nt is it just me but the older you get ...

[veryanalytical85]

Originally Posted by beh235

Originally Posted by reeeem0

Originally Posted by UptownsDotNetStacky

As I've gotten older, I see no need in chasing women period.... the one you need will find you

right ON the money

QFT, I stopped "chasing" a long time ago.

Don't mean to pyramid quote but this is pretty much fact. I mean after relationship threads (post your GF, relationship issue ones with NT'ers and etc.) makes you wonder is it really worth the chase? Granted, I still wish for my chick to be at least somewhat attractive. But at the end of the day, the person you end up with sometimes isn't what you expect it to be. Gimme a girl that looks like Michelle Krusiec with some intelligence and a good head on her shoulders and I'm golden, that's wassup.

 

[veryanalytical85]

Originally Posted by beh235

Originally Posted by reeeem0

Originally Posted by UptownsDotNetStacky

As I've gotten older, I see no need in chasing women period.... the one you need will find you

right ON the money

QFT, I stopped "chasing" a long time ago.

Don't mean to pyramid quote but this is pretty much fact. I mean after relationship threads (post your GF, relationship issue ones with NT'ers and etc.) makes you wonder is it really worth the chase? Granted, I still wish for my chick to be at least somewhat attractive. But at the end of the day, the person you end up with sometimes isn't what you expect it to be. Gimme a girl that looks like Michelle Krusiec with some intelligence and a good head on her shoulders and I'm golden, that's wassup.

 

[bennypowers]

Originally Posted by youngmoney


i just wanna focus on getting my money, get my degree, and buy things for me

thats how I feel

 

[bennypowers]

Originally Posted by youngmoney


i just wanna focus on getting my money, get my degree, and buy things for me

thats how I feel

 

[eashawty]

Originally Posted by Mark Antony

Originally Posted by HigherGround

what is happening is that you are lowering your standards due to the fact that you are coming in terms with your shortcomings.


Life/

Naw, maybe son just came to realization all these bad broads with their amateur modeling are nothing more than empty vessels and value themselves more than they should.  It be a pain trying to work these arrogant o's sometimes just dealing with the bull from somebody that aint @$#% but think they're @$#%.  Sometimes you just wanna be like *!$@ you you dumb *%!, but you wanna beat so bad.  Personal rant.

bingo, & cosign on the dude who said bad %%+%@%@ is just like a trophy. i aint gon lie, i done messed wit a few chicks who i know dont look all the way up to par. but i still liked em tho, cause they had a good personality & they mind was right. i still wouldnt bring em around my boys, or even let my boys know i was messin wit em cause i dont be wantin to hear no #%$@. but whenever im *#**!% wit a dime, im lettin all my +@!%+# know asap & ima bring her around cause when they see that they know u doin yo thang. but at the end of the the day these bad %%+%@%@ tend to be so dumb & just dull all the way around. its all about findin that middle ground.
  

 

[eashawty]

Originally Posted by Mark Antony

Originally Posted by HigherGround

what is happening is that you are lowering your standards due to the fact that you are coming in terms with your shortcomings.


Life/

Naw, maybe son just came to realization all these bad broads with their amateur modeling are nothing more than empty vessels and value themselves more than they should.  It be a pain trying to work these arrogant o's sometimes just dealing with the bull from somebody that aint @$#% but think they're @$#%.  Sometimes you just wanna be like *!$@ you you dumb *%!, but you wanna beat so bad.  Personal rant.

bingo, & cosign on the dude who said bad %%+%@%@ is just like a trophy. i aint gon lie, i done messed wit a few chicks who i know dont look all the way up to par. but i still liked em tho, cause they had a good personality & they mind was right. i still wouldnt bring em around my boys, or even let my boys know i was messin wit em cause i dont be wantin to hear no #%$@. but whenever im *#**!% wit a dime, im lettin all my +@!%+# know asap & ima bring her around cause when they see that they know u doin yo thang. but at the end of the the day these bad %%+%@%@ tend to be so dumb & just dull all the way around. its all about findin that middle ground.
  

 

[onlyrockndabest]

The best girl is a ‘cute’ girl with a decent body with a happy personality that will grow to love you, she may not be the girl you wanted, but you find that she is the girl that you needed. Many guys are so intent looking for that fabulous diamond, they don’t see the basket of pearls at their feet!

 

[onlyrockndabest]

The best girl is a ‘cute’ girl with a decent body with a happy personality that will grow to love you, she may not be the girl you wanted, but you find that she is the girl that you needed. Many guys are so intent looking for that fabulous diamond, they don’t see the basket of pearls at their feet!

 

[r33p04s]

Originally Posted by eashawty

Originally Posted by Mark Antony

Originally Posted by HigherGround

what is happening is that you are lowering your standards due to the fact that you are coming in terms with your shortcomings.


Life/

Naw, maybe son just came to realization all these bad broads with their amateur modeling are nothing more than empty vessels and value themselves more than they should.  It be a pain trying to work these arrogant o's sometimes just dealing with the bull from somebody that aint @$#% but think they're @$#%.  Sometimes you just wanna be like *!$@ you you dumb *%!, but you wanna beat so bad.  Personal rant.

bingo, & cosign on the dude who said bad %%+%@%@ is just like a trophy. i aint gon lie, i done messed wit a few chicks who i know dont look all the way up to par. but i still liked em tho, cause they had a good personality & they mind was right. i still wouldnt bring em around my boys, or even let my boys know i was messin wit em cause i dont be wantin to hear no #%$@. but whenever im *#**!% wit a dime, im lettin all my +@!%+# know asap & ima bring her around cause when they see that they know u doin yo thang. but at the end of the the day these bad %%+%@%@ tend to be so dumb & just dull all the way around. its all about findin that middle ground.
  

*looks around, raises hand* 

Over the last year I have come to terms that I am a shallow !%$#%@%... the only females I have ever handed the title gf to are the dimes that I bring around and show off... none of them really had much to offer than pop culture, a banging fashion sense and a killer body 

 but it always ends badly

I mess with and talk with regular chicks all the time... like AF1King I prefer them for that but the feeling of a bad chick grabbing your arm as you walk down the street breaking necks... dudes looking at the girl, girls looking at you... its addictive 

 

[r33p04s]

Originally Posted by eashawty

Originally Posted by Mark Antony

Originally Posted by HigherGround

what is happening is that you are lowering your standards due to the fact that you are coming in terms with your shortcomings.


Life/

Naw, maybe son just came to realization all these bad broads with their amateur modeling are nothing more than empty vessels and value themselves more than they should.  It be a pain trying to work these arrogant o's sometimes just dealing with the bull from somebody that aint @$#% but think they're @$#%.  Sometimes you just wanna be like *!$@ you you dumb *%!, but you wanna beat so bad.  Personal rant.

bingo, & cosign on the dude who said bad %%+%@%@ is just like a trophy. i aint gon lie, i done messed wit a few chicks who i know dont look all the way up to par. but i still liked em tho, cause they had a good personality & they mind was right. i still wouldnt bring em around my boys, or even let my boys know i was messin wit em cause i dont be wantin to hear no #%$@. but whenever im *#**!% wit a dime, im lettin all my +@!%+# know asap & ima bring her around cause when they see that they know u doin yo thang. but at the end of the the day these bad %%+%@%@ tend to be so dumb & just dull all the way around. its all about findin that middle ground.
  

*looks around, raises hand* 

Over the last year I have come to terms that I am a shallow !%$#%@%... the only females I have ever handed the title gf to are the dimes that I bring around and show off... none of them really had much to offer than pop culture, a banging fashion sense and a killer body 

 but it always ends badly

I mess with and talk with regular chicks all the time... like AF1King I prefer them for that but the feeling of a bad chick grabbing your arm as you walk down the street breaking necks... dudes looking at the girl, girls looking at you... its addictive 

 

[soundnfury]

damn i better make the most of this being young thing

 

[soundnfury]

damn i better make the most of this being young thing

 

[Fong$tarr]

I am almost 30 and I've noticed all the hot girls are either with older men with money or with guys that just have money in general. I think they went the safe route as well and relied on having a steady lifestyle. I saw this one chick I was into an she straight had a kid with some goober looking dude. I figure the guy must have money. Also there is a small batch of them that are single to this day. Those are the one's that have the crazy attitudes and even people with money don't want to wife that up. Usually they'll trap some dude up and "accidentally" get pregnant with his kid.

This is a general statement but this is happening to the hot girls that I grew up with. All the good one's that were average in high school ended up having the great life with great careers and a great relationship to boot.

 

[Fong$tarr]

I am almost 30 and I've noticed all the hot girls are either with older men with money or with guys that just have money in general. I think they went the safe route as well and relied on having a steady lifestyle. I saw this one chick I was into an she straight had a kid with some goober looking dude. I figure the guy must have money. Also there is a small batch of them that are single to this day. Those are the one's that have the crazy attitudes and even people with money don't want to wife that up. Usually they'll trap some dude up and "accidentally" get pregnant with his kid.

This is a general statement but this is happening to the hot girls that I grew up with. All the good one's that were average in high school ended up having the great life with great careers and a great relationship to boot.

 

[ruxxx]

Originally Posted by beh235

Originally Posted by reeeem0

Originally Posted by UptownsDotNetStacky

As I've gotten older, I see no need in chasing women period.... the one you need will find you

right ON the money

QFT, I stopped "chasing" a long time ago.

 

[ruxxx]

Originally Posted by beh235

Originally Posted by reeeem0

Originally Posted by UptownsDotNetStacky

As I've gotten older, I see no need in chasing women period.... the one you need will find you

right ON the money

QFT, I stopped "chasing" a long time ago.

 

[b smooth 202]

Originally Posted by Ikaman

Originally Posted by hella handsome

I feel you OP. But I look at it like this, I'd rather have a cute-attractive woman as my girl, who isnt a 10, lets say more of a 8-9 ranged type of chick with brains and self values over a straight 10 in the face chick any day.

These dolled up girls only know how to do one thing, and thats put their clothes on, and take them off... Pun intended only if you want it to be.

I like girls with inner values, family values, and goals for their future outside of using their looks to get them what they want. Someone who can carry a convo.

I've been over these broads in shirts showing cleavage 24/7 and not knowing anything about whats going on in the world right now.

And I'm REALLY tired of these broads that can't cook

           I too used to think like this but after sitting back and analyzing the relationships of fellow family, friends, and even celeb figures I've stumbled upon a new dilemma that i would like niketalk to ponder and discuss if you have the time and maturity.
 My dilemma is this: I hear you guys when you say that beauty isnt everything. I agree 100%. But unfortunately, I've come to the conclusion that aiming for that "wifey" type girl who has inner values, family values, and goals for their future is probably the most dangerous and risky move you could make when dealing with these girls nowadays. I'll explain. First of all, girls KNOW that any guy with a good head on his shoulders wants the "wifey" type. so what do they do? they appear to be the "wifey" type. They start putting their best foot forward, they say all the right things, do all the right things, and pretty much hide any part of their personality that doesn't fit into the "wifey type" profile. Girls have male friends, they listen to the same music that influences us, and know how to hide their "non-wifey" tendencies, but only for a limited time until they become comfortable enough in the relationship where they can let their true colors show. All of a sudden you're living with a completely different person, but now that she's won you over, she can be herself. Also, and here is the BIGGIE:what happens when this girl with all the right "wifey" qualities,does you dirty? What happens if she "loses interest" or ends up turning out to be just like the rest? now what? Trying too hard to find "WIFEY" is a wild emotional risk imo because if you actually do find her, and despite all her family values, and inner values and positive ambitions still manages to do you wrong, then isnt it safe to say that u were better off with a $*#%+%@? At least there would not be any surprises. 

I feel you bruh...thats why I keep all females on the same level until they prove me other wise. There is good chance if I ever do have a wife she bagged me

 

[b smooth 202]

Originally Posted by Ikaman

Originally Posted by hella handsome

I feel you OP. But I look at it like this, I'd rather have a cute-attractive woman as my girl, who isnt a 10, lets say more of a 8-9 ranged type of chick with brains and self values over a straight 10 in the face chick any day.

These dolled up girls only know how to do one thing, and thats put their clothes on, and take them off... Pun intended only if you want it to be.

I like girls with inner values, family values, and goals for their future outside of using their looks to get them what they want. Someone who can carry a convo.

I've been over these broads in shirts showing cleavage 24/7 and not knowing anything about whats going on in the world right now.

And I'm REALLY tired of these broads that can't cook

           I too used to think like this but after sitting back and analyzing the relationships of fellow family, friends, and even celeb figures I've stumbled upon a new dilemma that i would like niketalk to ponder and discuss if you have the time and maturity.
 My dilemma is this: I hear you guys when you say that beauty isnt everything. I agree 100%. But unfortunately, I've come to the conclusion that aiming for that "wifey" type girl who has inner values, family values, and goals for their future is probably the most dangerous and risky move you could make when dealing with these girls nowadays. I'll explain. First of all, girls KNOW that any guy with a good head on his shoulders wants the "wifey" type. so what do they do? they appear to be the "wifey" type. They start putting their best foot forward, they say all the right things, do all the right things, and pretty much hide any part of their personality that doesn't fit into the "wifey type" profile. Girls have male friends, they listen to the same music that influences us, and know how to hide their "non-wifey" tendencies, but only for a limited time until they become comfortable enough in the relationship where they can let their true colors show. All of a sudden you're living with a completely different person, but now that she's won you over, she can be herself. Also, and here is the BIGGIE:what happens when this girl with all the right "wifey" qualities,does you dirty? What happens if she "loses interest" or ends up turning out to be just like the rest? now what? Trying too hard to find "WIFEY" is a wild emotional risk imo because if you actually do find her, and despite all her family values, and inner values and positive ambitions still manages to do you wrong, then isnt it safe to say that u were better off with a $*#%+%@? At least there would not be any surprises. 

I feel you bruh...thats why I keep all females on the same level until they prove me other wise. There is good chance if I ever do have a wife she bagged me

 

[washanobotit]

Originally Posted by beh235

Originally Posted by reeeem0

Originally Posted by UptownsDotNetStacky

As I've gotten older, I see no need in chasing women period.... the one you need will find you

right ON the money

QFT, I stopped "chasing" a long time ago.

Cosign.. I never was a "chaser" for that very reason

  

 

[washanobotit]

Originally Posted by beh235

Originally Posted by reeeem0

Originally Posted by UptownsDotNetStacky

As I've gotten older, I see no need in chasing women period.... the one you need will find you

right ON the money

QFT, I stopped "chasing" a long time ago.

Cosign.. I never was a "chaser" for that very reason

  

 

[katiejade4]

The girl next door >>> the video vixen.

 

[katiejade4]

The girl next door >>> the video vixen.

 

[fedexciter]

Its just all apart of growing up, u stop looking at the cover and actually start reading the book

 

[fedexciter]

Its just all apart of growing up, u stop looking at the cover and actually start reading the book

 

[dathbgboy]

A 10 in looks =/= a 10 overall. That's the main thing many dudes fail to realize