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Nope. Whats a promise ring anyway? I promise to propose to you? Why not just propose then?
Waste of money. Just save for the real thing.
Waste of money. Just save for the real thing.
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Nay.. those are mad corny and childish..
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It's a stall ring.
$500 ring to stall engagement crap for a few years and breathe easy > dealing with engagement crap sooner than you want/have to.
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I dont know about that promise ring. As far as her wanting you to take that next step, im my opinion its too soon for that.
ricekrispies420
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don't do it if you aren't ready... and you seem to not be ready for that.
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this man gets it
but to answer east2west question it can be a wide range of things its just wat the name says but in my case it would be the ring before the engagement ring
I'm for the promise ring only if you mean it.
and i will
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nay 6 years and she just now trying to be wifed
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and i willOriginally Posted by CasperJr
this man gets it
but to answer east2west question it can be a wide range of things its just wat the name says but in my case it would be the ring before the engagement ring
Aaaayyyyyyy....
Who do you think yoose dealing with, eh.
Come on.
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uhm, I think the gesture is nice...but like someone said, a promise ring is HS. Just buy her a nice piece of jewelry, like a tennis bracelet, nice necklace,etc.
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G you gone have to explain this one
at wat point should she been trying to get wifed
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I just don't get it at all but maybe because I happen to think the idea of a promise ring is ludicrous. Why the need to stall? Why not communicate abouthow you're not ready for an engagement? Why not try and get on the same page so that the other party realizes your reasons for not doing so. Maybe it'sjust me but one party pressuring the other to do something they aren't ready to do doesn't seem like something you should be "rewarded" for.I guess maybe people see it as a compromise?
IDK. All I know is if my SO gave me one I'd think it was silly.
IDK. All I know is if my SO gave me one I'd think it was silly.
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my grandpa and grandma were married for 38 yrs and pops used to always tell me theres only 3 rings in a relationship..engagement ring, a wedding ring, andsuffering
so I say Nay
so I say Nay
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this makes sense...
if you dont know how to communicate it with her here's an idea:
Watch: Shes Just Not That Into You
That movie is full of guys who pulled the move too early and end up f ing things up after wards.
and the one dude who waited till he was ready got to live happily ever after...
after you done watching just b like you dont wanna b those broads... you wanna b this one... and so on
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Originally Posted by CasperJr
G you gone have to explain this one
at wat point should she been trying to get wifed
were I'm from girls try to get wifed after 1 year of a relationship mine dont make it that far though
club29
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Whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa...
When the hell did West2East become a mod on this board?
When the hell did West2East become a mod on this board?
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were you from theres alot of dumb people i seeOriginally Posted by jwalker123
Originally Posted by CasperJr
G you gone have to explain this one
at wat point should she been trying to get wifed
were I'm from girls try to get wifed after 1 year of a relationship mine dont make it that far though
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If you know this is THE ONE.
You gotta do little things to shut their yap. Even if you do feel you're communicating a lot. There's all these little unwritten laws and codes torelationship happiness that both you and her know just ain't 100% right, but they keep things healthy.
Like I don't know....You wanna go to the strip club with your boys, you tell her, she says its okay. She KNOWS you're gonna act a damn fool up in thatplace, drunk and touching on mad booty and *******, but to keep things healthy she'll roll with the punches for the sake of the relationship.
It sucks to compromise certain things, but it's what keeps 2 people happy and going.
You're never really gonna find someone to totally agree with you on everything. Even if you spent days communicating on a subject, it's just not gonnahappen.
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As a member of Team Raw......I say you wait until mini-CasperJr
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I'd say, yay/nay. Sometimes chicks need something to believe in I guess. I would go with a necklace before a ring though honestly. That ring finger issomething serious.
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yeah they get wifed because of ur sigOriginally Posted by CasperJr
were you from theres alot of dumb people i seeOriginally Posted by jwalker123
Originally Posted by CasperJr
G you gone have to explain this one
at wat point should she been trying to get wifed
were I'm from girls try to get wifed after 1 year of a relationship mine dont make it that far though
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wow 6yrs? now thats committed..
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You been with her for 6 years and haven't given her ATLEAST a promise ring?
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youre gonna break up or get divorced in the future, I mean you been with her since you were 15, that wont last
that being said, Im never wearing a ring for a female, not even when Im married, and if she wont put up with that, she dont need to marry me
that being said, Im never wearing a ring for a female, not even when Im married, and if she wont put up with that, she dont need to marry me