TAY '16: The Saga Continues

[2163o1baller]

Yea that's true if he keeps at it I will say something

 

[tdogg2k]

Yea that's true if he keeps at it I will say something

honestly it kind of depends on how long yall been talking. I have about 3 chicks i consider my best friends that i've done nothing with. we just grew up together . We talk all the time, but when we're in relationships we know and communication goes down.

So i would say base it off when you two get more serious.


My girl now has a guy who is a best friend and they've had sex before. but she rarely talks to him, i know him and met him, they're not even remotely interested in each other in a relationship way. I dont feel threatened by dude in the least bit. Im confident enough in myself knowing I give my girl good conversation and good penis enough to where he's not a threat.

pull dude to the side if you feel threatened. thats been done to me by one of my homegirls boyfriends. dude straight up was like hey nothings happened between yall right.. or you dont have feelings for her right. told hommie no. and i meant it. him and I are cool now and he's one of the homies.


Only thing you can do in a relationship is trust. and if you dont trust him/her then talk to him straight up. say you want to meet him. but dont bottle that up anymore if it bothersyou so much

 

[suberzat1]

My girl got a guy best friend I dont trust that dude At all...they've been cool for 6+ years..according to her they haven't done anything...I just find it fishy homie calling and texting her @ this time of night.. Granted this is around the Time she gets off 12:30-1:30..he doesn't do it often I'm going to play it cool..I just don't see how a grown man could befriend a girl for that long and not make a move..maybe it is a strictly platonic relationship

One of my best friends is a girl and we have been cool for 6+(since high school actually). We talk at all times of the night because of the time difference but that is not the full reason. 

I wouldn't but it pass dude wanting to smash but I'm on if you want to step out on me than thats on you.

Can't really worry about the relationship. I know my girl is not happy with our relationship and I know the dudes she sees have something to say about us

 

[franco23x]

My girl got a guy best friend I dont trust that dude At all...they've been cool for 6+ years..according to her they haven't done anything...I just find it fishy homie calling and texting her @ this time of night.. Granted this is around the Time she gets off 12:30-1:30..he doesn't do it often I'm going to play it cool..I just don't see how a grown man could befriend a girl for that long and not make a move..maybe it is a strictly platonic relationship

In both situations currently



Waiting for one to be rocky, and cool with girls with boyfriends

 

[2163o1baller]

I appreciate the feedback y'all and Im honestly not threatened by him at all


Sube if you or your girl not happy why are yall together

As you said b4 is summer in DC

Since I've been with this girl I've noticed Im more a relationship guy than smashing random joints

 

[Mark Antony]

My girl got a guy best friend I dont trust that dude At all...they've been cool for 6+ years..according to her they haven't done anything...I just find it fishy homie calling and texting her @ this time of night.. Granted this is around the Time she gets off 12:30-1:30..he doesn't do it often I'm going to play it cool..I just don't see how a grown man could befriend a girl for that long and not make a move..maybe it is a strictly platonic relationship

If he gets *******, chances are high they've done something at some point, if he doesn't and he's just doting around (not married), he's waiting on his moment. One of my best friends is a bad ***** though, but we got borders.

 

[Mark Antony]

I met this 37 year old chick on bumble 2 weeks ago, literally from jump she was super infatuated. She blew up my phone, texts, calls, everything..We meet up for the first time and she tells me how good looking I am and we spend a hour in the parking lot kissing and shes sucking my fingers and everything! She works 2 jobs and have a 13 year old at home but tells me she doesn't have to work the second job and if she met me before she wouldn't even have that job because she wants to make time for me..She told me she is going to make sure she sees me and this chick literally wants to see me throughout the week (last week)..So literally, like out of nowhere, this week the texts are less frequent, the calls are less frequent..I ask her what day is good for her this week to hang out, she says none, its busy at both jobs (even though shes off from one starting friday-tuesday) So after a few days of this behavior, I confront her (I know, bad move) she tells me how she is busy and I knew before we met she has a kid and works 2 jobs..What the hell? Last week the same person with 2 jobs and a kid was literally blowing me up and wanted to see me, and now she went from 100-0..She said this week she is very busy..I know she is playing me, but my question to guys is just drop her now? Or wait until next week, since this week is "so busy?" I just really want to smash at this point..I'm trying to play it cool, but it kind of makes me angry how much ish she talked just to flip the script on me

Man I just don't know what's wrong with ya'll.

 

[tomdiginson]

Met this new girl and we vibe and click so far which is a huge positive because it's hard to find a girl you can vibe with in different levels , now here's the catch she's celibate....damn damn damn lol Welp look like I won't be getting any for a while lol but she did say if I got horney she would eased it so I gotta wait to see how she does that. But this one might be worth waiting for although I've only know her for a couple of weeks

I cringed reading this.

I met this 37 year old chick on bumble 2 weeks ago, literally from jump she was super infatuated. She blew up my phone, texts, calls, everything..We meet up for the first time and she tells me how good looking I am and we spend a hour in the parking lot kissing and shes sucking my fingers and everything! She works 2 jobs and have a 13 year old at home but tells me she doesn't have to work the second job and if she met me before she wouldn't even have that job because she wants to make time for me..She told me she is going to make sure she sees me and this chick literally wants to see me throughout the week (last week)..So literally, like out of nowhere, this week the texts are less frequent, the calls are less frequent..I ask her what day is good for her this week to hang out, she says none, its busy at both jobs (even though shes off from one starting friday-tuesday) So after a few days of this behavior, I confront her (I know, bad move) she tells me how she is busy and I knew before we met she has a kid and works 2 jobs..What the hell? Last week the same person with 2 jobs and a kid was literally blowing me up and wanted to see me, and now she went from 100-0..She said this week she is very busy..I know she is playing me, but my question to guys is just drop her now? Or wait until next week, since this week is "so busy?" I just really want to smash at this point..I'm trying to play it cool, but it kind of makes me angry how much ish she talked just to flip the script on me

If you were really just trying to smash you would've known to do so within the time she's blowing up your phone and sucking your fingers. You wanted more and ole girl realized your're a simp and she cut you off. Now you're trying to save face talm bout you just wanted to smash. You have this ole washed up broad twirling you around in circles. Some of you need to stop chasing girls and need to find yourselves cause you looking real crazy out here. Wash your face and stop dialing shorty and when she answers you talmbout "oh sorry, it was a pocket dial". After sometime when she can't find no one she'll hit you back up. Hopefully you have enough sense to know what to do then.

 

[mmcmxi]

 
I met this 37 year old chick on bumble 2 weeks ago, literally from jump she was super infatuated. She blew up my phone, texts, calls, everything..We meet up for the first time and she tells me how good looking I am and we spend a hour in the parking lot kissing and shes sucking my fingers and everything! She works 2 jobs and have a 13 year old at home but tells me she doesn't have to work the second job and if she met me before she wouldn't even have that job because she wants to make time for me..She told me she is going to make sure she sees me and this chick literally wants to see me throughout the week (last week)..So literally, like out of nowhere, this week the texts are less frequent, the calls are less frequent..I ask her what day is good for her this week to hang out, she says none, its busy at both jobs (even though shes off from one starting friday-tuesday) So after a few days of this behavior, I confront her (I know, bad move) she tells me how she is busy and I knew before we met she has a kid and works 2 jobs..What the hell? Last week the same person with 2 jobs and a kid was literally blowing me up and wanted to see me, and now she went from 100-0..She said this week she is very busy..I know she is playing me, but my question to guys is just drop her now? Or wait until next week, since this week is "so busy?" I just really want to smash at this point..I'm trying to play it cool, but it kind of makes me angry how much ish she talked just to flip the script on me

what were you originally trying to do with a 37yo with a 13yo kid who's sucking your fingers in parking lots?

 

[stork]

what were you originally trying to do with a 37yo with a 13yo kid who's sucking your fingers in parking lots?

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[adobecs4]

 

what were you originally trying to do with a 37yo with a 13yo kid who's sucking your fingers in parking lots?

 

[tomdiginson]

I understand if it was a young girl and she lead you on and fooled you, cool you learn your lesson and move on. Cats trying to wife up 37 year olds who were ran through on their old block and has a kid with two jobs talmbout she finna make time for you. Homie must have low self esteem. If you're one of them cats posting up pics of shoes you copped in those post my pickup threads and you still cant get no girls, you might as well just sell off all of your shoes.

 

[spizike231]

I understand if it was a young girl and she lead you on and fooled you, cool you learn your lesson and move on. Cats trying to wife up 37 year olds who were ran through on their old block and has a kid with two jobs talmbout she finna make time for you. Homie must have low self esteem. If you're one of them cats posting up pics of shoes you copped in those post my pickup threads and you still cant get no girls, you might as well just sell off all of your shoes.

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[slighted]

 
I met this 37 year old chick on bumble 2 weeks ago, literally from jump she was super infatuated. She blew up my phone, texts, calls, everything..We meet up for the first time and she tells me how good looking I am and we spend a hour in the parking lot kissing and shes sucking my fingers and everything! She works 2 jobs and have a 13 year old at home but tells me she doesn't have to work the second job and if she met me before she wouldn't even have that job because she wants to make time for me..She told me she is going to make sure she sees me and this chick literally wants to see me throughout the week (last week)..So literally, like out of nowhere, this week the texts are less frequent, the calls are less frequent..I ask her what day is good for her this week to hang out, she says none, its busy at both jobs (even though shes off from one starting friday-tuesday) So after a few days of this behavior, I confront her (I know, bad move) she tells me how she is busy and I knew before we met she has a kid and works 2 jobs..What the hell? Last week the same person with 2 jobs and a kid was literally blowing me up and wanted to see me, and now she went from 100-0..She said this week she is very busy..I know she is playing me, but my question to guys is just drop her now? Or wait until next week, since this week is "so busy?" I just really want to smash at this point..I'm trying to play it cool, but it kind of makes me angry how much ish she talked just to flip the script on me

If you have to ask, you already know what to do.

Take the L. Learn the important lesson of not chasing single mothers, especially if you're a single dude with no kids yourself. Don't make this mistake ever again.

My girl got a guy best friend I dont trust that dude At all...they've been cool for 6+ years..according to her they haven't done anything...I just find it fishy homie calling and texting her @ this time of night.. Granted this is around the Time she gets off 12:30-1:30..he doesn't do it often I'm going to play it cool..I just don't see how a grown man could befriend a girl for that long and not make a move..maybe it is a strictly platonic relationship

The seed of distrust is planted. What you do now is up to you.

 

[011781]

lot of things I can relate with on the past 2 pages.... 

I have a female best friend, but she's gay, so that changes things up a bit.... HOWEVER... she's told me that even tho she's never been with a guy, she said she's not totally ruling it out

and about 2 months ago I met this chick on Tinder... she wanted to meet up after we talked for a few days so cool, whatever 

date went extremely well....  went out again a few days later and she ends up coming home with me... best sex I've had in a long time 

when we first started talking, I referred to her to my best friend as "Boring" because our texts conversations were wack... we vibed so much better in person

another couple days pass and I see her again....  she ends up spending the night and hanging with me basically the entire weekend.... sex was even better than the first time 

next week rolls around and she's being all distant, like dude described in the story above.....  

i'm all about consistency.... a lack of consistency tells me you're a flake and I don't deal with flakes.... whether friends or more than friends, don't be suss... aint got time for that 

so i text her like hey, past two weeks was cool.... was nice meeting you... a nice, polite adult goodbye 

she ends up calling me hours later going the **** off, talking **** .... it was at that point I knew she was bat **** crazy and that's why a girl so good looking with so much going for her was having so many issues with dudes 

 

[ogmcmxcii]

what were you originally trying to do with a 37yo with a 13yo kid who's sucking your fingers in parking lots?

[emoji]128563[/emoji] Yoooooooo I'm out for today [emoji]9996[/emoji][emoji]127996[/emoji]️

 

[hennessy]

I understand if it was a young girl and she lead you on and fooled you, cool you learn your lesson and move on. Cats trying to wife up 37 year olds who were ran through on their old block and has a kid with two jobs talmbout she finna make time for you. Homie must have low self esteem. If you're one of them cats posting up pics of shoes you copped in those post my pickup threads and you still cant get no girls, you might as well just sell off all of your shoes.

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How will selling all of his shoes help anything?

 

[ogmcmxcii]

Like I told EyeSeeSole when i posted under Sole Blessed

Women (Young or middle aged) with Kids are looking for a older man to take care of them both

The only thing you should have done was go for the smash when the opportunity presented itself

can't be out here crying to a 37 year old mom bro

Looking all types of bad

 

[tomdiginson]

How will selling all of his shoes help anything?

I'm pretty sure he's only copping thinking it will help him land women.

 

[doxen5703]

I'm crying!

 

[suberzat1]

I appreciate the feedback y'all and Im honestly not threatened by him at all


Sube if you or your girl not happy why are yall together

As you said b4 is summer in DC

Since I've been with this girl I've noticed Im more a relationship guy than smashing random joints

O my bad I was still a little drunk this morning but I meant I know my girl is not happy with me and my best friend relationship for how we talk. She says that I am flirting with her on the phone. Me and my girl are good tho.

But if anything was to happen between us it is summer in DC 

I want to provide this thread with soooooo many stories

 

[hennessy]

Like I told EyeSeeSole when i posted under Sole Blessed

Women (Young or middle aged) with Kids are looking for a older man to take care of them both

The only thing you should have done was go for the smash when the opportunity presented itself

can't be out here crying to a 37 year old mom bro

Looking all types of bad

Oh you are the same person as Sole Blessed? That makes sense. Didn't you and EyeSeeSoles both get banned from this thread?

A lot of single mothers who are good, responsible parents are able to take care of themselves independently and are usually very protective of their kids. Everyone is looking for companionship, but I know many single mothers who are BOSSES on their own and aren't looking an older man (or any man) to take care of them.

I agree he should've gone for the smash while she was sucking his fingers in the parking lot though.

 

[Thierry Henry]

Spoiler

I met this 37 year old chick on bumble 2 weeks ago, literally from jump she was super infatuated. She blew up my phone, texts, calls, everything..We meet up for the first time and she tells me how good looking I am and we spend a hour in the parking lot kissing and shes sucking my fingers and everything! She works 2 jobs and have a 13 year old at home but tells me she doesn't have to work the second job and if she met me before she wouldn't even have that job because she wants to make time for me..She told me she is going to make sure she sees me and this chick literally wants to see me throughout the week (last week)..So literally, like out of nowhere, this week the texts are less frequent, the calls are less frequent..I ask her what day is good for her this week to hang out, she says none, its busy at both jobs (even though shes off from one starting friday-tuesday) So after a few days of this behavior, I confront her (I know, bad move) she tells me how she is busy and I knew before we met she has a kid and works 2 jobs..What the hell? Last week the same person with 2 jobs and a kid was literally blowing me up and wanted to see me, and now she went from 100-0..She said this week she is very busy..I know she is playing me, but my question to guys is just drop her now? Or wait until next week, since this week is "so busy?" I just really want to smash at this point..I'm trying to play it cool, but it kind of makes me angry how much ish she talked just to flip the script on me

bro didn't something like this happen to you with 2 different women? Didn't we all give you good advice in this thread and you didn't listen? You gotta learn when to move on, take this L.

Spoiler

My girl got a guy best friend I dont trust that dude At all...they've been cool for 6+ years..according to her they haven't done anything...I just find it fishy homie calling and texting her @ this time of night.. Granted this is around the Time she gets off 12:30-1:30..he doesn't do it often I'm going to play it cool..I just don't see how a grown man could befriend a girl for that long and not make a move..maybe it is a strictly platonic relationship

In the words of Kendrick Lamar
"And I don't wife 'em if a n_ is her best friend"

 

[suberzat1]

 

[011781]

Women (Young or middle aged) with Kids are looking for a older man to take care of them both

 

smh... 

this is utter nonsense