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Alright guys,
To put it short, I have been an entirely huge +*!$$ regarding girls my entire life. Girls have always told me I have been attractive and make great impressionson others, but regardless I am a +*!$$. I have a lot going for me..Im in the honors program, play guitar, in one of the best fraternities on campus..BUT, myentire life I have been scared of girls and been a complete biatch about. For the first time in my life, there is a girl in college that is the girl of mydreams, we hung out all day today and I made up my mind that I wanted to date her. She randomly told me several times that I have really pretty eye lashes(Whatever the @$%@ that means), but obviously she must have some interest.
My problem is that I have been extremely self conscious my entire life. I had a terrible acne problem earlier in life and was on accutane for several years,which honestly has really hurt me socially from 7th grade to a sophomore in college. Girls always show interest in me but I am naturally so self conscious fromacne and what not that I do not take them seriously.
This is the first time in my life that I have met a girl that I really want to get in a relationship with...but since I have been held back and jammed my wholelife, i have NO IDEA what to do. She told me she wanted me to get a christmas tree for my room and she would bake cookies and get her and her friends to helpdecorate. Should I add her on facebook and message her or what?
I seem like such a$%%%*!# because im so self conscious, but it is my biggest guilty fear i have ever had in my life. Everyone I know assumes I get laid all thetime but i Dont, because i am a +*!$$. What should I do with a girl that is the girl of my dreams, and she would take some work...facebook her, call her tohangout to hang up christmas lights..or what?
I realize that the majority of the people on the board are in the same position as me, so they will likely poke fun at me. But honest to god, this it thenumber 1 thing my life I want to change and I am going for desperate measures right now. This is honestly something I would never tell a soul in real life andI am scared to death it cannot change. It really is the number one goal in my life right now to change my social ability around girls. So, if you have anyadvice..let me know
To put it short, I have been an entirely huge +*!$$ regarding girls my entire life. Girls have always told me I have been attractive and make great impressionson others, but regardless I am a +*!$$. I have a lot going for me..Im in the honors program, play guitar, in one of the best fraternities on campus..BUT, myentire life I have been scared of girls and been a complete biatch about. For the first time in my life, there is a girl in college that is the girl of mydreams, we hung out all day today and I made up my mind that I wanted to date her. She randomly told me several times that I have really pretty eye lashes(Whatever the @$%@ that means), but obviously she must have some interest.
My problem is that I have been extremely self conscious my entire life. I had a terrible acne problem earlier in life and was on accutane for several years,which honestly has really hurt me socially from 7th grade to a sophomore in college. Girls always show interest in me but I am naturally so self conscious fromacne and what not that I do not take them seriously.
This is the first time in my life that I have met a girl that I really want to get in a relationship with...but since I have been held back and jammed my wholelife, i have NO IDEA what to do. She told me she wanted me to get a christmas tree for my room and she would bake cookies and get her and her friends to helpdecorate. Should I add her on facebook and message her or what?
I seem like such a$%%%*!# because im so self conscious, but it is my biggest guilty fear i have ever had in my life. Everyone I know assumes I get laid all thetime but i Dont, because i am a +*!$$. What should I do with a girl that is the girl of my dreams, and she would take some work...facebook her, call her tohangout to hang up christmas lights..or what?
I realize that the majority of the people on the board are in the same position as me, so they will likely poke fun at me. But honest to god, this it thenumber 1 thing my life I want to change and I am going for desperate measures right now. This is honestly something I would never tell a soul in real life andI am scared to death it cannot change. It really is the number one goal in my life right now to change my social ability around girls. So, if you have anyadvice..let me know