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Mature NT'ers Enter Vol. Is it possible to be friends with an ex?
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Just got done chatting with her again, she said she drove past my house tonight for no reason, which sounded kind of weird to me
Got me confused as a muh right now
Got me confused as a muh right now
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QFT, IMO it is useless to be friends with an ex. Yeah there is history but that makes people reminisce and leads to curiosity, which leads totrouble.
OP just remain friendly but do not actually become a friend.
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basically.
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your anecdote does not prove anything. it has zero relevance to the topic at hand.
my answer:
probably not. it's too complicated. how can you ever completely vacate your feelings for that person like that.
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Originally Posted by Oprah Winfrey
Just got done chatting with her again, she said she drove past my house tonight for no reason, which sounded kind of weird to me
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prolly was checkin for an extra car parked outside
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Na, she knows I'm not seeing anyone which is why it was even weirder. Hopefully she starts speaking up about her actions because I'm getting to old forthis childish nonsense
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i've been pondering this question for the last week. my girlfriend of two years decided to dump me because she's sick of living the double life (hermom didn't know about us the whole 2 years) and apparently it took a toll on her. so it just ended like that, now i don't know what the hell to do. ijust deleted her off facebook and everything out of rage. i don't know if it was the right move
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burning bridges is never good unless there is a psycho on the other end.
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Originally Posted by Oprah Winfrey
Just got done chatting with her again, she said she drove past my house tonight for no reason, which sounded kind of weird to me
Got me confused as a muh right now
sounds like she still has feelings for u.
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GregOden
If I were in your position there is no way in hell I could be friends with her. My situation is a bit different though because 1: I did the dumping and 2:It's been 3 years, where as you literally just got dumped. I feel for you, hopefully you can remain level headed. I've seen breakups ruin some of myclosest friends
If I were in your position there is no way in hell I could be friends with her. My situation is a bit different though because 1: I did the dumping and 2:It's been 3 years, where as you literally just got dumped. I feel for you, hopefully you can remain level headed. I've seen breakups ruin some of myclosest friends
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confidence inspiringOriginally Posted by Oprah Winfrey
GregOden
If I were in your position there is no way in hell I could be friends with her. My situation is a bit different though because 1: I did the dumping and 2: It's been 3 years, where as you literally just got dumped. I feel for you, hopefully you can remain level headed. I've seen breakups ruin some of my closest friends
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Well, its just too soon. Maybe down the road they can become friends, but I'm sure right now he's feeling a great deal of animosity towards her. I knowI would, seems like a petty reason to end such a long relationship.
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thanks fellas.
she went away on a trip for a month and when she came back it was like as if she got a revelation. ultimately she wanted to patch things up with her mother,but she made a quick decision to dump me on the curb. I took a major, major L for that one. she still managed to tell me she loves me, which sucks, but thatwas the last time i tried talking to her.
talk about no closure and feeling abandoned. i'm still seething (n)
she went away on a trip for a month and when she came back it was like as if she got a revelation. ultimately she wanted to patch things up with her mother,but she made a quick decision to dump me on the curb. I took a major, major L for that one. she still managed to tell me she loves me, which sucks, but thatwas the last time i tried talking to her.
talk about no closure and feeling abandoned. i'm still seething (n)
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Tyra Banks' show today is about exs.
Not that I expect y'all guys to watch Tyra but I'm just saying.
Not that I expect y'all guys to watch Tyra but I'm just saying.
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Originally Posted by Retro23J
Originally Posted by Oprah Winfrey
Just got done chatting with her again, she said she drove past my house tonight for no reason, which sounded kind of weird to me
.....guilty of doing this......
prolly was checkin for an extra car parked outside
Dudes is real considerate in here...
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my abnormal psych professor [she owns a private practice counseling] just mentioned a situation like this and stated that it is not convenient for the two tobe friends until both parties are equally free of romantic feelings toward each other because the lines get blurred and feelings get hurt and could lead todepression in individuals with a family history or personal history of depression.
