Originally Posted by
Ikaman
Originally Posted by
hella handsome
I feel you OP. But I look at it like this, I'd rather have a cute-attractive woman as my girl, who isnt a 10, lets say more of a 8-9 ranged type of chick with brains and self values over a straight 10 in the face chick any day.
These dolled up girls only know how to do one thing, and thats put their clothes on, and take them off... Pun intended only if you want it to be.
I like girls with inner values, family values, and goals for their future outside of using their looks to get them what they want. Someone who can carry a convo.
I've been over these broads in shirts showing cleavage 24/7 and not knowing anything about whats going on in the world right now.
And I'm REALLY tired of these broads that can't cook
I too used to think like this but after sitting back and analyzing the relationships of fellow family, friends, and even celeb figures I've stumbled upon a new dilemma that i would like niketalk to ponder and discuss if you have the time and maturity.
My dilemma is this: I hear you guys when you say that beauty isnt everything. I agree 100%. But unfortunately, I've come to the conclusion that aiming for that "wifey" type girl who has inner values, family values, and goals for their future is probably the most dangerous and risky move you could make when dealing with these girls nowadays. I'll explain. First of all, girls KNOW that any guy with a good head on his shoulders wants the "wifey" type. so what do they do? they appear to be the "wifey" type. They start putting their best foot forward, they say all the right things, do all the right things, and pretty much hide any part of their personality that doesn't fit into the "wifey type" profile. Girls have male friends, they listen to the same music that influences us, and know how to hide their "non-wifey" tendencies, but only for a limited time until they become comfortable enough in the relationship where they can let their true colors show. All of a sudden you're living with a completely different person, but now that she's won you over, she can be herself. Also, and here is the BIGGIE:what happens when this girl with all the right "wifey" qualities,does you dirty? What happens if she "loses interest" or ends up turning out to be just like the rest? now what? Trying too hard to find "WIFEY" is a wild emotional risk imo because if you actually do find her, and despite all her family values, and inner values and positive ambitions still manages to do you wrong, then isnt it safe to say that u were better off with a $*#%+%@? At least there would not be any surprises.
