- Nov 17, 2013
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Both: ups/downs during the chase + relationship
I'm interested in how everyone here navigates dating / the qualities you look for / committing to your SO / progressing in the relationship.
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Both: ups/downs during the chase + relationship
I'm interested in how everyone here navigates dating / the qualities you look for / committing to your SO / progressing in the relationship.
- Dec 14, 2003
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My wife and I have been married for 5 years. Been together for 13 years overall. It took her dad a couple years to get used to his daughter dating someone outside her race.
Who ever said Grandchildren change all of that is right. We were cool before the kid, but now it feels like family.
Who ever said Grandchildren change all of that is right. We were cool before the kid, but now it feels like family.
- Jun 9, 2014
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Didn't know this lil gem existed, lemme settle in here...
My wife is cool and understanding. Couple of years ago took a guys trip with little planning, homies came down to TX and made plans to ride with em from Dallas to Austin for a weekend. I try to make sure that I'm open with her about where we staying and planned activities and try to make sure I'm not planning anything that she wants to do with my guys before I do it with her.
My ex before my wife really f*d me up and it took me almost losin' my wife (while we were dating) to really see how important she was to me. My advice is to try your best not to let what some bird did in your past and give your current chick a chance to show you who she really is before you color her with somebody else's brush.
It's hard but if you communicate with her that you have a wall up because of your past experiences and she's mature she will be able and willing to respect that there will be a bit of a wall there
My wife is cool and understanding. Couple of years ago took a guys trip with little planning, homies came down to TX and made plans to ride with em from Dallas to Austin for a weekend. I try to make sure that I'm open with her about where we staying and planned activities and try to make sure I'm not planning anything that she wants to do with my guys before I do it with her.
My ex before my wife really f*d me up and it took me almost losin' my wife (while we were dating) to really see how important she was to me. My advice is to try your best not to let what some bird did in your past and give your current chick a chance to show you who she really is before you color her with somebody else's brush.
It's hard but if you communicate with her that you have a wall up because of your past experiences and she's mature she will be able and willing to respect that there will be a bit of a wall there
Beruseruku Desu
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- Oct 10, 2018
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what does it mean when a girl is responding to your instagram stories multiple times?
- Jul 25, 2012
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Funny cuz I’m the only one out of all siblings that married in my race. Parents favor my kiddos over the rest but it’s good to see them embrace change with my niece and nephews and try to have an open mind. Family bruh, it’s all we got
Hunnynutcheerios
formerly sh0rtyy12
- Oct 11, 2012
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I think that as long as she has a good relationship with yours and your ok with not being close to her its ok. If you guys are serious and long term and can talk and shes ok with them not being close to you just rock it out. Sometimes it takes a parent a while. Also maybe once you guys are married or have kids they'll come around if not their loss. Now if she is super close to her parents and they didnt like you that may cause some issues but if you guys are both cool with it. **** it
- Oct 7, 2007
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I really needed this man. Thanks fam.
What did you do/were you doing to nearly lose your wife? Only if you want to tell the story of course
- Jun 9, 2014
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Man, I smashed one of my exes while we were dating.
In my "defense" I specifically remember me and my wife when we were dating, sitting in my apartment's bathtub and she told me "If you are talking to another girl/smashing another girl just don't tell me". So I took that as, aight I'll do me and keep ish clear. Wifey invited me to her fam's spot around Christmas but I declined because I had already scheduled my ex-ex to come in town for the pipe. Piped Ex-ex down and wifey asked me about it, told her. Completely broke her heart, had to do some romantic ish to make that up.
Then the last thing was she thought I went out of town to Houston to talk to other chicks. Came back had an argument and realized how much I really cared about her and how much I hurt from me hurting her and committed to her that day. July 19th 2013
- Oct 7, 2007
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Damn you got yourself a keeper. I'm so messed up I struggle to initiate making plans with my girl so I don't seem like I need her. Smh
- Jun 9, 2014
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If any of y'all ladies are into make-up and all of that consider this subscription box called Ipsy for her as a monthly "gift". Signed up last month and got this month's box yesterday. They'll get 5 make-up related items each month not including an additional lil make-up bag.
My goal is to get my wife to be used to getting gifts throughout the year so she isn't so amused by holidays like Valentines or Christmas. I'm starting to hate the pressure to give gifts on a specific date to prove appreciation and love.
My goal is to get my wife to be used to getting gifts throughout the year so she isn't so amused by holidays like Valentines or Christmas. I'm starting to hate the pressure to give gifts on a specific date to prove appreciation and love.
- Jun 10, 2006
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I usually get my lady things that she would appreciate or would improve her quality of life. For example, I see a nice t-shirt when I’m out somewhere to include her— or something for her car like a cell phone mount. I don’t try to shower her with gifts just cuz, and she knows that I don’t really care for big gifts on special holidays/birthdays, because generally I always get myself what I want or need already anyway. A simple gesture of appreciation is more than anything
- Jun 10, 2006
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Be yourself, respond back and don’t overthink it. If she’s a baddie, shoot your shot
Beruseruku Desu
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- Oct 10, 2018
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what if I shot and missed but she still responding to my instagram stories? i swear i can never understand females
Hunnynutcheerios
formerly sh0rtyy12
- Oct 11, 2012
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what if I shot and missed but she still responding to my Instagram stories? i swear i can never understand females
shes probably just bored tbh...if you shot your shot and she shot you down means she wasn't interested but might still respond to your stories to kind of keep you hooked and not completely lose interest in her
- Apr 30, 2010
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Lmao, that's dope, inside the mind of women.
Hunnynutcheerios
formerly sh0rtyy12
- Oct 11, 2012
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thats what im here for lol
- Mar 9, 2010
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Hunnynutcheerios
formerly sh0rtyy12
- Oct 11, 2012
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Not gonna lie I died laughing at the Latina thing. I actually posted this on my ig
- Mar 9, 2010
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I love my girl, but that **** cray
- Jan 4, 2008
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Not trying to blow up anyone's spot, but who has the dope couple's vacation hook ups / ideas? 
- Aug 8, 2012
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Been with my girl since June 2018, first met that April. Move in together this past October. I will admit it was a little bumpy in the beginning cause I was a reformed *** out here in these streets I had an individual mindset. She’s opened my eyes to a lot of **** for the better. I’m thinking about proposing to her sometime this fall.
I had an individual mindset. She’s opened my eyes to a lot of **** for the better. I’m thinking about proposing to her sometime this fall.
- Jul 25, 2012
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had a chat with a female and she stated that men nowadays are Lil b’s and complain worse than woman. Lol’d at her comment cuz she still with ol boy but there is validity to it.
- Jul 25, 2012
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NYC was nice in DEC especially cuz we were super high the whole time. Brought a half oz on the plane from Cali.Not trying to blow up anyone's spot, but who has the dope couple's vacation hook ups / ideas?
Funny cause a song will play and nostalgia comes around saying she wants to go back.
- Jan 11, 2014
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Go down to an all inclusive adults only joint in mexico or the Caribbean.Not trying to blow up anyone's spot, but who has the dope couple's vacation hook ups / ideas?
- Mar 9, 2010
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Women are so damn stubborn even when they KNOW they're in the wrong
