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So much truth spoken...I think the fact that you were controlling is just an example of how insecure you are. Which is why you are having such a hard time.
That + your youth/inexperience.
Consider it a blessing. You now have time to focus on yourself and develop into the type of person someone would actually want to stay with.
I understand it hurts now. But wallowing in your self grief over a breakup that was YOUR fault is kinda selfish bro.
If you really care for someone, the only thing you should really want is for them to be happy. Accept it and move on with your life.