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Stolen: Is This Another Instance Of Male Insecurity? (People With "Live-In" Please Respond)
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I live with my chick and this would not fly. There are some instances, yes, where I wouldn't mind, but without background I'm gonna say that she was in the wrong.
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I went to Jail stemming from that EXACT same situation.
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dude is insecure. Need a wake up call.
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That ***** gotta go
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DC are you trying to be "that" guy on NT right now?
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You guys get mad over your girl talking on the phone with another guy IN FRONT OF YOU?
Is she not allowed male friends? Would you prefer her be sneaky about it?
That insecurity...
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She wrong. On the other hand wouldn't if shes answering it right in front of her dude then either shes mad disrespectful or it wasnt a big deal. Still she wrong.
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It starts with a simple phone call and before you know it...there is someone at the door saying, "I am here for the gang bang."
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She's wrong. Ain't nothing wrong with having male friends, but having a full blown conversation with dude in front of him is somewhat disrespectful. What is there to talk about?
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Did he ask her first who it was or what it was about?
If he just yelled at her for having spoken to someone else, then he's at fault. But if she was secretive and/or has a history of hiding things, then she's at fault. Either way they have issues to work out (or they should just break up).
If he just yelled at her for having spoken to someone else, then he's at fault. But if she was secretive and/or has a history of hiding things, then she's at fault. Either way they have issues to work out (or they should just break up).
I would say that, except it sounds like they're always around each other. Now, if this was a date or they were in the middle of something together, it's a completely different story. Regardless, the rule should be: if you're going to answer a call or text when I'm around, you better tell me who it is or what it's about.
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Funny story -- that's actually how me and Rawex met.
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What do you mean by random call?
Some random dude she doesn't know?
If it's a male friend it's all good as long as she wasn't flirting and as long as she isn't trying to hide anything when I ask her who was she talking to.
But chatting it up with some random dude :x
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DC you need to keep your "wife" in check,
no wonder you always respond with misogynistic remarks.
you let your woman walk all over you.
no wonder you always respond with misogynistic remarks.
you let your woman walk all over you.
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no biggie
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depends on the time of the call.
If it's in the middle of the day/afternoon and a dude is calling, oh well....could be anything (work, cousin, friend, social, ex-lover, dude trying to smash- either way not much I can really do about that)
But if dude is calling at night, when my girl and I are living together, she needs to know to not even answer that call, and he needs to know to not even make that call.
If it's in the middle of the day/afternoon and a dude is calling, oh well....could be anything (work, cousin, friend, social, ex-lover, dude trying to smash- either way not much I can really do about that)
But if dude is calling at night, when my girl and I are living together, she needs to know to not even answer that call, and he needs to know to not even make that call.
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From what I'm reading, she isn't in any wrong. Her dude needs to be a little realistic and show some trust.
But if it's a random dude rather than a random call....
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Dudes get mad cause everybody knows that dude on the phone is patiently waiting in the shadows for the perfect time to strike word to Sting.
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my girl doesnt have male friends we keep it that way
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No way. I'm gonna need to hear that story sir.
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corny. nothing wrong here, unless me and girl were having dinner or i was spanking her... but if we're just chillin around the apt, **** thats cool with me i'll go watch tv
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You guys get mad over your girl talking on the phone with another guy IN FRONT OF YOU?
Is she not allowed male friends? Would you prefer her be sneaky about it?
That insecurity...
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That's straight insecurity! But I know the female haters are gonna come in and save face.
It's a random call, meaning she didn't know the dude.
Story doesn't even give further details.
It's a random call, meaning she didn't know the dude.
Story doesn't even give further details.