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Originally Posted by CasperJr
i was waiting on you or wally or homer to come thruOriginally Posted by TH0MAS CR0WN
*waits to be called a simp by one of them*
Pretty much..If you're girl is hinting you need to buy her a certain piece of jewelery it's because she's materialistic and insecure.Wait until you're ready, and that's if you even decide to take that step WITH HER. Things change, people change, %#*% happens so why should you have tomake promises? Instead of a piece of jewelery promising her anything, tell her you'll promise to do what you can to make her happy. If that isn'tenough I dont know what to tell you..Originally Posted by Club29
she just wants some jewelery.
materialistic broad
Originally Posted by West2East
I just don't get it at all but maybe because I happen to think the idea of a promise ring is ludicrous. Why the need to stall? Why not communicate about how you're not ready for an engagement? Why not try and get on the same page so that the other party realizes your reasons for not doing so. Maybe it's just me but one party pressuring the other to do something they aren't ready to do doesn't seem like something you should be "rewarded" for. I guess maybe people see it as a compromise?
IDK. All I know is if my SO gave me one I'd think it was silly.
Originally Posted by CIDMAN911
If you know this is THE ONE.Originally Posted by West2East
I just don't get it at all but maybe because I happen to think the idea of a promise ring is ludicrous. Why the need to stall? Why not communicate about how you're not ready for an engagement? Why not try and get on the same page so that the other party realizes your reasons for not doing so. Maybe it's just me but one party pressuring the other to do something they aren't ready to do doesn't seem like something you should be "rewarded" for. I guess maybe people see it as a compromise?
IDK. All I know is if my SO gave me one I'd think it was silly.
You gotta do little things to shut their yap. Even if you do feel you're communicating a lot. There's all these little unwritten laws and codes to relationship happiness that both you and her know just ain't 100% right, but they keep things healthy.
Like I don't know....You wanna go to the strip club with your boys, you tell her, she says its okay. She KNOWS you're gonna act a damn fool up in that place, drunk and touching on mad booty and *******, but to keep things healthy she'll roll with the punches for the sake of the relationship.
It sucks to compromise certain things, but it's what keeps 2 people happy and going.
You're never really gonna find someone to totally agree with you on everything. Even if you spent days communicating on a subject, it's just not gonna happen.
She probably already knows that.Originally Posted by NikeTalker23
Pretty much..If you're girl is hinting you need to buy her a certain piece of jewelery it's because she's materialistic and insecure. Wait until you're ready, and that's if you even decide to take that step WITH HER. Things change, people change, %#*% happens so why should you have to make promises? Instead of a piece of jewelery promising her anything, tell her you'll promise to do what you can to make her happy. If that isn't enough I dont know what to tell you..Originally Posted by Club29
she just wants some jewelery.
materialistic broad
Originally Posted by NikeTalker23
So if you know she's "the one" why not propose? What;s the point of stalling if you know you're going to end up marrying her?S And if you've communicated that you're not ready and you're doing it just to shut your yap I truely feel sorry for your future. If I told my girl I wasn't ready for something then it ends there. There'd be no "well do something to show me you'll be ready in the future". How dumb and childish is that? It just shows insecurity on her part.Originally Posted by CIDMAN911
If you know this is THE ONE.Originally Posted by West2East
I just don't get it at all but maybe because I happen to think the idea of a promise ring is ludicrous. Why the need to stall? Why not communicate about how you're not ready for an engagement? Why not try and get on the same page so that the other party realizes your reasons for not doing so. Maybe it's just me but one party pressuring the other to do something they aren't ready to do doesn't seem like something you should be "rewarded" for. I guess maybe people see it as a compromise?
IDK. All I know is if my SO gave me one I'd think it was silly.
You gotta do little things to shut their yap. Even if you do feel you're communicating a lot. There's all these little unwritten laws and codes to relationship happiness that both you and her know just ain't 100% right, but they keep things healthy.
Like I don't know....You wanna go to the strip club with your boys, you tell her, she says its okay. She KNOWS you're gonna act a damn fool up in that place, drunk and touching on mad booty and *******, but to keep things healthy she'll roll with the punches for the sake of the relationship.
It sucks to compromise certain things, but it's what keeps 2 people happy and going.
You're never really gonna find someone to totally agree with you on everything. Even if you spent days communicating on a subject, it's just not gonna happen.
THISOriginally Posted by Fade On You
A promise ring?
do you realize the mean reason for dating? its not to get the booty its to find somebody to spend the rest of your life with..........is it myfault i just happen to find that person when i was youngOriginally Posted by RenaRene
THISOriginally Posted by Fade On You
A promise ring?
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you're too young. You been with the same chick since you guys were 15, 16.
Do you realize you are missing out on your entire adult dating experience? If you really feel that this person is your soulmate and that doesn't matter, you should just go ahead and get married.
The fact that you aren't feeling that idea....................................................................................jussayin.
Alot of you guys either:
A Haven't been in 4+ year long relationships. Trust me, it's like having been in the damn Army or Marines.
B. Still young & on that macho 'What I say goes' steez. These are the men that end up being the most miserable in relationships/marriage. It's true.
this.
this is the reason why iwhen i see relationship problem threadstaking adivse from dudes that cant even keep they own girl happy(ie the EB's of the world no offense) or even be in a relationship of more then ayear(which is something that most of nt lives by)
Originally Posted by CIDMAN911
She probably already knows that.Originally Posted by NikeTalker23
Pretty much..If you're girl is hinting you need to buy her a certain piece of jewelery it's because she's materialistic and insecure. Wait until you're ready, and that's if you even decide to take that step WITH HER. Things change, people change, %#*% happens so why should you have to make promises? Instead of a piece of jewelery promising her anything, tell her you'll promise to do what you can to make her happy. If that isn't enough I dont know what to tell you..Originally Posted by Club29
she just wants some jewelery.
materialistic broad
She already knows he loves her and makes her happy. And It's most likely gonna fall on deaf ears hearing it over & over again, cause actions do speak louder than words.
When a female you're in a relationship with for that long wants something, She's gonna get what she wants eventually. So for OP it's gonna be engagement sooner than he wanted it, A promise ring that will shut her up for a few years and he can live relaxed, or the eventual demise of the relationship because she's gonna feel he's not trying to be committed 'So what am I wasting my time with him for if he never is gonna be?'.
And no offense to anyone here but...
Alot of you guys either:
A Haven't been in 4+ year long relationships. Trust me, it's like having been in the damn Army or Marines.
B. Still young & on that macho 'What I say goes' steez. These are the men that end up being the most miserable in relationships/marriage. It's true.
I kinda already know what direction OP is gonna in.So good luck with everything brother....