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OP trying to justify her being a jumpoff. Women like you are insecure without logic. haha
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i hope not. op pm me tagged pics of the box. thanks.if you need someone to talk to feel free to pm me whenever.
Look at this guy trying to run subliminal game right now
Dude...OP is most likely a guy
this. without trying I've always ended up dating religious girls, some more than others but they have been the most shady.church girls are the worst, though
i hope not. op pm me tagged pics of the box. thanks.
You belong to the hood now.
You ain't gotta lie on the Niketalk forum, bruh.i hope not. op pm me tagged pics of the box. thanks.
They were all extremely insecure. Very bitter about women who'd done them wrong.
What were the red flags that came with the guys you dated?
Do you have any insecurities that couldve effected past relationships
They were all extremely insecure. Very bitter about women who'd done them wrong.
One to the point where I couldn't go 5 minutes without responding to his texts. He never went off on me. Just explained how much it bothered him. Respectively. I ended it soon after.
The last one was more evasive but also had a way of demeaning me. I guess, another form of insecurity. He wanted to prove that he was smarter. He just had a way of correcting me.
The last one was more obvious in cheating. Lied about dropping his mom off at the metro. It was closed that day. I saw St. Ives lotion in his bathroom. He is incredibly white so the lotion, IDK. Also , St. Ives is a feminine brand. When I brought it up, he got defensive , made up some story to try and cover himself . Then got defensive , called me dramatic, the works. We got into an argument a few weeks later, broke up. A week or so later, I see him with this girl, like in love with him by their interaction.
Theere was a point where we reunited. I wanted to come over to see him . Like hookup. I asked spur of the moment months before and he kept asking if I could do it some other time. RED FLAG.
I entered every single one of those relationships with arms wide open. I did not question or accuse anything until I was given reason to. I lost my virginity to the last person I dated so I was very clingy. I was more afraid of losing him then the others. In that relationship, I was insecure but he initiated it. Also, it's not like he didn't know I was a virgin. He's probably the only one I can say I loved while I just cared for the others.
Do you have any insecurities that couldve effected past relationships
I know I'll get some good advice here so let me go.
I've always been the good girl. Went to church twice a week and I lived doing the right thing. Not once in my life have I ever led a man on or lied to him. I was either home, at school, with my family or friends, or I was with him. I'm also not a superficial broad. I wanted smart men over athletic. I chose family oriented over other types. Honestly and truly. I also waited in choosing them to see that they were that way. I'm 26 and have dated only 4 men. Had a long term relationship with one and was intimate with one. I waited until I was an adult to start seeing men.
The things that ended those relationships were lies. Smart men do cheat and just because a man looks after his mother and takes care of her doesn't mean that he will be faithful. I've had men I loved look me in the face and tell me boldfaced lies when I knew the truth. Even when I told them I knew. They would even lie to the point of twisting things around on me. Again, not superficial but I'm athletic, in shape, and I'm a pretty girl. I'm not risqué but I think of myself as sexy. I've dated overweight, nerdy, and shy. That's what I chose.
I'm not saying I would sleep with multiple men at once. I'm just never going to have eyes for one again. I'm just going to always be that person with someone else lined up. It's too much time and energy wasted in the end to be alone and feeling the way that I do. It's really hard to care at this point when you see men as threats. Instead of feeling protected and safe, you feel like they have everything it takes to hurt you.
And this isn't the time for jokes. Idk. Maybe it is. I'm feeling some kind of way.
I'm not posting a picture.
We got into an argument a few weeks later, broke up. A week or so later, I see him with this girl, like in love with him based on their interaction.
Word?St. Ives is a feminine brand.
I don't know if I have ever been cheated on because girls are good at covering their tracks but I had one ex who I strongly suspected. It's normal to be angry and bitter afterwards and maybe even feel a little bit of resentment for the opposite sex. At some point for your sake and no one else you have to let it go. Carrying around those negative feelings changes you for the worse and as a human being and you have decide what kind of person you want to be. I know a lot of people who cheat and the worst reason to cheat is because you have been hurt in previous relationships. Putting a new person through the kind of pain that made you suffer is completely unfair and it makes you just as bad as the people who hurt you. There good people who are honest and won't cheat. You just have to be patient.
Guys , thanks for the advice. Like I said, it was just holiday blues. I feel much better.
I don't have the heart do what was done to me. Nonetheless, I understand people who GO bad. You get hurt bad enough, it makes me you question everything. Thanks again.
i have an attraction to broken men
She just needs some good **** from a dude that wouldn't mind holding her after.Secure dudes wouldn't commit to a dude like kelly though.
So I guess being a ho is the only path left.