Ladies: STOP GIVING YOUR MEN ULTIMATUMS! AND STOP WITH "TESTS"!

[ksteezy]

Originally Posted by proper english

Originally Posted by ksteezy

Kids say the darnest things, you mean to tell me you will NEVER compromise with the woman you love because of your alpha ego?...good luck maintaining a healthy relationship.

ultimatums tho... a level headed woman would never give out such thing

You guys can't be so naive to think that you will be in a serious relationship with a woman and she will never put you in a situation where you will have to compromise....even if they flat out don't tell you "hey is either me or _______" a relationship is full of compromises on both ends.

 

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Originally Posted by whyhellothere

Originally Posted by sooperhooper

I'm sure both of them will appreciate your advice.

  

 

[jhobson5]

Originally Posted by ksteezy

Originally Posted by proper english

Originally Posted by ksteezy

Kids say the darnest things, you mean to tell me you will NEVER compromise with the woman you love because of your alpha ego?...good luck maintaining a healthy relationship.

ultimatums tho... a level headed woman would never give out such thing

You guys can't be so naive to think that you will be in a serious relationship with a woman and she will never put you in a situation where you will have to compromise....even if they flat out don't tell you "hey is either me or _______" a relationship is full of compromises on both ends.

Steezy I agree with you on what your saying. if you love someone there is always a way to comprimise. Most NT'ers havent found that person yet, in time they will see.  

  

 

[ksteezy]

Originally Posted by jhobson5

Originally Posted by ksteezy

Originally Posted by proper english


ultimatums tho... a level headed woman would never give out such thing

You guys can't be so naive to think that you will be in a serious relationship with a woman and she will never put you in a situation where you will have to compromise....even if they flat out don't tell you "hey is either me or _______" a relationship is full of compromises on both ends.

Steezy I agree with you on what your saying. if you love someone there is always a way to comprimise. Most NT'ers havent found that person yet, in time they will see.  

  

Glad to see some NTers are grown enough to understand...Ill give dudes the benefit of the doubt and say they just reaching for those Alpha Lulz

 

[cosmiccanon]

Originally Posted by goDie

Originally Posted by ksteezy

Kids say the darnest things, you mean to tell me you will NEVER compromise with the woman you love because of your alpha ego?...good luck maintaining a healthy relationship.

VIRGIN

So the fight at Fordham in Bronx, is back on Diego? 

 

[elchapulincolorado]

Originally Posted by ksteezy

Originally Posted by proper english

Originally Posted by ksteezy

Kids say the darnest things, you mean to tell me you will NEVER compromise with the woman you love because of your alpha ego?...good luck maintaining a healthy relationship.

ultimatums tho... a level headed woman would never give out such thing

You guys can't be so naive to think that you will be in a serious relationship with a woman and she will never put you in a situation where you will have to compromise....even if they flat out don't tell you "hey is either me or _______" a relationship is full of compromises on both ends.

you try way too hard to make simping sound cool.

 

[jhobson5]

After reading this and seeing some of you clown Steezy, I got a few questions. So if a man is married and loves his wife and they comprimise it makes you a "simp"? Like this whole "simp" movement is lame. Like I know its cool to get e props from people for being Alpha Male, but get off your high horse. There are some dudes out there that have a lady and dont mind showing they care about her.

 

[brocomeatme]

Originally Posted by sooperhooper

I'm sure both of them will appreciate your advice.

 

[ksteezy]

Originally Posted by ELCHAPULINCOLORADO

Originally Posted by ksteezy

Originally Posted by proper english


ultimatums tho... a level headed woman would never give out such thing

You guys can't be so naive to think that you will be in a serious relationship with a woman and she will never put you in a situation where you will have to compromise....even if they flat out don't tell you "hey is either me or _______" a relationship is full of compromises on both ends.

you try way too hard to make simping sound cool.

You take e-lingo a little too serious, next time you with your girl and she asks you to go watch a chick flick just because SHE wants to see it, smack her and show her how much of an Alpha male you are and then define the Word "SIMP" to her, stop acting like a 17 year old virgin.

 

[james earl zones]

Originally Posted by ksteezy

Originally Posted by ELCHAPULINCOLORADO

Originally Posted by ksteezy



You guys can't be so naive to think that you will be in a serious relationship with a woman and she will never put you in a situation where you will have to compromise....even if they flat out don't tell you "hey is either me or _______" a relationship is full of compromises on both ends.

you try way too hard to make simping sound cool.

You take e-lingo a little too serious, next time you with your girl and she asks you to go watch a chick flick just because SHE wants to see it, smack her and show her how much of an Alpha male you are and then define the Word "SIMP" to her, stop acting like a 17 year old virgin.

That's just a movie though. There's nothing serious about going to see a chick flick cuz your girl wants to.

It's when she thinks she can pull the "it's either ____ or me" stuff, or threatening to end your relationship if she doesn't get her way that problems come about, because no rationally thinking female will try that.

You'd piss on your own pride just to make a woman happy? More power to you.

 

[sillyputty]

Its not a relationship if there are ultimatums.

 

[elchapulincolorado]

Originally Posted by James Earl Zones

Originally Posted by ksteezy

Originally Posted by ELCHAPULINCOLORADO



you try way too hard to make simping sound cool.

You take e-lingo a little too serious, next time you with your girl and she asks you to go watch a chick flick just because SHE wants to see it, smack her and show her how much of an Alpha male you are and then define the Word "SIMP" to her, stop acting like a 17 year old virgin.

That's just a movie though. There's nothing serious about going to see a chick flick cuz your girl wants to.

It's when she thinks she can pull the "it's either ____ or me" stuff, or threatening to end your relationship if she doesn't get her way that problems come about, because no rationally thinking female will try that.

You'd piss on your own pride just to make a woman happy? More power to you.

qft

hes the type of guy that will show up to the womans work place with a tux, a box of choclates and a bouquet of flowers

  

 

[uncalled4boy]

 

[retro23j]

Originally Posted by potus2028

All I'm saying is...the Cowboys were here first, babe...

 

[illwill24]

If your woman respects you she would never jump out there like that.

This is the best analogy I can think of. Men are like the owners and women r like the nba players. Yeh it's nice to see the players in action, but when things get too crazy (Joe Johnson contract, or a woman giving ultimatums) you gotta let them know what time it is and who's in control. The players (woman) always want a majority of the power but in the end its still the owners that control everything.

 

[ksteezy]

Originally Posted by James Earl Zones

Originally Posted by ksteezy

Originally Posted by ELCHAPULINCOLORADO



you try way too hard to make simping sound cool.

You take e-lingo a little too serious, next time you with your girl and she asks you to go watch a chick flick just because SHE wants to see it, smack her and show her how much of an Alpha male you are and then define the Word "SIMP" to her, stop acting like a 17 year old virgin.

That's just a movie though. There's nothing serious about going to see a chick flick cuz your girl wants to.

It's when she thinks she can pull the "it's either ____ or me" stuff, or threatening to end your relationship if she doesn't get her way that problems come about, because no rationally thinking female will try that.

You'd piss on your own pride just to make a woman happy? More power to you.

Is just a movie, but is the type of immature alpha male %$$% some NTers would do... and yes those kind of extreme ultimatums are OD and believe me, my wife has been put in her place when she has attempted that....but then there are times when you should compromise...NTers have this way of thinking that they are NEVER wrong and the woman is NEVER right, get off that high horse homies.

 

[ksteezy]

Originally Posted by ELCHAPULINCOLORADO

Originally Posted by James Earl Zones

Originally Posted by ksteezy



You take e-lingo a little too serious, next time you with your girl and she asks you to go watch a chick flick just because SHE wants to see it, smack her and show her how much of an Alpha male you are and then define the Word "SIMP" to her, stop acting like a 17 year old virgin.

That's just a movie though. There's nothing serious about going to see a chick flick cuz your girl wants to.

It's when she thinks she can pull the "it's either ____ or me" stuff, or threatening to end your relationship if she doesn't get her way that problems come about, because no rationally thinking female will try that.

You'd piss on your own pride just to make a woman happy? More power to you.

qft

hes the type of guy that will show up to the womans work place with a tux, a box of choclates and a bouquet of flowers

  

Lmao!!!.... Every time some dude doesn't agree with me, he want to act like he has me figured out...I wish my wife had an account so that she herself can tell you how far from the truth you are

what a clown.

 

[ksteezy]

And wait....you find something wrong with sending your girl flowers or a box of chocolates to her job????....wowzers, you are such an Alpha...I'm intimidated.

 

[milestailsprowe]

I understand ultimatums if its somethings that's been a problem a for a while. As long as it not a ultimatum on something stupid like me or your moms then its understandable.

 

[starzinoureyes]

Originally Posted by ELCHAPULINCOLORADO

Originally Posted by ksteezy

Originally Posted by proper english


ultimatums tho... a level headed woman would never give out such thing

You guys can't be so naive to think that you will be in a serious relationship with a woman and she will never put you in a situation where you will have to compromise....even if they flat out don't tell you "hey is either me or _______" a relationship is full of compromises on both ends.

you try way too hard to make simping sound cool.

So when someone compromises in a relationship it's considered simping...? I do hope you know compromising =/= giving ultimatum.

Damn it, whatever happened to it being a two way street?? Give a little, take a little, that whole thing. Sometimes I wonder if there's a person behind all these NT screen names that actually have a social/romantic/whatever kind of life outside of this black & red screen or if all these grandiose personas are just a facade. 

Originally Posted by ksteezy

 I wish my wife had an account so that she herself can tell you how far from the truth you are

get her one.

    

 

[tsx24]

would u be considered a simp if u were hooked on drugs and she gave u a ultimatum, the drugs or her?

 

[blackmagnus514]

Originally Posted by sillyputty

Its not a relationship if there are ultimatums.

This. 

 

[elchapulincolorado]

Originally Posted by ksteezy

And wait....you find something wrong with sending your girl flowers or a box of chocolates to her job????....wowzers, you are such an Alpha...I'm intimidated.

no

but unlike you i dont show up with a tux and a back up mariachi.

 

[godie]

Let that Boi ksteezy serenade his girl.

 

[Peep Game]

The "it's either ____ or ME" notion always stems from something dumb as hell. It's never over anything actually serious, it's
always over the most frivolous & irrelevant things. So I agree, ultimatums WILL end your relationships.