Official Baby Mama Drama Thread

nawghtyhare said:
Good considering how far we’ve always been from each other
Distance wise
She knows she can always call and ask me for anything
Which she does :lol:
BUT I know she always wonders why she isn’t here with me like her siblings
And I’ve tried to explain it to her
Without degrading her mom
But I can tell she still wonders why
Telling her I was only 14 and young
To ME wouldn’t justify anything
In HER mind IMO
so I just always reassure her of my love
And her dependability in me.
Haven’t seen my grand daughter in person
Last June when I was in vegas
She had the baby 2 days after we left.
But my plan is after I buy the house
Is or my daughter and granddaughter to come stay out here
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That would be awesome. Have you ever offered or tried to get her when you were younger. Daddy daughter relationships are so important. Which I know you know. My parents split when I was like 6 or 7 and my dad moved across the country. When my mom re-married I consistently made sure to put her husband through a hell because i was envious. But every break I had my dad came and got me or flew me out. I even lived with him a few years. But I missed LA too much. lol I was his only kid he wasn't on child support for. Even to this day we are best friends. Now he comes to see my kid every chance he gets lol.
 
solewoman said:
That would be awesome. Have you ever offered or tried to get her when you were younger. Daddy daughter relationships are so important. Which I know you know. My parents split when I was like 6 or 7 and my dad moved across the country. When my mom re-married I consistently made sure to put her husband through a hell because i was envious. But every break I had my dad came and got me or flew me out. I even lived with him a few years. But I missed LA too much. lol I was his only kid he wasn't on child support for. Even to this day we are best friends. Now he comes to see my kid every chance he gets lol.
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Yeah I tried
But her mom would never let her go
She treated her as an object that was only hers
She was the reason why I started doing Disneyland so much YEARS ago
Would drive down 1 or 2 weekends a month
And we would go and chill
But her mom would stay calling every couple hours “when u bringing her home”
Or would only let me really take her
If I “helped her out a lil bit”
Like give her extra money in her “light bill”
Or just dumb ****
And yeah I COULDA took her to court probably
But I also have my other kids that live with me
And the last thing I needed was to be taking time off or spending lawyer and court fees.
But whatever feelings I have for her mom
And the things she used to or still does
I never let my daughter know
Ain’t my place to bad mouth her to my daughter
All I can do is to keep reiterating how much love I have for her
And support her whenever she needs me
I know she wouldn’t have been pregnant if she was living with me though
 
nawghtyhare said:
Yeah I tried
But her mom would never let her go
She treated her as an object that was only hers
She was the reason why I started doing Disneyland so much YEARS ago
Would drive down 1 or 2 weekends a month
And we would go and chill
But her mom would stay calling every couple hours “when u bringing her home”
Or would only let me really take her
If I “helped her out a lil bit”
Like give her extra money in her “light bill”
Or just dumb ****
And yeah I COULDA took her to court probably
But I also have my other kids that live with me
And the last thing I needed was to be taking time off or spending lawyer and court fees.
But whatever feelings I have for her mom
And the things she used to or still does
I never let my daughter know
Ain’t my place to bad mouth her to my daughter
All I can do is to keep reiterating how much love I have for her
And support her whenever she needs me
I know she wouldn’t have been pregnant if she was living with me though
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Props to you. While I know there are a handful of men who are trash. And could/do easily give up because the moms are difficult.
 
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#2 out today. Bout to sleep hella comfy and take up the whole bed like this. /
Sucks when babies is involved, but I'll deal with that tomorrow and I'm a run that ring back. Tries to storm out for one at damn near midnight its like 30 outside and then her truck wouldn't even start
 
datznasty said:
#2 out today. Bout to sleep hella comfy and take up the whole bed like this. /
Sucks when babies is involved, but I'll deal with that tomorrow and I'm a run that ring back. Tries to storm out for one at damn near midnight its like 30 outside and then her truck wouldn't even start
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You got another chick giving you the drama wo? Say it ain’t so :smh:
 
datznasty said:
#2 out today. Bout to sleep hella comfy and take up the whole bed like this. /
Sucks when babies is involved, but I'll deal with that tomorrow and I'm a run that ring back. Tries to storm out for one at damn near midnight its like 30 outside and then her truck wouldn't even start
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Shoulda knocked up the asian escort
She was bad
Had my tryna find her info
 
datznasty said:


I actually got a surprising update on how BM1 and BM2 for me actually get along now and even look out for each other, maybe I'll feel like typing it out later
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If they get along, they conspiring against u….
Be prepared homie.
 
nah so I dont know how much detail I went into before but classic, you meet a new woman, your old ex, we'll call her Baby Mama 1 be like, "dont be having that new .... around my child," nonsense and threatening to withhold child1 from you. Then it was don't have her in the car when you come to my house to drop off/pick up Ch1, like she expected me to be making hella extra trips if we were on our way to or back from something. She actually got over that pretty quick as she saw I wasn't necessarily dishonoring her wishes but that it was stupid and I wasn't engaging, but it wasnt all one sided. BM2 didnt like me going to BM1s house to pick up/drop off Ch1 and was like you should meet at a neutral location. Well I have a baby by the new girlfriend, so now I have BM2 and Ch2. Well BM1 had a Ch2 shortly after I did as well. So my Ch1 has a sister by both my BMs. BM2 didnt let me take Ch2 to my Ch1's birthday party because she had this thing about Ch2 and Ch2 meeting and especially my BM1 meeting BM2's Ch2. Such a loser *** insecure woman. So whatever I'm going through life not paying none of this nonsense any mind, if I am taking everyone somewhere and have to drop Ch1 off on the way back or to then I'm doing that, she doesn't even come outside so most of the time she never even knows, sometimes she'll text me mad later afterwards then I ignore it, she eats a Snickers, and it disipates.

So how do we get where we are now. My oldest, again Ch1 (by BM1) started playin t ball. BM1 was actually considerate of the situation and was like if you want, just let me know ahead of time and if you want me to not go to the game so you can bring her if she has an issue, that's fine. Again, **** yall nonsense I'm supporting my child I'm at every game and every practice. So BM2, if you want/insist to go that's fine, but BM1 will probably be there. So the BM2s, are both 2, they don't know nothing. They end up playing together and going up to the other one and you cant not pick up a baby or talk to a baby as cute as these babies are, eventually if just escalated into a thing where both sides get along and if I dont bring BM2, BM1 is like where;s BM2 and child 2, and theyre buying snacks and clothes for each other's Ch2's and when they are together they play together and look out for each other and of course I love it for Ch1 since its finally her getting to have both her sisters together at the same time. They aint friends to the extent like they text or anything, but if they see each other again they speak and we all sit together and its not an issue.
 
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datznasty said:
nah so I dont know how much detail I went into before but classic, you meet a new woman, your old ex, we'll call her Baby Mama 1 be like, "dont be having that new .... around my child," nonsense and threatening to withhold child1 from you. Then it was don't have her in the car when you come to my house to drop off/pick up Ch1, like she expected me to be making hella extra trips if we were on our way to or back from something. She actually got over that pretty quick as she saw I wasn't necessarily dishonoring her wishes but that it was stupid and I wasn't engaging, but it wasnt all one sided. BM2 didnt like me going to BM1s house to pick up/drop off Ch1 and was like you should meet at a neutral location. Well I have a baby by the new girlfriend, so now I have BM2 and Ch2. Well BM1 had a Ch2 shortly after I did as well. So my Ch1 has a sister by both my BMs. BM2 didnt let me take Ch2 to my Ch1's birthday party because she had this thing about Ch2 and Ch2 meeting and especially my BM1 meeting BM2's Ch2. Such a loser *** insecure woman. So whatever I'm going through life not paying none of this nonsense any mind, if I am taking everyone somewhere and have to drop Ch1 off on the way back or to then I'm doing that, she doesn't even come outside so most of the time she never even knows, sometimes she'll text me mad later afterwards then I ignore it, she eats a Snickers, and it disipates.
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datznasty said:
So how do we get where we are now. My oldest, again Ch1 (by BM1) started playin t ball. BM1 was actually considerate of the situation and was like if you want, just let me know ahead of time and if you want me to not go to the game so you can bring her if she has an issue, that's fine. Again, **** yall nonsense I'm supporting my child I'm at every game and every practice. So BM2, if you want/insist to go that's fine, but BM1 will probably be there. So the BM2s, are both 2, they don't know nothing. They end up playing together and going up to the other one and you cant not pick up a baby or talk to a baby as cute as these babies are, eventually if just escalated into a thing where both sides get along and if I dont bring BM2, BM1 is like where;s BM2 and child 2, and theyre buying snacks and clothes for each other's Ch2's and when they are together they play together and look out for each other and of course I love it for Ch1 since its finally her getting to have both her sisters together at the same time. They aint friends to the extent like they text or anything, but if they see each other again they speak and we all sit together and its not an issue.
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dope
U done got life figured out twice my G :pimp:
 
datznasty said:
nah so I dont know how much detail I went into before but classic, you meet a new woman, your old ex, we'll call her Baby Mama 1 be like, "dont be having that new .... around my child," nonsense and threatening to withhold child1 from you. Then it was don't have her in the car when you come to my house to drop off/pick up Ch1, like she expected me to be making hella extra trips if we were on our way to or back from something. She actually got over that pretty quick as she saw I wasn't necessarily dishonoring her wishes but that it was stupid and I wasn't engaging, but it wasnt all one sided. BM2 didnt like me going to BM1s house to pick up/drop off Ch1 and was like you should meet at a neutral location. Well I have a baby by the new girlfriend, so now I have BM2 and Ch2. Well BM1 had a Ch2 shortly after I did as well. So my Ch1 has a sister by both my BMs. BM2 didnt let me take Ch2 to my Ch1's birthday party because she had this thing about Ch2 and Ch2 meeting and especially my BM1 meeting BM2's Ch2. Such a loser *** insecure woman. So whatever I'm going through life not paying none of this nonsense any mind, if I am taking everyone somewhere and have to drop Ch1 off on the way back or to then I'm doing that, she doesn't even come outside so most of the time she never even knows, sometimes she'll text me mad later afterwards then I ignore it, she eats a Snickers, and it disipates.

So how do we get where we are now. My oldest, again Ch1 (by BM1) started playin t ball. BM1 was actually considerate of the situation and was like if you want, just let me know ahead of time and if you want me to not go to the game so you can bring her if she has an issue, that's fine. Again, **** yall nonsense I'm supporting my child I'm at every game and every practice. So BM2, if you want/insist to go that's fine, but BM1 will probably be there. So the BM2s, are both 2, they don't know nothing. They end up playing together and going up to the other one and you cant not pick up a baby or talk to a baby as cute as these babies are, eventually if just escalated into a thing where both sides get along and if I dont bring BM2, BM1 is like where;s BM2 and child 2, and theyre buying snacks and clothes for each other's Ch2's and when they are together they play together and look out for each other and of course I love it for Ch1 since its finally her getting to have both her sisters together at the same time. They aint friends to the extent like they text or anything, but if they see each other again they speak and we all sit together and its not an issue.
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Wholesome mathematics :pimp:
 
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