Oh, I don't think we haveany singles..." and wifey says "Well then I don't have any money to tip you then." (Check came out to like $23.00. She wasn't about totip over 20%) It's not typical for her to not tip. We always tip well if the service is good, but she's the first to let someone know what they didwrong if she decides not to tip them, or to just leave 10%.
I thought we should have left her something, but the more I thought about it, the more I realized she was trying to BS us with the 5 dollar bill thing and thatmy wife was right. I think most of us are just too quick to leave that tip, even if they don't deserve it.
Cliffs Notes Version:
We went out to eat, the service was bad, and the waitress tried to play us over the menu and over our change to pad her tip. Wifey stiffed her on the tip. Atfirst I thought she was wrong, then I thought she was right.
Do we tip people too much money too automatically, and is that why service at restaurants, etc... is so bad these days? Discuss...