NY chicks too hard if you're not famous or rich? (Video)

[Sir San Diego]

Dudes stay going after the wrong chicks. Why even waste your breath on that "rich %*%!$'s !#$%?" I never got the appeal of these club rats.

First of all if she's with a group, which 9.9 outta 10, she will be, if you're not impressing her with your status you might as well play the bar and enjoy the music. Most of them are in there trying to sit next to that dude buying bottles, spot the local star and be seen.

I'm not even timid but I know the club ain't for extra regular dudes. You can work your charm and good looks much better in the daylight in casual situations.

 

[|A-Man|]

You either have no confidence or are going after the wrong broads in NYC if you have that mentality.

 

[montellgriffin97]

He is approaching these chicks all wrong i can tell, He needs to be more bold with his approach and the way he interacts with said females.
Just cause you a regular dude, dont mean you got be have that beta bone sticking out everywhere you go.
I wonder how good i could do in NY for a weekend of partying and chasing tail now?

 

[evo v sti]

Originally Posted by 23MCpizzle23

thats some real %!%% and its not just NY its LA also

This. I believe any big city

 

[cedric ceballos 1995 lakers]

it's more stuckup broads in LA then NY to me, at the end of the day a good chunk of these LA broads either got money or their family got money, in New York i could hit a broad with the, at the end of the day you swallow pipe then go back to your rent controlled apartment plotting on the next rich dude, and while ill get cussed out, the fact that what i'm speaking is truth hits these broads hard.

 

[kbweezy24]

Originally Posted by CJ616

Originally Posted by WISEPHAROAH

When lame cats stop drooling over these chicks and putting them in their place when they step out of line, all will be well.

I say this all of the time.  In the back of my head, I know that it will never happen, though.  Dudes will be forever thirsty.

too true 

 

[willmatic]

Chances are the girls those guys are going after aren't worth it either.

 

[paycheck26]

Originally Posted by ThunderChunk69

Originally Posted by moonmaster3

This dudes vocabulary is made up of like 10 words...dude has to drop the N' word every other word.

^ I hate guys that call females N words,
no class, 

And vice versa

 

[jordanf1end]

Originally Posted by AntonLaVey

Originally Posted by SonOfTony

Originally Posted by AntonLaVey

white women in nyc didnt care whether i was wealthy/fmous or not

it depends on the kinda female you surround yourself with and your scene, i tried to stay out of pretentious places in nyc

you need to point me in that direction fam. most white women i bumped into in NYC are snotty and stuck up

I rarely went clubs, club women tend to be stuck up....I wasn't about that


Grimy underground bars and hipster lounges. Basically, the less "classy" the place looks the more down to earth the people are. I also had a lotta white friends/female friends in the city which helps I guess.

so you pretty much chill in williamsburg huh

 

[anthony10888]

I tell my friend this all the time. She only goes after dudes who either have a lot of money, are in the entertainment industry, or an athlete of some sort. Let me tell you that these dudes have absolutely no game at all from the stories she tells me. These guys say the most ridiculous things to the point you laugh. They go off saying things like I'll pay for your rent, car insurance or whatever which in the my friend is like "ok cool". Seriously, more power to her though. Basically, these guys only have money to back themselves up and play off of just that, they are finding these type of girls in clubs mostly. 
I don't ever surround myself in those social situations as I'd sometimes rather hit up a bar and talk to girls there. Where I meet girls the most are at coffee shops, grocery stores, bed bath and beyond, and etc. where you create small talk which leads up to "lets hang out sometime". It's really simple honestly.

Joe Budden's friend seems like he has no intellect and is only speaking to girls at club while being at a table with Joe Budden by which he thinks he can pull chicks off break. The dude needs to wake up and see that by surrounding yourself in different places like I said earlier will land you more chances to interact with girls. I live in LA and there are those gold-digging bimbos everyone speaks about but you only ever seen them at night as they're so tired to even wake up in the morning from a night out at the club getting wasted. The real chicks are the ones doing everything themselves, laundry, grocery shopping, buying books, drinking coffee and etc.

 

[mr 100]

Don't believe the hype. Yeah a lot of NY girls are stuck up but even those can and have been picked up. If the girl likes the way you present yourself, can hold a good convo, NOT act thirst like a virgin and make the girl laugh and feel good at the moment you can have them. Call me weird but I always thought NY girls were easy to pick up. Most of them have self esteem issues which explains why all they have going for them is their superficial exterior.

 

[neverflopped]

Originally Posted by Anthony10888

I tell my friend this all the time. She only goes after dudes who either have a lot of money, are in the entertainment industry, or an athlete of some sort. Let me tell you that these dudes have absolutely no game at all from the stories she tells me. These guys say the most ridiculous things to the point you laugh. They go off saying things like I'll pay for your rent, car insurance or whatever which in the my friend is like "ok cool". Seriously, more power to her though. Basically, these guys only have money to back themselves up and play off of just that, they are finding these type of girls in clubs mostly. 
I don't ever surround myself in those social situations as I'd sometimes rather hit up a bar and talk to girls there. Where I meet girls the most are at coffee shops, grocery stores, bed bath and beyond, and etc. where you create small talk which leads up to "lets hang out sometime". It's really simple honestly.

Joe Budden's friend seems like he has no intellect and is only speaking to girls at club while being at a table with Joe Budden by which he thinks he can pull chicks off break. The dude needs to wake up and see that by surrounding yourself in different places like I said earlier will land you more chances to interact with girls. I live in LA and there are those gold-digging bimbos everyone speaks about but you only ever seen them at night as they're so tired to even wake up in the morning from a night out at the club getting wasted. The real chicks are the ones doing everything themselves, laundry, grocery shopping, buying books, drinking coffee and etc.

yeah ur friend is just mad cause at the end of the day she got played by them.

 

[ninjahood]

Originally Posted by Man E


Since i'm hispanic (still not wealthy), I don't agree with everything they say, may be different for us spanish dudes. But i thought this was interesting. 

/thread

its TOTALLY different for us hispanic folks, we're not completely brainwashed by American culture and values...if you a guy doing you're thing in my neighborhood you getting da box....

this is why MOST black dudes don't even mess with black girls anymore...

chicks priced themselves outta da market and they NO WHERE near worth what they askin....

 

[anthony10888]

NeverFlopped... You're right, but she doesn't care. All she wants at the end is money and these guys give to her. They take her shopping, expensive restaurants, trips, you name it. I'm just saying, guys don't give themselves the credit they deserve and are choosing the wrong girls in the wrong situations. If you surround yourself in normal everyday life and not nightlife all the time, you WILL find chicks to hang out with. Not all girls are stuck up and if they are just move on. The girls that are not stuck up and are real are not looking for a ball player or someone in the entertainment industry just a normal everyday dude who has goals for himself, has a steady job and has a sense of humor.

 

[toast1985]

Its all in who you associate yourself with.
I bet these dudes be in the Malls, Clubs, trying to get at the most glamorous chicks. You have to interact within your realm. 

 

[cedric ceballos 1995 lakers]

another thing when it comes to bougi stuck up broads, it's funny when they yap on and on about the unrealistic things they want and i ask them "ok that's cool and all that you want that, get what you deserve but what do you bring to the table aside from a pretty face that warrants you deserving that, can you cook, can you clean, can you take care of kids if you end up having them" i swear bougi broads get furious when you ask em stuff like that.

@anthony it is what it is, at the end of the day, the dudes simping on your friend are the problem, to be honest the whole "it aint trickin if you got it" mentality is degrading to men just like how a woman degrades herself when they let themself be in porn or a video like the tipdrill video, knowing how it's not common to see rappers, and athletes go broke due to being foolish with their money it's funny when they splurge on these broads knowing damn well those same broads will act like they don't know em when the money goes away.

 

[ninjahood]

Originally Posted by Cedric Ceballos 1995 Lakers

another thing when it comes to bougi stuck up broads, it's funny when they yap on and on about the unrealistic things they want and i ask them "ok that's cool and all that you want that, get what you deserve but what do you bring to the table aside from a pretty face that warrants you deserving that, can you cook, can you clean, can you take care of kids if you end up having them" i swear bougi broads get furious when you ask em stuff like that.

@anthony it is what it is, at the end of the day, the dudes simping on your friend are the problem, to be honest the whole "it aint trickin if you got it" mentality is degrading to men just like how a woman degrades herself when they let themself be in porn or a video like the tipdrill video, knowing how it's not common to see rappers, and athletes go broke due to being foolish with their money it's funny when they splurge on these broads knowing damn well those same broads will act like they don't know em when the money goes away.

*golf clap*

*goes on a twitter rant*

 

[kix4kix]

this is why MOST black dudes don't even mess with black girls anymore...

chicks priced themselves outta da market and they NO WHERE near worth what they askin....


QFT. As mush as it pains me to agree.
I for one was always the dude hyping up these black females, and all about that sista **+% and what not. In MY encounters with black women both inside and outside of college environments seemed to be that they over valued themselves to the fullest. Lets just say I have been loving life ever since I went to the dark (white) side. 

 For starters what's with the back massage thing? Couldn't get a sista to give me one to save a small child. My caucasian friend be like "aww poor baby, you so tense"- feels good man.

I think chris rock said it best, I forget the exact performance but he was talking about dating and how women are incapable of moving down financially in a relationship. Where as men are incapable of moving down physically, his rant made me remember this one chick from high school who was amped up by one of my teammates who said she had an aura about her, I bet any amount of money she still walking around to this day like her %%$ don't stink.

These fellas aint out here blameless either, have some damn pride. I too have seen first hand some pretty pathetic game by some of these "athletes" out here, at the end of the day we the ones amping these weak females up to let them thinking they something they not. I mean these women aint even being amped up by "lames"- most of the time it's the alpha males. 

The greatest epiphany I had was working at an airport during one summer, it really dawned on me how many pretty women are out there, no need to talk these birds up. There are literally flocks of em out here. Working retail I am sure would have a similar experience, the amount of bad ones I saw that summer really put it in perspective for me.

 

[neverflopped]

I feel u Anthony. I see how u can say how these chicks don't even care about how they get played. They bad as he'll but these materialistic girls are ok with getting played because its like a cycle. And alot of them think they're so smart. I've seen one chick brought on a vacation to be left by themselves after the first day (basically brought on vacation to get played cause homie got tired of her). Then u see the otherside of it when shorty is able to "retire her jersey". A couple of years ago I was at a club and a group of these chicks were outside trying to get 1 of their groupie friends in. As they were trying to flirt their way with the bouncers I overheard one of the girls say, "F this....im already pregnant."

 

[cedric ceballos 1995 lakers]

Originally Posted by kix4kix

this is why MOST black dudes don't even mess with black girls anymore...

chicks priced themselves outta da market and they NO WHERE near worth what they askin....

QFT. As mush as it pains me to agree.
I for one was always the dude hyping up these black females, and all about that sista **+% and what not. In MY encounters with black women both inside and outside of college environments seemed to be that they over valued themselves to the fullest. Lets just say I have been loving life ever since I went to the dark (white) side. 

 For starters what's with the back massage thing? Couldn't get a sista to give me one to save a small child. My caucasian friend be like "aww poor baby, you so tense"- feels good man.

I think chris rock said it best, I forget the exact performance but he was talking about dating and how women are incapable of moving down financially in a relationship. Where as men are incapable of moving down physically, his rant made me remember this one chick from high school who was amped up by one of my teammates who said she had an aura about her, I bet any amount of money she still walking around to this day like her %%$ don't stink.

These fellas aint out here blameless either, have some damn pride. I too have seen first hand some pretty pathetic game by some of these "athletes" out here, at the end of the day we the ones amping these weak females up to let them thinking they something they not. I mean these women aint even being amped up by "lames"- most of the time it's the alpha males. 

The greatest epiphany I had was working at an airport during one summer, it really dawned on me how many pretty women are out there, no need to talk these birds up. There are literally flocks of em out here. Working retail I am sure would have a similar experience, the amount of bad ones I saw that summer really put it in perspective for me.

alot of truth spoken here,  alot of dudes turn into {()} while in pursuit of the {()}

there's nothing wrong with being a gentleman to a woman that deserves it, but tucking your balls between your johnson and tellin a chick you'll take em shopping and take their last name while doing so is just corny.

i live in the los angeles area, beautiful women come a dime a dozen,  for every good looking stuck up  if you aint a celeb, athlete, or rapper broad, there's about 3-4 beautiful down to earth chicks that just want a dude, that looks semi decent, can make em life, and can put the pipe on em right.  there's no need to stress over the gold diggers.

 

[anthony10888]

The greatest epiphany I had was working at an airport during one summer, it really dawned on me how many pretty women are out there, no need to talk these birds up. There are literally flocks of em out here. Working retail I am sure would have a similar experience, the amount of bad ones I saw that summer really put it in perspective for me.

This page 

 for the truth spoken by every single one of you


I see beautiful chicks every single day who are lonely and single, there's an overabundance of girls everywhere especially here in LA. If you see a bad chick, go for it because she might be down to earth or at worst, you'll find out she's a gold-digger or simply not interested. 

 

[thenextpuff]

Man this so f'n true...go to any club in LA especially spots like Colony on a sunday night or monday..man all you'll see is bunch of these types of birds. they all got twitter accounts with over 5,000 followers, all think they "model" cuz they took a couple photo's, every girl wants to be on VH1 oH and trust me when they leaving the club they driving away in a beat up POS..its horrible in the streets!!! I'm a regular cat with a career making over 60k! With plenty of great side hustles..I don't even go for them anymore, its a trap...follow me @rocspebbles lol

LOOK MA' 401K Plans!!!!

 

[illmatic2305]

"Rather be a made _'s !@%* then a regular _'s queen."

Budden said he used this line on a track...can anyone id the track?

 

[sneakerfr]

wow. there is so much truth in this thread

 

[kix4kix]

Oh and another thing out here fellas, these chicks know they a dying commodity in the game called life, I mean I got love for all these females out here! I would love em all if I could, honestly. But quite frankly if you aint a dime AND smarter than me, why bother? She only getting older (weaker). I on the other hand increase my earning potential with every year of graduate school completed and although enslavement to corporate america is a near certainty at somepoint, it still nearly 95% of the time vastly outweighs her options. I mean at the end of the day I am in my early 20's, I aint looking for a wife, so I smash dumb broads, guilty as charged, who hasn't?
As I have stated before; women are a hobby to me, I respect em and all, but they are for spare time only. Time is my most valuable asset.